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lynn, No Prov RI — Tue, 01 May 2007 20:17:57 GMT

oh i am so so sorry , i have tears in my eyes and a sickness in my bones, . I am a mother and a gransmother , i cont and cant imaganine what u went thru and still go thru , To think that a 19 got please sickins me !!! Isnt it funny how the police in some areas are just too stupid to see what is right in front of them im sorry for that and i belive better insight is needed . I am glad to hear u remarried and your oldest has another in her life. Im sure she will never get over that incident as for Shari, im sure she is suffering in a way only a mother ccould no , shari my heart goes ou to you too . Love ( really ) lynn from RI.

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Jane — Wed, 02 May 2007 00:54:11 GMT

I'm so sorry this has happen to you and your family. I feel for you. No , I haven't lost anyone, but yout story is just sad!

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Robin Drumm Battle Creek MI — Wed, 02 May 2007 01:06:42 GMT

I believe police just look for the easy answer instead of what is the truth.They badger the person into a confession. Their work is now done. Not even a confession from the real killer will change their minds. That might mean more work.They wonder why some officers get a bum rap?? Think guys think. People are tired of this kind of thinking.

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Bob Mahopac NY — Wed, 02 May 2007 01:07:27 GMT

This is a horrible story. I just happened to see it on dateline. 10 years is not enough for the individual responsible for this. I hope you find some kind of closure to this. Find some comfort in knowing that Amy is with God. This killer will have to spend eternity in hell.

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Liv, Louisville, Kentucky — Wed, 02 May 2007 01:08:08 GMT

I was just watching this on TV and was shocked to see it. I can't imagine what it would be like for me if that happened to any of my family. I can't even imagine how I'd feel.

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Randy, Kansas City, MO — Wed, 02 May 2007 01:11:18 GMT

Tom I just watched your story on Dateline. I cant imagine the horror you and your family have lived for nearly 3 years. My heart goes out to you and your family and can only hope that someday you will be able to put this all behind you and grieve your loss. You are a true hero to your daughters for having dedicated your life to solving and finding truth in this horrible horrible tragedy. Please stay strong as the rest of your family still needs you. I have all the confidence in the world that Amy is watching you now and is so proud to have such wonderful parents. My heart goes out to you and your family.

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Joni — Wed, 02 May 2007 01:13:59 GMT

I can't understand how anyone could take life from a child!!!!!! I have 3 boys and could not imagine any of them being charged with such a crime we all think we know our kids perhaps Chris has been slow to realize what he did was wrong> .Its hard to know my prayers are with you.God only knows the truth and bless you.Let your faith lead you to the truth

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Pam Sherwood, Port Charlotte, FL — Wed, 02 May 2007 01:14:27 GMT

Tom - My emotions are so high, I don't know where to begin. There is so much on my heart but I'll try to keep this brief. You were duped by the justice system and then victimized over and over again. But you were not the only victim, so was Jonathan amidst many others. When will we stop allowing "bullies" to abuse our children and intimdate them into confessing? This is the most egregious and deplorable and shameful act of supposed professionalism imaginable! I can hardly stomach it!! Thank you so much for sharing a very painful story and revealing your deep pain. I have learned from it and can relate to you on so many levels - too many to name in this blog. God Bless!

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Tom A. Grills, Melbourne, FL — Wed, 02 May 2007 01:15:59 GMT

My most sincere sympathies and condolences in your family troubles. I will remember you and Amy and the rest of your family in prayers. In a spirit of jurisprudence, I would like to share an already known case of wrongful conviction that has the same legal hallmarks of prosecutorial and police malfeasance. I speak of the man, Wilton Dedge of Brevard County, FL. In 1982 he was convicted of rape and sentenced to life. The witness was a known jailhouse rat, but considered a good witness for court. Ha. So, Dedge gets one DNA test which fails to exonerate him. Well, it was old science and a later try established that the DNA did not match. Now this is a finding with the improved DNA protocols and is absolute. So, to a Scientific Certainty, Wilton Dedge is proven innocent. The DA never offered to right the wrong. They knew that Dedge was innocent, even to the point of agreeing with the new DNA evidence. That didn't matter to the current prosecutor, who was not part of the team that convicted Dedge in the first place. Citing the "timing" being to late to file an appeal, they managed to keep him in jail for 3 more years while the higher courts took their time to release him. To further twist the knife, after 22 years of an unjust and probably criminally prosecuted miscarriage of justice, the state did not even want to pay him dollar one for completely ruining the life of an innocent man. You can share this with your lawyer (if he isn't already on it)as additional anecdotal evidence of standard prosecutorial misfeasance and malfeasance. Good Luck and Give 'em Hell

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Michelle Levy, Chapin, South Carolina — Wed, 02 May 2007 01:16:02 GMT

Tonight I sat and watched Dateline NBC. I was very moved by the show. My thoughts and prayers are with you Tom and your family. I pray that justice will be served. God bless you..

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Yvonne Wilson, Ocala, FL — Wed, 02 May 2007 01:16:51 GMT

I heard this story for the first time tonight when it aired on NBC's Dateline.. And I have to say that I am completely outraged!!! First for the poor family who lost their daughter but also for the family of the boy who was wrongly convicted..What kind of a police department is this??? All i can say is that i am sure glad that my family and i do not live in Carroll County Georgia. I majored in Criminal Justice in college. Although i didn't pursue a career in that field i sure know enough to know that the way this "So Called" Police Department responded is absoulutely ridiculous and they should all be fired !!! At least the ones who handled this case!!!!! But back to the families. I sure hope Mr. Yates gets the justice he seeks and the one who did do it spends more than a decade in jail. I know that will never bring back his little girl.. but at least he might be able to sleep at night knowing his daughter's killer is in prison where he belongs!!!I have an 8 year old little girl and a 6 year old boy.. they are my life ..i could not go on with out them.. Mr. Yates.. I just cant imagine the pain you are going through and I sure hope i never have to.. But my thoughts and my prayers are with you. God Bless you, your family, and your little girl Amy...May she rest in peace...

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Nathan G. Tuscaloosa,Alabama — Wed, 02 May 2007 01:19:00 GMT

I saw the story and the devistation on msnbc tonight,It is a horrindous event that nobody should endure.God Bless u Tom.I believe that both boys had something to do with it,I believe that the slim boy got Chris to do it for whatever reasons.Both of them should have been charged with this murder of your precious daughter.What a system we have,its a shame.

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robert r. onalaska tx — Wed, 02 May 2007 20:58:20 GMT

I also saw this on Dateline last night, and I was shocked at the attitude of this boy. I saw no remorse or sympathy for your family. It was like it was just another accident like knocking over a lamp. It is obvious to me that this young man knew he was doing wrong and didn't want to get caught. My heart goes out to you and your family. Only God could know why these unspeakable acts of violence happens to such innocent children.God bless

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Kim Barr, Omaha, NE — Wed, 02 May 2007 21:02:05 GMT

This is said and the sentencing for the 19 year old murderer is absolutely unbeliveable. My sister is developmentally delayed, her iq is 59. she knows the differance between right and wrong and she knows you do not hurt people. she is now 47 and has never hurt anyone. should she have been the one to take an innocent life such as your daughters, i would want them to punsih her to the fullest extent of the law. what type of message does this send to others? i will pray for your family and my heart truly aches for you.

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Jennifer Powers Tifton, GA — Wed, 02 May 2007 21:03:26 GMT

I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words, I could type to comfort you, I have lost someone my bestfriend I realize this doesnt compare to a child but I know the hurt you wake up with every day never goes away. You probably wake up and have to relive everything all over again. But you are doing the right thing. I am so sorry your story makes me cry and I will tell her story and pray for your family

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Rebecca Smith Omaha, Ne — Wed, 02 May 2007 21:11:19 GMT

I am sorry to hear of your loss. i could never imagine lossing my little babies. And when you found out that it was someone that you trusted to be someone you could trust... WHAT IN THE WORLD IS A 16 YEAR OLD GETTING THAT KIND OF STUFF FROM. What is the world coming to letting kids do things like this. I hope things get alittle better for you.

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herbert, chennai, TN india — Wed, 02 May 2007 21:22:09 GMT

after reading this i had tears in my eyes. My condolenses to you and your family.

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TAMMY PORTER GILLETTE,WY — Wed, 02 May 2007 21:24:26 GMT

I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT ITS LIKE TO LOSE A CHILD MY SON WAS MURDERED 17 MONTHS AGO BECAUSE HE TURNED IN A CHILD MOLESTER. HE WAS 16 YEARS OLD. MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, IT DOESN'T GET EASIER AND IT NEVER ENDS BUT KNOW MY SON WILL BE LOOKING OUT FOR YOUR DAUGHTER. JUSTICE WILL BE SERVED IN ONE WAY OR THE OTHER, EITHER IN THIS LIFE OR THE NEXT. GOD BLESS YOU.

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Cheryl — Wed, 02 May 2007 21:28:11 GMT

Now I see how someone could easy just decide to take the law into their own hands & get their own jsutice- as they see fit- I dont know how this father prevents himself from seriously harming that man. citizens may need to soon take over anyway=-justice is sanity How so sorry I feel for this grieveing family- what a slap in the face

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Rosa Valencia — Wed, 02 May 2007 21:29:27 GMT

Tom, My heart is hurting for you and your family. I really don't understand how anybody could do such a thing even if he was a minor. I really don't understand the justice system. I belive if you take anybodys life even if your a minor should serve life or death. That is wrong! May God bless you and your family always! Just remember that she is watching over all of you!!!

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Leta E., Marietta, Georgia — Wed, 02 May 2007 21:34:02 GMT

I remember hearing about this terrible tradegy as it unfolded, being a Georgia resident myself. I can't imagine losing my daughter, especially at such a young age and in such a brutal manner. My heart aches for your family, and for the beautiful child taken from you. The young boy initially charged was a victim as well. I pray your family and his, by the grace of God, will be able to find peace one day.

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Kymmi, Atlanta, Ga — Wed, 02 May 2007 21:34:27 GMT

I am a mother of a 3 year old boy who I love more than anything in this world and I can't imagine my life without him. Your story have really hurt my heart just like any other time that I hear that someone have taken a innocent childs life. May God bless you and your family.

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Marnie Carter, San Francisco, California — Wed, 02 May 2007 21:37:12 GMT

wow. I don't even know how to respond. I am numb. My heart cries when reading your words. May Amy rest in peace.

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Brenda Parody, Watertown, NY — Wed, 02 May 2007 21:39:38 GMT

I can't even imagine what you are going through, I am a mother and grandmother and I feel so lost when my only grandson leaves me for his home! Having to live the rest of your life without your child is the most devastating thing a person can go through. No one should have to do that. My heart goes out to you and your family.

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Ronald Task — Wed, 02 May 2007 21:47:31 GMT

It is very sad,that all the groups feel sorry for the criminal. what if it was there girl or there grand baby.I think anyone that is old enough to do a crime like this should be hanged by the balls at the town square, and all tree hunging criminal lovers should have to hold the dead bodies in there arms for hours.If you touch a kid for any wrong reason you need to be treat to a life in prison with baba packing your peanut butter daily and people that say oh is IQ or he is not right in the head should spend time with baba also...

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S. Worley, Shreveport, LA — Wed, 02 May 2007 21:54:48 GMT

I don't even know what to say - my heart breaks for you and your family. I can only pray that God will heal your heart and bring you peace. May Amy rest in peace.

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Robert WolfEagle Denver Colorado — Wed, 02 May 2007 22:03:18 GMT

Tom, My heart is with you as are my prayers. I lost both my wife and son to a drunk driver many years ago, so I know the pain you are feeling. The driver who killed them served 18 months. I agree that the system does not work in the victims' favor and all family members and friends are victims as well. It affects all. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. The pain lessens a little as years go by, but the emptiness lingers. I hope you find some peace soon. My deepest sympathy to you and yours,

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Jamila Frank — Wed, 02 May 2007 22:08:16 GMT

Hi,I'm 14 and I just read your heartbreaking story on the net.I'm so sorry for you.I'm sending condolences all the way from Grenada in the Caribbean.

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hop sung — Wed, 02 May 2007 22:11:01 GMT

IM SORRY TOM.

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kevin milwaukee wisc — Wed, 02 May 2007 22:11:30 GMT

man im sorry this is so terrible i feel bad for the father and the boy who spent that time in prision for something he did not do.as for the boy who did it if that was my child he did that to he would of never made it to the court room.

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Gloria, Hesperia, CA — Wed, 02 May 2007 22:20:39 GMT

I have a 6 year old daughter, and just the thought that something like that could happen to her keeps me up most nights. I watch her like a hawk, but they are never really safe are they? My heart and my prayers go out to you and yours, it's a damn shame that our justice system is so determined to help the wrong person in this case. It sounds like the person knew what he was doing was wrong or else he wouldn't have taken her somewhere where no one would see, try to keep her quiet and then hide her body. All that shows intent and the fact that he knew right from wrong, there should be no mercy for a predator like that.

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monica ridgely, tn. — Wed, 02 May 2007 22:22:55 GMT

i am a loving mom of three beautiful kids and i can say with all my heart, i can completely feel the pain that you and your are suffering! my kids are my life and i am so very sorry that this horrible thing was inflicted on your daughter. i commend you for all you did to clear the innocent boy of the wrongful charges and helped to nab the real monster!god be with you and your family and please always know that your little angel is still smiling down on you all. here's to wishing all of you happier days and peace of heart and mind. god bless you!

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M. G. Vancouver, BC — Wed, 02 May 2007 22:27:31 GMT

My thoughts and prayers are with you, Tom. I have not lost a child but if anything happened to my son, I know I will not be able to go on. I hope that your daughter's soul rest in peace and that you and your family remember all the good memories of her. I wish Shari all the best.

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Carlin Markman,cayman island — Wed, 02 May 2007 22:28:38 GMT

Tom i read your story and feel so sad. every morning and night i pray for the children around the world that our(LORD JESUS)who love them so mutch will keep them all safe,i have one son four daughters and three grand sons and i dont know how i would feel if eny thing happen to one of them. may (GOD) bless your family,we have never had that happen in the cayman island, so i dont understand why wicked peoplee kill little babys just know she is in heaven happy with the other kids, may GOD help you to forgive and fine peace

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RENEE,BIRMINGHAM,AL — Wed, 02 May 2007 22:35:14 GMT

Tom I am so very sorry about your beautiful ANGEL, but know that GOD loves you and I PRAY for you and your family right now.

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Rande, California — Wed, 02 May 2007 22:42:29 GMT

I was sadden when I read your story. Yet I wasn't surprised at how the system handled the case. My daughter, at a young age of 6 was sexually molested in Tennessee. The attorney that was assigned to the case refused because of conflict of interest,(she had a friend who once dated the perpetrator and he was found naked in the room with her young daughter, who also was naked.)Anyway, the perpetrator was given a sentence of 24 years but plea bargained and got only 6 yeaars in prison. A law was passed after he was sentenced that all sex offenders have to register. Those sex offenders who offended before the law came in don't have to register. My daughter, who is now 22, has to live with this the rest of her life and the perpetrator gets off with only 6 years and now can go on with his life, to do as he pleases.

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M.J.K. Colorado — Wed, 02 May 2007 22:45:11 GMT

I feel bad for you! That's simply terrible that the kid who did it isn't getting a life sentence! My sincere sympathy to you and your family! God Bless You and Be With You!

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Esmeralda, Santa Ana, Ca — Wed, 02 May 2007 22:47:57 GMT

I just read your story and I can understand what you're feeling one of my cousins was kidnapped and murdered it has been 20 yrs and they never found the person who did it. Not a day goes by that I don't think of her and what was robbed from all of us. We were robbed of watching her grow up and many more things. But I think if the laws in this country were more strict against child predators there would not be a lot them doing what they do. They give them a slap on the hand with a 2yr sentence or whatever and they are out on the streets and in our neighborhoods without us knowing and they do it again and again. But I think when it hasn't happend to you, it's hard to understand. If this had happened to the presidents daughter or the governors daughter I would bet they would look at it very differently.

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peter richards, summerfield,florida — Wed, 02 May 2007 22:59:42 GMT

this is the first i heard of this case. I felt like Mr. yates was really wronged by the police dept and the prosecuter's office in that town.With the forensic dept's today,how could this ever happen. then the all important confession,knowing about the girls pants etc,what is wrong with the police down there. then they don't want to prosicute.god bless you mr yates for your patience. your daughter is looking down on you from heaven.

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Desiree Hammond Indiana — Wed, 02 May 2007 23:00:59 GMT

It's a shame that in this day and age that the police still cant get it together when it comes to child crimes. I agree, if a minor do something he should be punished. It's a shame you get more time for selling drugs than you do for murder. Also, the other tragedy was the divorce. I never understand how when couples are faced with a problem why it seperates at the core instead of making it work and not settling for anything else. Im very glad you are happy now and so sorry for your loss.

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Darius Lundberg, Santa Barbara, CA — Wed, 02 May 2007 23:03:21 GMT

Robin Drumm of Battle Creek Michigan, totally hit the nail on the head with his contributing comment, like nobody else's. It is absolutely infuriating.

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David Goard Davisbury Michigan — Wed, 02 May 2007 23:05:30 GMT

I'm so sorry for your lost. I just wanted to let you know that I do understand your lost. I losted my Daughter Four years ago too cancer. I don't wish that on anyone. katlingoard.com I just know that Amy and Katlin anr playing right now, and are best of Freinds. God Bless you and your Family.

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Louise Watson, New Orleans. LA — Wed, 02 May 2007 23:14:50 GMT

I have a son who is sitting in jail for something he didn't do while the real criminals are out doing the same crimes. The Police only want to make an arrest to try and say that they are solving the crime problem. God forbid if you have a past record and is trying to go straight. Forgive me for going on but I am truly sorry about the loss of your daughter and what your family had to go through.

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Arlene B.,St.Pete., FL — Wed, 02 May 2007 23:16:45 GMT

Our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family. It is impossible to imagine how it would feel to lose a child especially at such a young age and Lord knows I hope nobody else has to go through what you and your family has had to endure. The victim (Amy) should not be victimized again by her perp getting away with such a horrible crime and only serving a minimal amount of time. He should be deprived of "freedoms" and benefits of being able to socialize with his family and friends. My family and I are truly sorry for your loss and pray things will get easier with time.

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Jackie — Wed, 02 May 2007 23:19:26 GMT

You need to rely on God. Believe me, he is with the daughter you lost. She cannot be hurt again, and he blesses her for having to endure what she did. She is Safe!! Know this in your heart, and lean on God, with all your faith. For your pain, God will find ways to make you find ways to deal with it. God never allows us to go thru anything, without a way out. But we have to see the way out. Sometimes it's so hard to see the way out of the pain, because the pain is so unbearable...it feels like that's all there can be. Life here is just a parenthesis in infinite time for your precious little girl, and you and your family. You will see her again, in a way that there will be no memory of this incident and all will be well, and safe, and happy. I believe God allows evil to do this to lives... for one he now has your daughter in his care, right? That would lead you and your family to his care right? Then, when life become eternity... you will all be together in his care. Some families don't get to do that... you will. Sure, it's hard to imagine now,... but it's real. Believe me, it's so real. God does not do evil... but he gives us free will, to love, and that included a choice to be evil. People make that choice, unknowing the lasting effects, but death is still a lie. God has plans for us all beyond death... go to God, where she is... he will get you thru it all. And later you will understand the entire process of life, learning, choices, mistakes, and death. And it will never happen again. I have lost a child too , in a different kind of a way... it's the hardest. Love her still, love her mother, and sister, and all others,...even love the child that committed this horrible act. Love God because there is life beyond this. Try so extra hard for forgiveness... and this releases her and your family for a better faith and love and blessings from God. Release her from that hold... forgive him. Love you, and your family, because your creations of God J

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Misty, Poughkeepsie, NY — Fri, 29 Jun 2007 04:45:38 GMT

Your family has experienced not only the loss of your beautiful daughter but, of faith in the justice system.
You have been victimized over & over again by people with the power to do us. It's a shame that the people we put in a position to serve & protect,can cause harm & destruction. The bigger problem is everything turns into a huge cover up. When will these people be held accountable for the wrongs that have damaged peoples lives forever. How do they sleep? Sounds like crimminal behavior to me.

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Chrystal Lopez, Fedral Way, Wash. — Fri, 29 Jun 2007 04:47:02 GMT

I am ten years old. Iread your story about Amy's murder and I almost cried. I really hope that your family recovers from this.

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Fran, Kansas City, Kansas — Fri, 29 Jun 2007 04:52:59 GMT

All of the bloggers have expressed sentiments felt by many. I saw a small portion of this on T.V. tonight. Then I did a little research and found this page. I am thankful that the dad shared so much. It helps me grasp this situation more fully and am grateful to those who have expressed so much compassion. God Bless All.

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jen, california — Fri, 29 Jun 2007 07:13:16 GMT

What a beautiful daughter! I am so sorry for your loss. It shouldn't have happened. I am sure she was so special and wonderful and I can not believe someone would harm her that way. I send my blessings to your new found family and hope that only wonderful things come your way.

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michael charlestown — Fri, 29 Jun 2007 07:16:49 GMT

hi i watched and read you story and it is sickening that one of her friends would brutally murder a girl who was so small and i wish the best for you and your family and all other family's that have had children killed and i semd my remorce to you and all of you family

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Justice Boler,Philadelphia,Mississippi — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 03:07:37 GMT

May she rest in peace.This is so sad.If something happen to me.I'll be with her.

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Justice Boler,Philadelphia,Mississippi — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 03:17:33 GMT

May she rest in peace.It is so sad.If something happen to me.I'll be with Amy?

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Sassie, Louisville, KY — Tue, 07 Aug 2007 06:04:25 GMT

Hi. I just watched this on msnbc and I wish you and your family, including your ex-wife, emotional healing. I'm sorry this broke up your family. I have to say, though, that the first time I saw the Gosset boy, I knew he was the one who did it and I knew why. I'm surprised that the police did not utilize a forensic psychologist or a child psychologist, at the very least, in their questioning and their assessment. Individuals with low IQs are often much more sexually active than their higher IQ'd cohorts because they lack impulse control. The Gosset boy should have been questioned by someone who is familiar and experienced in working with these populations. I do have to agree with you that the law enforcement officials looked foolish. To me, they looked very foolish because they thought the Gosset boy was incapable of doing this because of his IQ! That's absolutely ludicrous. This boy was probably curious about sex, perhaps even to the point of obsession, and even a retarded person knows what's right and what's wrong. That's why he didn't speak up for two years - he knew what he had done was wrong, not just for killing your daughter, but for molesting her. Emotions are often felt much more strongly in individuals with low IQs because they lack the mentality to temper their emotions with reason. That's why they often do things that are impulsive and not well thought out. I am glad to hear that the Gosset boy will be tried as an adult. As I'm sure you are now well aware, be very leary of an older boy, particularly one who has a lower IQ, who has an interest in a little girl, or a little boy, for that matter. These individuals will naturally seek sex with someone they feel close to in age, particularly someone with whom they are familiar and have easy access. A 16 year old boy, even one who has the mental capacity of an 8-10 year old, still has the raging hormones and the body of a 16 year old. I hope you and the Adams boy have made amends. I blame the police department for this error. Grieving parents, in particular, cannot be objective and most people tend to believe what the police tell them. I hope you're not beating yourself up over this. But I do hope you've made amends. Good luck to you and your family, and God Bless.

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Diane, Colorado Springs, CO — Sat, 18 Aug 2007 09:19:46 GMT

Tom, this is the first time I've heard of Amy's story and I am so sorry you had to go through this. I have a daughter myself that just turned nine. She is my only child and I can't imagine losing her. I am so glad to hear Danielle lives with you. You can heal together. Take care of each other!

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Jamie, Clinton, IN — Sat, 18 Aug 2007 16:19:49 GMT

2 years ago my husband and I lost our 3 month old son to SIDS. My heart goes out to you. Because there is no known cause for SIDS, I understand how it feels to lose a child and have more questions than answers. I still find myself wondering if it was something that I did or if something was wrong with him that I didn't see. As parents who lost a child, we will always question our actions or in-actions. However, God has a reason and everyone has a purpose. Amy is in a much better place with my Harley and they are always watching over us.

May God bless and keep you.

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Cassandra Vauxhall, Alberta — Sat, 18 Aug 2007 17:04:28 GMT

I am so sorry for your loss. I am a parent and even though I have never experienced this, WOW! It brought tears, I hope through God, faith, love and humanity you get the results that you need.

May Amy live on forever in your heart and through good deeds done in her memory.

God bless all of your family members! That day Amy was found not only changed all of your lives but changed the course that all your lives were to take. I hope you all find peace and justice for Amy!!!!

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cheryl lynn avondale, arizona — Sun, 19 Aug 2007 00:43:59 GMT

i have a 22 year old son and a 6 year old daughter and i can't imagine the horrific pain you and your families must be and going through. my thoughts and prayers are with you all. we as parents and a nation need to ban together in many ways to protect our and each others children. as well as changing the laws that somehow seen to protect the guilty trash and not us and our innocent children.

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Chandra Cole, West Point, GA — Mon, 20 Aug 2007 02:13:37 GMT

I cannot and will not tell you that I know how you feel, because I have never lost a child. I do know, though, that God heals the broken heart. Know that God has your little girl cuddled in His arms and is taking very good care of her. He has to. She is His child. She was His before He lent her to you. All things that happen isn't meant for us to understand in this life. I know you miss her, but don't let her death be in vain. I feel, from her drawing, that she loved God, so you carry on her love for God. That way, her death won't be in vain. She will be smiling down on you for it.

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Jennifer, San Diego, CA — Mon, 20 Aug 2007 06:43:01 GMT

My heart goes out to you and your family! I am a mother of 3 and I can't imagine loosing one of them! To any type of death, much less something like this. I am sorry that you and your wife could not find a way to stay together, but most often, this type of stress tears at people even more and it is hard to withstand the normal pressures..... I hope that both of you can find happiness and move on from this tragedy. I hope Danielle can live a normal life and live in fear, or agony of what happened to her sister. But she was young at the times, so hopefully she can move on as well. May God bless you all. I also thought that it was the Gosset boy, and not the one they orginally charged. I hate the way the police department handled this case! They were really idiots in this case.... they never even looked at any other possibilites. They latched on
to the Adams boy and never even considered any other person could have commited the crime. The lead investigator sure has a hard time saying I screwed up!!!!! Good luck with the remainder of the case!
I hope the the sentence Chris Gosset to much more than 2 years.... but no matter what, no matter what amount of time the give him, it will never bring back Amy.... and there really is NO amount of time they could give him to make ammends for that!~~ Again I am so so sorry for your loss.

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Nanci Lemburg, Gardnerville, NV — Mon, 20 Aug 2007 06:50:35 GMT

Mr. Yates, my heart and eyes hurt after watching this story tonight of your lovely daughter, Amy, and of her death. The conviction of murder by 12-year-old Johnathon Adams, and your changing the law regarding time to be served for murder by a juvenile - I totally commend you for. Then finding out that Chris Gosette, age 16, confessed to your daughter's murder and what he said regarding unzipping her pants, etc. and the sheriff's dept not disclosing certain information for the D.A. is appalling! But you know what... This is how the sheriff's departments operate. Unfortunately, you are left with a system having victimized you, and your family. Especially your daughter, Amy. However, rest assure, the public watching this story has learned valuable information along with realizing this could happen to any of us and our loved children as well. It doesn't help any for me to say that, but it is all I can offer. It angers me how law enforcement gets away with this! I guarantee if it was one of their own this never would have happened! Furthermore, this bit of cops drilling people over and over, especially young people, must STOP! It messes up a conviction by doing that. I feel the cops and the district attorney both did not want to prosecute the Chris Gosette case because he is mentally challenged. He doesn't seem mentally challenged enough to have not thought of sex! And killing someone is nonetheless murder. I always think of the victim. Amy died due to his actions. Two years is ridiculous for a time served of murder or lesser charges (to try and keep him out of jail). When Chris Gosette used God and his baptism as a remake on HIS personal life... that was the same as a convicted killer's guilt that they use every day.. GOD. I think Chris Gosette is alot smarther than the local sheriff's department!

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Linda, Auburn, Washington — Mon, 20 Aug 2007 14:54:01 GMT

Dear Mr. Yates,
Please accept my condolences in your grief that now I and many others share with you and the families involved.
I believe some sort of "restorative justice" might best ease the pain for all those whose lives have been touched adversely by this unfortunate event.
Perhaps you, your ex-wife, the Gosset boy and his family, and even the other boy and his family might better address or repair your hearts by perhaps speaking to other retarded youths--ages 12-16. And also talk to their parents. Chris' mother could talk to mothers of mentally disabled boys, and you can talk to fathers of boys like Chris. They need to know probably how to deal with thier hormones and sexual development. Possibly you and others of us who grieve with you can encourage pregnant women and new mothers get omega oils and other nutrients to best chances for highest brain function. (Can also help prevent post-partum depression).
You could possibly create a non-profit organization named after Amy to do positive actions that somehow honor her life and spread ripples of love into the community. Grief, and anger will only harm YOU--your body and spirit. Let them guide you to do work that can let you express the love you have for your daughter and, for her, protect other girls. At the end of your life, wouldn't you like to look over a journal of all the positive things that were able to happen out of your love for her. I think others would like to help do good work to honor Amy too.
There is a father I know that has been doing service work to honor his daughter's life. (His daughter was killed at age 17--I believe by a drunk driver.) The Kent YWCA might be able to have him call you.

Hope this helps.
Sincerely,

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Jess Mendoza Los Angeles, Ca 90032 — Mon, 20 Aug 2007 19:34:53 GMT

Mr Yates,

Our heart and prayers go out to you and your family. I saw the report last night on T.V. and just felt your pain speaking as a father myself. I applaud your efforts and determination to see justice served. One day you will be reunited with your daughter. "God Bless You".

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Jessica Williams--Los Angeles CA — Tue, 21 Aug 2007 08:15:56 GMT

Tom, Please read WISDOM 17.
It reminds us that one cannot escape the wrath of God in their conscience. I know it will not bring Amy back; but hopefully you can find peace in knowing that God is administering justice to him in this life and will continue in the next-- and we cannot be priveledege to either one. Mentally Handicaped he may be, but he had the presence of mind to take Amy's life--and now he's serving time in his mind--whether he's behind bars or not. Please read Wisdom 17.

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Lori Ukiah, California — Sun, 26 Aug 2007 20:46:26 GMT

My heart continues to be with you and your family Tom. I do believe with all my being that Chris Gossett killed your beautiful child, and for the reasons he gave to not only the police, but to the gentleman on Dateline. (It's being replayed as I type this.) I understand your rage Tom. I pray that this is settled soon. Hang in there, and know you did all you could to change the laws that so unjustly allowed a child to be jailed for something he didn't do.

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Allen Moore, Richmond, VA — Tue, 28 Aug 2007 04:53:32 GMT

I want to start this off by saying Chief Deputy Brad Robinson is a fool
And started to make himself look more of a fool toward the end of the
interview with Stafford(By the way...i love how you get those idiots tied up
in a knot by pointing things out that no one payed attention to or was just
trying to ignore to keep thereselves not being the one that was wrong).
Stafford pointed out that adams never mentioned the ditch or the unbuttoning
of the pants but chris mentioned everything in the crime scene. Robinson's exuse wasnt
enough. Johonathon im sure was pushed to the point where he had to say he did it.
Like Johonathon said..he just wanted to go home. A child will do anything to go home.
They automatically assumed Johnathon did it because he was the last to be seen with amy.
About the fiber...there kids..for all we know they couldave been playing football, soccer
and ran into each other alot. They couldave just been tackling each other just being kids.
I also believe someone manipulated Chris into saying he didnt do it after some time so the police
wouldnt look so bad. Chris made an effort to do self harm so im sure he had the mental capacity
to hurt someone else..which he may not have been in the right mind at the time..he is mental and
i believe thats what the police used as an advantage to do the manipulating. And tom...i know its
hard..but its probally best to forgive chris. He does have a mental disablity and i could see in the
interviews hes terribly upset for what he done..its something that will remain on his concsions forever
and i think that might be enough. Peace be with you and god bless. And for Robinson, the fantasy of
being perfection is just a fanatasy..get over it..im sure your report cards werent perfect.

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Mike Murphy — Sat, 01 Sep 2007 11:01:33 GMT

My heart goes out to you and your loved one’s Tom. I have an eight-year-old daughter as well and I’m not sure how I would react to such a tragedy. I just hope the Justice System keeps a close watch on Chris Gossett, low IQ or not.

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gs — Fri, 07 Sep 2007 07:28:37 GMT

That poor child, alone with the perpetrators. The only consolation is that God will take care of them in his own good time. And unless they repent, their punishment is very bad and will last for ever.

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John Slezinger, Topeka, KS — Thu, 13 Sep 2007 04:07:29 GMT

Why didn't they fingerprint the white notebook? If somebody threw it, it would have his prints on it.

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Jason, California — Thu, 13 Sep 2007 04:58:41 GMT

I just watched "Dateline-MSNBC, The Murder of Amy Yates” and I am once again horrified at the authority’s arrogance in the light of their obvious incompetence. Specifically in pressuring a confession out of a 12 year old boy and piecing together as they wish whatever random statement the child made in hopes that he would be sent home. Why are authorities still questioning minors without the presence of a parent, guardian or lawyer? Why are these prosecutors so adamant in getting a conviction that (even when I believe at some point they know they are wrong) persist in convicting innocent people Is it that they’re pride will not allow them to admit to making a mistake?. Where are all the Sherlock Holmes? The real "Gumshoes". Who are these lazy individuals who more fittingly should be taking my order and asking me if I would like to "Super-size" my order? These are all rhetorical questions because I know that we will never get an answer. I believe that overzealous prosecutors are in the minority and I look up to many other honorable prosecutors as dutifully protecting us from the “scourge”. However I cannot help but feel for Mr. and Mrs. Yates and thank God that the prosecutor didn’t try to come up with some “hair-brained” story that implicated these loving parents. I must add how incensed I was to witness the officers lighting Mr. Yates up with a Taser gun for being upset at the prospect that his daughter’s killer was going to get off with 2 years. In closing I believe that John Gossett is truly Amy’s killer and that he deserves whatever he gets. God help him.

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Robert, Hope City, Ms — Thu, 13 Sep 2007 07:04:13 GMT

Hello, I'm sorry for the lost of your daughter, I still will be thinking about this for while, when you are being scard for life, I'm sad for the way the police handle this too. I hope everybody can remember her how she was, and being happy when she was on earth. She is an angel now with god.

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Carlos Ibarra, Texas — Thu, 13 Sep 2007 07:48:36 GMT

Tom,

I just watched the story of your family on Dateline NBC. I cannot begin to express my deepest condolences to your entire family, but in particular to you, because I am a father of an 8 year old girl too.

I want you to know that I admire all that you have done to honor Amy. You have gone above and beyond and I know she is smiling knowing how much her daddy loves her and that she is protecting you and your family now that she is with God.

I can only imagine the frustration you have endured throughout the case.

Tom, please let me know if I can help you to further encourage politicians to enforce strictier penalities to anyone who preys on our children. My email is carlosi72@hotmail.com.

God bless you and Shari. I am sorry for your divorce and I want her to know that my heart is with her as a parent as well.

I must admit that I was in tears when I saw the tattoo in Amy's honor. My mother passed away in 2005 from cancer and I also got a tattoo on my right arm just where you have yours. The last statement you made about it made me want to shake your hand.

Best regards,
Carlos Ibarra - carlosi72@hotmail.com

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Susan, Weddington, North Carolina — Thu, 13 Sep 2007 16:04:25 GMT

I believe there should be a law that does not allow a 12 year old child to be questioned by police without the parents being there. The detectives hound these kids to get them to admit to something they did not do. I have heard that some detectives tell the kids that if you just say you did it you can go home with your parents. This should be against the law. No child under the age of 18 should be questioned without the parents and a lawyer.

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Vicky Cochran Texas — Thu, 13 Sep 2007 19:56:54 GMT

This is A sad world we live in. What gets me the most is that you have to fight to make sure Justice is served for your daugter.And the sick part is that Chris Gossett is still out there .And most likey will hurt some one else.The DA and every one involed in this case is as guilty as chris.

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Brittany, Weston Florida — Thu, 13 Sep 2007 23:28:36 GMT

Last night I watched MSNBC and learned about the horrific murder. I am 21 years old and thought I don't have any children I can only imagine what it's like to lose a family member, especially a child. I hope Chris gets a harsh sentence. Regardless of his IQ, murder is murder and for that he should pay the consequences. My heart goes out to you and your family.

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Carrie, California — Fri, 14 Sep 2007 00:31:30 GMT

Tom, I just saw your story on Dateline the other night. I am so sorry for your loss. Amy is very pretty. I have three kids myself, I feel for you and your family. God bless you and your family.

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Rico, Killeen, Texas — Sat, 15 Sep 2007 19:13:10 GMT

I feel very sad. I don't want to purge grief, but it must be one of the must painfullest thing to lose.
I have two sisters and if I would lose one, I wouldn't survive days and nights without them arguing over music.
I hope that you'll meet paths with her in the lifes that lies ahead of you.
I'm 14, and I'm sad that her life ended so early. It is a sad fact that we lose people during time no matter how hard we try to cling on to them.

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William Neverette, Phenix City, AL — Sat, 15 Sep 2007 19:24:24 GMT

Mr. Yates,

I understand what you are going through. My daughter was Murdered in July of 2005. It seemed that no one cared that she was taken from me and my family. I am so sorry that you and your family are going through this. My daughter was taken from me in a very brutal way and it is hard for me and my family to except what has happened. I just want to let you know from a father that their is no justice in this System we call society. My daughter was 18 and she was full of life. I can say that it has not been at easy at all to deal with my daughters death. My daughters name was Nabila Neverette and she can be found on My Space. We set up a Memorial site to honor her memory. My heart goes out to you and your family and hope that you can find some peace in the following days of your lives. You can contact me and my family if you wish. Take Care and God Bless.

William Neverette

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Nataia Griffith Blythe, Ca. — Sat, 15 Sep 2007 19:57:32 GMT

I cannot say how sorry I am that this happened to you and your family. I have watched this show on dateline twice and it makes me cry everytime. I have a daugher and I cannot imagine what this feels like. I also believe that Chris did do this horrible thing to your daughter. It has happened many times before where people who have disabilities like Chris end up hurting or killing someone. So, just because he has a disability does not mean he didnt do it. My heart and prayers are with you.

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MsLake Indpls Ind — Tue, 18 Sep 2007 19:24:20 GMT

God Bless You!!! and your ex-wife. You are truely pillars of faith. I know the pain of lossing a child but not so tragically and as you said it is something you would not wish on your worst enemy and only someone whos been there will know. I know! Keep your head up and her memory alive! God bless!

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Thomas Yates' Friend (formerly from Carrollton, GA) — Fri, 21 Sep 2007 12:30:53 GMT

I just want the world to know that the DA and the Carroll Sherrif Dept decided to arrest Thomas for getting angry when they decided to try Chris Gossett as a Juvenile when they annouced prior that he would be tried as an adult and Thomas Struck the Sherriff who was not really injured at all. They gave Thomas Yates 18 months probation and ordered him into Anger Management Classes. This is a joke! Of Course he got angry.. Wouldn't you?

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kathy,greencastle,pa — Wed, 24 Oct 2007 00:14:57 GMT

I had the pleasure of meeting Amy Yate's father at my place of work, he happen to take the time to tell his story of his daugher and it really pulled at my heart strings,for i have a little girl of my own.I went straight home and got online and learned more about his story and cryed like a baby.all my love and prayer go out to the yates family.was a honor meeting you Tom Yates.I also wish you the best on your new job . sincerly, kathy from P.A.

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Joy, Phoenix AZ — Mon, 29 Oct 2007 19:28:57 GMT

I am so incredibly sorry and sad for what this family had to go through and is still and will undoubtdly always go through. I am interested in one thing though....what was the race of the boys in question? The 12 year old and the actual murderer. Just wondering how much liberty was taken in them deciding who murdered this lovely little girl. May Tim, Shari and little Danielle have God's arms wraped tightly around them. May they find peace.

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Rhonda, La. — Thu, 08 Nov 2007 16:25:17 GMT

I will begin by saying I’m sorry for your family’s tragedy. I have a 10 yr old and I talk to her often about these types of tragedies…in hoping I will never have to live through a nightmare like yours. It boggles me how a 12 yr old boy was convicted of something he didn’t do. How did his family allow for him to bargain a deal like that if he was innocent. I do believe the 16 yr. should serve time…he has an IQ if 65; that is a poor excuse in trying to justify a horrifying act he done to Amy. I honestly don’t think rehab will ever help him. I would only wonder if he has done this before…maybe he has raped others. Maybe, someone needs to investigate this boy. I only hope your family can heal.

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laura brown MI — Fri, 09 Nov 2007 05:02:03 GMT

I am so sorry for your loss we just lost my 4 year old nephew he was beat to death by my sisters boyfriend I dont know how to keep going reading your story and knowing that life does go on has helped me thank you and God bless you and your family

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KAROLYN BYRD — Mon, 19 Nov 2007 23:06:26 GMT

HELLO TOM MY NAME IS KAROLYN I WAS READING ABOUT YOUR DAUGTHER I AM SO SORRY ABOUT WHAT HAS HAPPEN TO AMY BUT I WANT YOU TO KNOW I UNDERSTAND WHAT YOUR FAMILY HAS TO FACE AND SOME JUST DONT HOW MUCH PAIN THERE IN YOUR HEART BUT I KNOW I FEEL THE SAME WAY BECAUSE MY OLDEST SON GARY WAS MURDERED ON MARCH 25,20007 NOBODY IS IN JAIL FOR HIS MURDER THEN ON AUGUST 20,2007 MY DAUGTHER WAS ALSO MURDERED AT A BACK TO PARTY ON AUGUST 19,2007 NOBODY IS NOT IN JAIL FOR MURDERED AT ALL I HEAR IS WE ARE STILL LOOKING BUT THAT IS NOT WHAT I WANT TO HEAR THE PERSON OR PEOPLE WHO DONE THIS TO MY CHILDREN AND MY FAMILY MY LIFE IS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT MY 2 CHILDEN BUT I KNOW I HAVE TO GO ON WITH LIFE FOR MY OTHER CHILDREN I STILL HAVE 3 DAUGTHRES AND 3 SONS 2 GRANDSONS FROM THE TO CHILDREN WHO WAS MURDEDED I DONT TALK MUCH ABOUT THE CASE OF MY TWO CHILDREN BECAUSE I CANT SO I GO ONLINE AND TALK TO SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS WHAT HAS HAPPENS. THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY

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Terri Grice, Carrollton Georgia — Sat, 24 Nov 2007 21:20:29 GMT

I want to know if this case will ever be settled, really...Our hearts go out to the Yates family. We are residents of Carrollton and I too have a now 111/2 year old and an almost 3 year old. I am really scared about how the Sheriffs Dept handled this entire case. Brad, should have been more thorough and before talking to Stone Phillips of MSNBC things should have been made right. The poor Yates family who miss their daughter daily should be put at ease with a COMPLETE case and an ending that is TRUE and right so that they can try and get some peace from all of this. I hate this for them and wish that I could comfort them in some way. But honestly I do not see me EVER being comforted if I ever lost one of my boys. God bless them and Brad, you need to completely close this case!!!!

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Carol, — Sat, 24 Nov 2007 23:19:00 GMT

I have also lost a child so I AM sympathetic to Amy's Mother. Watching the movie about the investigation of Amy's death my first impression from the start was to wonder if it ever occurred to anyone to question the father as he was so emphatic about Amy being home by 7 pm and not to be late. Maybe he went looking for her and found her and his temper got the best of him by the time he found her, as you can clearly see the man has quite a temper. He may have opened her button to make it look like a sex crime but could not actually remove his own daughters clothes as he is her father and not sick in that way. He and Amy's Mother have since divorced. Did the marriage finally disolve because Amy's Mother also had doubts on what happened. To start with I don't believe I would have been calling the police within twenty or thirty minutes of my child not being home on time. Maybe he had reason to know that she was not coming back and he called to cover his own guilt by acting concerned. I feel for the mentally challenged young man and his family. Of course watching the movie we aren't seeing the real people that were involved so we can't see their eyes to feel what is going on inside of them but this young man felt that Amy was his friend. She was nice to him as everyone says she was to everyone. She is probably the only one of those kids in the neighborhood that was decent to him all his life. He probably got picked on and made fun of by everyone else. I don't feel that he could be capable of hurting his friend in this way. Of course stories got around in two years that weren't supposed to be let out. Who are they trying to fool with saying that he said things two years later that was not given to the public. Just tell 10 people something and see how fast it will get around. I would not be convinced that that boy did not hear everything that he told the authorities from another source. I know they feel they found the right one now but I wonder.

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Donna Gullick Dilworth MN. 56529 — Sun, 25 Nov 2007 00:03:10 GMT

Hi my daughter and i watched the movie about Amy and
the other two boys that the police were questioning
and i do believe both boys were in on it. As the boy
named Cris i feel he did kill her as he was more stronger and left bruises. Cris is with special needs
and can't under stand his motivation and he does need
help. I feel Cris should get life and the other boy named Johnathon should get the same. I'm sorry this had to happen to your family and my heart goes out to you. Never under stood why you both had to divorice as this is the time to pull together.
11/24/07 6:00 p.m.

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sarah brockmeier, Arizona, safford — Tue, 04 Dec 2007 18:54:20 GMT

oh my gosh that sarid i am really sorry to hear that but there always a bright side you will be with her one of these days and rember she always in your heart and she never leave she looking over you

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stacey richards — Wed, 12 Dec 2007 00:28:38 GMT

how do we live any with any deep feelings, it is too painful to truly feel, i lost my 26 year old son to a brutal murder, now i have to murder trials to face.
if i can find an ounce of his strength, his passion, his desire for the people and things he loved, maybe i'll find a way

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V sp — Fri, 25 Jan 2008 05:42:09 GMT

i cannot even imagine-i will always remember the moment i read this-the pain you have experienced is unreal. Please understand you do not deserve this but you have chosen to gain stregnth by continuing to share Amy's beautiful life. Please do not be discouraged; you will accomplish your purpose in life through Amy's story. I am so sorry

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Kate, Tampa Bay, FL — Thu, 21 Feb 2008 04:54:37 GMT

Has anything new happened in 2008?
Is the now Man still in jail?
With such a low IQ, did he go to adult jail?

I am sorry you and your wife didn't make it in your marriage. My husband lost a child with his first wife and they didn't make it either--it is such a sad sad thing when such a small innocent child dies.

God Bless you and your family!

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M.Manuel, Aurora, CO — Thu, 21 Feb 2008 07:10:36 GMT

To the Yates Family-
I can only begin to imagine what it is like going through what you went through.
I am so very sorry. Knowing that will never bring your precious daughter back, but I am heartfelt sorry.
I just saw your story on Discovery Dateline. And I feel terrible about this. I am not pointing fingers, I am just appealing to you in a time of one of the worst things that could ever happen to a parent.
Our prayers and thoughts go with you.

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Lenita Nelson Fayetteville Ar. — Sat, 23 Feb 2008 19:40:39 GMT

I have a eleven year old daughter and I love her very much.I cant not imagine not having her in my life.Im so
very sorry for the loss of your little angel.I hope you can prove that this man brutally killed your daughter,I
hope that he spends the rest of his life in prison.With this man free whos to say he might not do this again.What is wrong with our justice system? They have his confession ,but yet he has not been convicted
WHY?!!!!! I will pray for you and your family.I will pray that your little angels soul can find peace.I will also pray that the guilty man will be punished to the full extent of the law.Our god is a vengeful god may his will be followed.Thou shalt not kill!!!!!!

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abbie — Sun, 02 Mar 2008 01:57:17 GMT

i am so devistated after reading this no one in the worl can tell you how this fells i am 13 years old and i am all ready deep in this failing system. i am so sorry for you and your faimly

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Tammy Kelley Clanton, AL — Wed, 07 May 2008 15:28:25 GMT

I work where Mr. Yates works, and I know how hard he works. He has fought so hard to have justice for his beautiful daughter. I know God will take care of you, and your family Tom. I am so sorry your family has to go through this.

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Suzanne rushville Illinois — Tue, 20 May 2008 04:33:17 GMT

Dear Tom, 29 years ago I lost a daughter also. I will say time helps, it hasnt helped me. the only thing that helps me is my faith in knowing someday i will be reunited with her. Our children are only on loan. I pray for peace and understanding for you and yours Tom. Keep her memory alive

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Nichole, Carrollton, Ga — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 01:40:23 GMT

I am so sorry for your loss. My daughter knew Amy from a previous grade at school. Your loss really hit home with my family and I cannot imagine what your family went through. Sometimes I take my I stop by Amy's grave and pray for your family. God Bless you all!

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Joe Winkowski Wakesha Wisconsin — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 10:27:56 GMT

No child should die that young. I never even knew her and I'm crying right now. I heartbroken and devestated to what happend to your daughter. No father of Mother or family should be going threw this. I'm 12 years old and even I know that.