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A new normal at the Church of the Razor Wire

Posted: Wednesday, March 19, 2008 11:08 AM by Dateline Editor
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By Liz Brown, Dateline Producer

Carol Kent grew up the daughter of a preacher. Religion has always been her touchstone. That and her love of family. But this devoted Christian doesn't go to church on Sundays anymore.

Carol and her husband have a new Sunday ritual. They still put on their best clothes and pile into their car, minds filled with anticipation for what is ahead. When they arrive, they might chat with their fellow congregants, and nod to the staff as they take their places. But instead of a church, their new Sunday destination is a Florida prison. Their pews are plastic chairs, the congregants are visiting families, and the staff pack guns. Carol calls it the Church of the Razor Wire.

Photo: Jason Kent with his parents Carol and Eugene Kent.

How do you keep your faith when your only child has been convicted of first-degree murder and there is no doubt that he did it? Carol says she and her husband faced a stark choice. "Gene and I both had to decide: Are we going to live," Carol told us in a heartfelt interview, "or are we going to curl up in a ball and die?"  She says they chose life and describes it as "a new kind of normal," which happens to be the title of a book she's written that came out last year

Carol's book got me thinking. Everyone ensnared in this terrible tragedy has had to adapt to "A New Kind of Normal." Whether it's the father of the victim, Doug Miller, who was gunned down in a parking lot by Carol's son in 1999 (he can still barely talk about what happened to his son without breaking down). Whether it's Doug Miller's daughters who lost both their biological dad and their stepfather in that single act of death. Or whether it's Jason Kent himself. Once a bright-eyed Naval lieutenant, he is now an immaculately dressed lifer at Hardee Correctional Institution. What does normal mean for him and does it include accepting responsibility for what he did?

Jason Kent's new kind of normal is a waiting game. He has a tedious daily routine. He helps the prison chaplain. He works in the library. He takes exercise in the yard. But above all the man who wanted to make a difference to the world is now dedicated, he says, to making a difference to his fellow prisoners.

"Recognizing that I can't fix the past," he told us, "what I try to do is try to be a benefit or a blessing or an encouragement to the guys that I come in contact with."

Jason says he mentors and tries to comfort prisoners who are not lifers. Men who will be getting out. Even if he never walks in freedom himself, he says, he will at least have had some kind of impact on the outside world.

But that doesn't mean Jason has given up on the outside world. Jason may have exhausted all his legal appeals, but in April 2006 his lawyer, Reginald Garcia, filed a clemency petition on his behalf with the Governor of Florida, arguing that Jason's sentence should be commuted. It's a longshot. Garcia says that in the last 27 years only 133 commutation applications have been approved.

Even Jason's own dad admits his son doesn't deserve a "get out of free jail card." He just wonders whether Jason deserves to be in prison for the rest of his life. Because of mandatory sentencing guidelines, the judge at Jason's trial didn't have a choice about sending him to prison for the rest of his life. His parents argue that there is something wrong with our justice system when a man who says he killed someone to protect his family is given the same sentence as a serial killer. But then again who really is the best person to make those kinds of distinctions? A life lost is a life lost. Doug Miller's father has said he would fight any move to release the murderer of his son.

Clemency petitions can take years to be processed and until then Jason will live with his new normal. As will his mother and his father. That means spending more time at the Church of the Razor Wire.

The story of Jason Kent's conviction for murder will be told in a very special Dateline airing Friday, March 21 at 9pm ET on NBC.

Field producer Leonor Ayala blogs about going to the Florida prison to interview Jason Kent.

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doesn't matter what you do on the "inside"..if you had done right on the "outside",you wouldn't be "inside"..too little to late if you ask me..being sorry after the fact is the song most prisoner's sing
God bless this family...their son commited first degree murder.  I can not imagine how the actions of this young man's deeds have been inpacted.  I can only imagine that this has not been easy for anyone and everyone.  I am truly impressed with how they have choose to handle a vey difficult time.  These parents have love and compassion and they can not and did not disown their son!!!!!  
I can't wait until there is an athiest President who isn't biased or predisposed to think in a certain way. Give it ten years or so.
Hopefully, he will never get out.  Just because he is doing good things in prison, doesn't mean he should be pardoned. The man he killed will never receive a pardon, nor will his family.  People who go to prison, esp for life, always seem to all of a sudden become good citizens to try to win sympathy, screw him.  
I was a friend of Doug Miller.  This man deserved the death penalty, and now he wants out?  Protecting his family?  Please tell the true story, not the warped one Jason's family wants you to believe.  
sounds like hes agood man let him out soon he could do so much good
I have one word for both families because they are facing difficult situations:

PRAYER!  

All you can do is pray for them.
Nearly everyone in prison has a come to jesus/mohammed moment..there is a 'man' who is canadian and has been on death row in montana for over 20 years for taking two first cousins into the woods and shooting them in back of their heads, stealing their vehicle...it took the boys' families 5 days on horseback to find the bodies. And the murderer wants his death sentence commuted and wants out???? Well, if you have found Jesus, you shouldn't be afraid to die, be afraid to live your life giving service to God (in prison or not). the only thing these people are remorseful of is getting caught and getting convicted.
I feel for this family.  I too am living a different kind of normal. My brother has been incarcerated for the past 6 1/2 yrs.  I alos feel for the victims family.  When something like this happens the whole family is sentenced and unless you have lived this nightmare you should not judge. I pray for my brothers victim and the family everyday. But I cannot turn my back on my brother for a mistake that he made. He is paying dearly for it as he should.

Dayle Connecticut
Only Jason and Doug Miller know what was said between the two of them to cause Jason to gun him down.
Surely he overreacted, as do many people nowadays who get a hold of a gun and lose their temperament.
And he does deserve to be in prison for killing another human being.
But do not forget, he is a human being and he is exactly where he belongs.
Our life is not our own, God puts you where you belong, not where you want to be. And the only thing you can do is make the best of it or the worst of it, past, present or future.
God sees the whole person, but people do not. We don't know everything about Jason or Doug.
Once a murderer always a murderer.  Keep him behind bars where he deserves to be.  The other young man can't come from the grave to his family what gives this guy the right to be with his.
AN EYE FOR AN EYE I ALWAYS SAY. THATS WHY WE SHOULD ALWAYS THINK BEFORE WE ACT. AND I AGREE WITH THAT COMMENT ALL OF A SUDDEN THEY ARE GOOD PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY ARE BEHIND BARS, DOUBT IT! HE SHOULD JUST BE HAPPY HIS FAMILY IS THERE TO SUPPORT HIM, I HOPE THE VICTIMS FAMILY HAS ALL THE SUPPORT THEY NEED TO DEAL WITH THIER LOSS.
I figure what we dish out to others will land back in our own lap.  The saying" For every finger we point at someone else for doing something wrong there is usually 7 more pointint at us.  We may not kill someone physically, but there are those who with the words from their mouth leave deep emotional scars in other's lives.
Yes, he should let out early...AND WALKED TO THE ELECTRIC CHAIR.
who are we to judge one way or another?
I, too, was raised in a Christian family.  I've made my share of mistakes, granted, murder wasn't one of them.  We all do things that we wish we hadn't...unfortunately murder is one that has life-long consequences.  No, I don't think Jason Kent should be given lieniency just because he's a "good guy" now.  Actually from what I've read, he was a devout Christian before the murder.  He's not suddenly "cleaning up his act" in prison to impress or draw sympathy.  He's a human being who did something terribly wrong and now has to live with the consequences of that choice.  I can't imagine what it would be like to deal with that kind of guilt and shame.  I also grieve for the family of the man murdered.  I can't imagine what they've had to deal with.  But the way I see it, Jason's parents are dealing with this the way God would want them to--with love and compassion for their son and for the Miller family.  True Chrisitianity is about love and forgiveness; this the world does not comprehend or understand.  But if you've ever messed up big and you've been forgiven for it...maybe you can relate to what I'm saying.  God knows I've been forgiven for a lot in my life, and it makes me quicker to forgive others.  God Bless.
Who are we to judge another? Do we all act in judgement because we are able to sit back and point fingers? That makes us sinners too (if you are religious). Everyone deserves forgiveness, that is why Jesus died for our sins. I am not in agreement that he should be let out of prison, but Jason Kent is scorned by those who have no idea what happened. I hope that everyone, to include Jason, finds forgiveness in their lives at some point. If Jesus was willing to die for our sins, we should all be willing to forgive.
He killed another human being.  He's right where he should be, in jail.  The family that lost their son won't be getting him back so why should Jason's family?  At least they are able to see and talk to their son, Doug's family is only left with memories.
Render unto Ceaser.....
Both families of these men have my complete sympathy.  I'm a parent and I know that losing your child is the utmost horror.  Having your child commit an upardonable act would be second, I guess. But it comes down to Jason paying for what he did.  The law says he is serving the punishment for that act.  I really don't think that how well he is doing in prison or what kind of man he was before he murdered is the issue.  I believe in the Rule of Law; if you don't like it, go vote.  Jason's family is awesome for the love they continue to show for their son.  That is so admirable!  Doug's family is courageous for continuing as a family and being united without their missing member.  That's even more admirable!!  How do you balance this out?  Jason is probably where he needs to be.  If he can contribute to society while serving society's justice, then so much the better for him and for all the rest of us.  The line has to be drawn somewhere, people, and Jason stepped over it.  Forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean pardon, it basically just means you're not gonna carry a grudge about it. Doug Miller's family and the gods are the only ones that can forgive Jason Kent--they are the ones trespassed against.    
I think with all things considered, Jason Kent should be happy he's not facing the death penalty. Let him continue to mentor others from inside the Florida prison where he now resides. People finding religion once imprisoned is getting kind of old. Why did Jason not find the time to embrace the Lord while he was still a free man?
We need to remember that a "Different Kind Of Normal" can hit each of our lives at anytime.  Jason Kent is praying for his sins but he is forgiven by God as each of us is when we ask.  Our judgement needs to be reserved for ourselves.  The law took care of Jason.
If someone abused my child and I had his training I might have done the same thing. Whor would not have those same feeling when their child is molested and then to have to turn those children over to him for visits would relly play on our mind. Wheather he is out or in prision he will never be the same.  If he is determined to be no threat to others he can be more beneficial as a producteive member of society on the outside.
Let's remember what the Special Ops boys do all the
time with the blessing of our government.  
I have had had the opportunity to hear Carol Kent speak at Women of Faith conferences, have read her book, "When I Lay My Issaac Down" and admire the courage and strength she and her husband have displayed in supporting their son, a devout Christian (even before incarceration), an educated military leader and strong husband and father.  I believe people "snap" and feel this is what Jason did.  We will never know the emotions he went through that caused it.  I admire his courage to talk about publicly about it. I pray his stepchildren one day can embrace the love he apparently has for them.
After seeing Dateline and the psychiatrist testifying Jason was "out of his body" performing this crime, "out of his mind" is believable!  Not right, but likely. I have met Carol Kent and truly feel her pain.  Her only son.  After seeing Doug Miller's Dad, he deserves our compassion.  Only God knows what really happened.  Doug Miller, his ex, Jason, etc.  God has shown mercy, and I pray his will be done.
Let he who is without sin cast the first stone...Not one of us can say how we would respond when faced with a similar situation...Often the reation is contrary to the persons general nature...I am disappointed in the many self-righteous words on this page...With FAITH I will pray...In HOPE of his early release...
I almost fell off my couch!  This was the same man on a Southwest flight from Providence, RI to Baltimore, MD my son and I sat across from.  I first thought he looked familiar thinking I seen this program before. Only until they mentioned his listings or writings. My son and I flew standby and had these seats in front of the plane that faced the rear of the plane.  He boarded after us and sat directly in front facing us. He seemed figity immediatelty and I said to my son I could tell it would be a long flight. I was right.  I closed my eyes for awhile only to wake up with both of his feet on the arm rest between me and my son. When confront it was like I annoyed him. He did this every time I closed my eyes so I stayed awake for the remainder of the flight. He had a note book he kept writting in. It looked like scribblings.  He annoyed a male attendent for a while then resumed his writings. This was a shocking story to say the least but my question is why did his mental  signs go unanswered?  His mental health was ignored. I pray for both families, but he does not need to be released back into society.
After reading all of the above comments, those folks that are so condemning and judgmental have never lived through any of the circumstances and life-changing events that the Kents and I have.  I used to have my own opinions about someone behind bars, until my son landed there for murder (drug-related), my life was threatened in the process by others involved with my son, but it is amazing to me how someone's life and heart can change, and both my son, in prison, and I have found "A New Kind of Normal" as Carol Kent talks about in her book.  So many of the folks writing such harsh comments should experience just a small amount of what the Kents or my son and I have had to endure and they might just sing a different tune.  My son's and my relationship is stronger than it ever has been and I'm thankful every day that his life was spared and I have the opportunity to go visit him in prison.  My heart goes out to those that have lost loved ones to murder, drugs, and many other evils, but I too lost loved ones with my son's acts and I will never get those folks back either.  That is a hurt I deal with everyday.  Please ease up on your opinions until you've walked in my shoes.  
I have met Carol and Gene and I have heard her speak, as well as read her book.  There are many circumstances that preceeded Jason's action.  I hope those that have been quick to judge would get a chance to meet the Kents and/or read her book.  She too has shown compassion for Doug's family's loss.  Jason had everything going for him, but the assurance that his two little girls would be safe.
Granted, he made a very unwise choice.  So did many men in the bible.  Jesus died for our sins.  Jason knows that.  He is completely forgiven by God.  He does have eternal life.  Christ told those who would stone Mary (according to the law then), that whoever was without sin should cast the first stone.  The witnesses were wiser than many of us.  They walked away.
God Bless both families - There are things that happen in life that we will never understand only God knows the plan.
does anyone know why he wasn't court-marshalled, or would this not be applicable in this situation?
My heart goes out to both families. How wonderful a parents love is with what has happened. I believe in my heart that only the Lord knows our hearts and what happened. From the history given of Jason, he has always had the Lord in his life. Having a family who has mental illness surfacing (my brother) I see how hard it is to know what really went thru Jason's mind that day.
No matter what, God is in control and will make His plan known. I again, commend Jason's family for their love and support. The prison system in any state is horrible. I applaud them for the non profit to help others going thru similar situtations.

I challange April to stand by her husband's side.
Lord, watch over all these families and make your plan known to all..
Here's the deal...nobody, and I mean nobody has the right to judge anyone.  Christ died right next to a murderer and a thief.  I wonder why?  I am pretty sure christ loved both.  This event is a complete tragedy for both families.  I am a victim of a similar situation.  My brother murdered and is convicted.  He too attended a military academy West Point.  He also was the winner of a national award that earned him a week in Washington to meet The President of the United States.  He earned a degree in engineering.  Brilliant!! Yet he too snapped.  My life has never been the same.  This has tortured so many lives.  The victim's family look at me like I did this.  All I do is pray for the Lord to soften their hearts and give them some peace.  I am sorry for all who are involved. I am so sorry for their loss, and I am also sorry for my loss.  Everybody loses.  
We all sin & fall short of God's glory.I am a born again believer & I know that God use us in way's that we might not understand,one thing I know is He looks at the heart.I have been locked up & have struggled with drugs,but this all made my relationship with Christ.Hang in & God bless these families.
I think the main message here is the message of redemption. God will take even the worst situations and make good out of them. Jason's Christianity has been questioned but Christians make mistakes, too. Many Biblical characters committed murder in moments of passion:Moses and David are only two examples. And before he became a Christian, look at the apostle Paul. No one is trying to excuse Jason but he shouldn't get the same time in prison as serial killers. It is obvious to anyone who knew him or hears his about his life that he was seriously ill at the time of the murder. The beauty is that God is using him to make a difference in the lives of other prisoners. The beauty is that Jason is not wasting this time in prison. The beauty is that God has forgiven Jason just as Jason has asked Doug's family to forgive him. He is truly sorry though that doesn't bring back Doug. And how beautiful that these two parents who could have let this break their entire lives apart, minister to others all over the world probably about forty-nine out of fifty-two weeks a year. That wasn't brought out but since I personally know them; that needs to be said. They are too modest to mention all the people they help on a weekly basis. They were already in Christian ministry and they are continuing despite the pain in their lives. They are being vulnerable and letting others see how to bear up with God's help in tragedy and reach out to others. Not many would do that. Carol continues to write books and speak. Gene speaks, travels with Carol and manages things plus being there for Jason. Jason continually is reading books to help others and to advance himself in his walk with God.

Before any of us throws a stone we need to remember that there by the grace of God go you or I. None of us knows what it would take to make us snap and do something totally out of character. I know this because it happened to a family member of mine who had never done anything before to warrant problems with the law. Then he robbed some banks;not even always taking money; just looking at it. It turned out that he was bi-polar and his chemistry was so messed up that no one knew it and he was around people all the time except when he was on the road. Thank God he is home and has rebuilt his life. That was five years spent away out of fifty-eight good years.He was the last person anyone would have expected to do that. As soon as he was put on lithium, he was fine and spent his time in prison witnessing to others and teaching the G.E.D. So rather than saying "he got what he deserved" in this Easter week, maybe the question should be "Do any of us ever get what we deserve?" To God a sin is a sin. When is the last time you murdered someone with your tongue, stole something from the office,or told a lie? We are all hopeless and helpless without the grace of Christ Jesus and He died once for all to pay for our sins. We should be reaching out to those in prisons as Carol and Gene are doing. It shouldn't take a family member's incarceration for us to care. Jesus said "I was in prison and you visited me." When asked when He was in prison by the disciples, He answered, "Inasmuch as you did it unto the least of these, you did it unto me."
I am proud to call Jason, Carol and Gene my friends. I pray for Doug's family. They are devastated about that loss also and ask everyone to pray for that family. I believe that whatever the outcome of the clemency petition that Jason will serve Christ faithfully whether in or out of prison. I believe God has forgiven him and is well pleased with Jason's life today. If the doctor who examined Jason had really been heard, I do believe that he would have been sent to a medical facility rather than a prison. To Doug's family, God bless you in your loss. I certainly am not minimizing that. But we still have one life here that God has redeemed and we don't need to just throw it out. We all know what Jason did. We don't know what each of you and myself have done to sin against God. Thank God for His mercy and grace. My family's prayers are constantly with the Kent family and I intend to stay in touch with Jason whom I did not personally know before this but I knew his parents and family. I also hope to reach out to other prisoners. One day it could be your son or daughter. If it can happen to Jason Kent, it can happen to ANYONE!!!!!!!
We cannot categorize sins when we stand before God one day. I, like Gene, am not suggesting that Jason shouldn't spend any time in prison but I don't think he needs to spend his entire life there. As I said before, we all have secret sins and they are all black in the eyes of the Lord. Thank God, He forgives us and washes us clean.
I have never been more upset than when I saw this story. This man was protecting these children.  how do we not know that his wife didn't push him to that point and why didn't she try to help him cope with the feelings he was having?  You can't tell me that she has no clue as to what he was dealing with. I suspect that she munipulated Kent, and got him right where she wanted him.
I think its difficult for many of us to fully comprehend the hold an obsesion can have on a person and how one plan, right or wrong, becomes the only focus of action. The Millers & the Kents have a long hard journey ahead, may they find some peace to walk along side of them.
For Patty from Memphis........you have the right (righteous) insight.  I agree with you. True Christianity IS about love and forgiveness and the world (as we see here) does not comphrehend that. My heart goes out to both families.  We only know what we have read. Jason Kent is reaping the consequences of his actions........I see no reason or right for anyone of us to sit in judgement of him.
This is truly a story or redemption. God has taken something awful and brought good out of it. JP ministers and helps others in prison and in spite of the grief that they have been through, Carol and Gene continue to minister to others about 49 weeks out of 52. That is to the glory of God! MY sympathy goes out to BOTH families and I pray that God will bring healing AND give JP a chance for a reduced sentence where he could work in Speak Up for Hope helping other prisoners on the outside eventually.
They are in my prayers and I think that we all need to understand that none of us knows where the point is at which we might snap. For sure, all of us has secret sins that we are not proud of. At this time of Easter, thank God that He offers salvation to each one of us and forgiveness. He paid the ultimate price.
I feel sorry for Jason,his wife told him all those stories,you can see he still believes her.I feel sorry for his family too.
It seems he was really not in a hurry to get away, its as if he wanted to be caught. Are they sure there wasnt another shooter, was his fingerprints on the gun or guns. I would think being in the Navy he was a good marksmen, he sure did miss his mark a lot to have to shoot so many times. Love will cause you to do strange things, and women can cause men to do things for them that other women wouldnt do.
I don't doubt that Jason deserves a life sentence. However, I think prison life is becoming more violent and unbearable because of the life-without-parole statutes. If a prisoner has no chance of parole, he has the most likelihood of becoming the bitter, gang-oriented murderer and rapist that controls prisons from the inside. There is no motive for him to behave in a moral and sane fashion. This kind of lifer ends up creating the hellish, homosexual society that prevails in big prisons. Why not? What do they have to lose? Preying on the young and weak becomes their sport and pleasure. No- we're imprisoning too many people, and the dream of rehabilitation is going out the window along with the dream of freedom. The system is broken if the US has more prisoners than Red China. Now who is the cruel dictatorship, h-m-m-m?
I had the priviledge of hearing Carol Kent speak at Women of Faith conference last year.  She is bringing glory to God by using her pain and anguish to reach out to others and stepping out to teach us all that God never wastes a hurt.  You can be resentful, place blame, curl up and die; or you can use it to serve others who are experiencing the same pain and receive blessings you never thought possible.
How can anyone watch this and not think that Kent snapped?  He is now accepting his punishment, knowing what he has done.  
The self-righteous, judgmental people here must be absolutely certain that they will never crack under pressure.  
Good thing for them, since there are plenty of these like-minded people out there who will make sure they get no understanding.
I am shocked by the hostile comments.  This is anything but a young man "who found god in prison".  This is a man who was raised in a loving, christian family that most could not even comprehend.  I DO NOT think for a moment that his sentence should be the same as a serial killer.  I believe if every father took a moment to ponder how they may react if there young daughters were being molestated, perhaps we can begin to understand the mental anguish he was experiencing. I am in FAVOR of his clemency...
I think that many more things should be considered.  One is our strong desire for justice.  No one ever looks at or demands justice from the system.  Why on earth would a judge consider giving a man FULL custody of his children after hearing what the mother had to say and after the children being in the sole custody of their mother for so long.  Sometimes I think we need to look at who drives these people to do such horrible things.  I personally can see why people go "postal" as that is the only way they see that they will get justice.  There are many innocent people in jail due to our "justice system" that is defunct.  I would also take a look at little Miss April and take a good look at her part in this.  What he did was wrong but I think people can be driven to do awful things, that in a weak moment, is absolutely out of their nature. No one was going to protect his family but him, it sure wasn't going to be our defunct justice system.  It should be called a legal system, because there is very little justice handed out.
hello MSN,i'm from trinidad & tobago an island in the sun...it was on a friday night that i saw your story of jason kent....this story has moved me deeply that i just had to find a way to make contact to say these few words..."THOSE WITHOUT SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE"...with some of the comments posted  i find it a shame that some small minded persons can't get beyond their own God like complex...i for one find the whole ordeal between both families very tragic....jason kent like anyone hoped to find the american dream.. a good wife, loving kids, a safe home and a job you enjoy...so why shame on him for trying to protect what he thought he had found?? Mr.jason kent was misguided and anyone with half a brain could see that...I admier the fact that his parents have stood beside him and had not choosen to forsake him....if i got the chance to meet this family i would break down in tears because there are aspects of my life that can allow me to relate...my brother was convicted of murder in self defence in 1989 but the laws in my island are outdated and ignorant to the fact.. that my brother whom i miss till this day died in prison...so as i said persons have to see that both families have a burden to bear....doug miller's life was taken unexpectedly yet his family have been forgiving a fact that we seem to overlook..doug miller's dad was not there during the trial because he saw what his son & jason kent had in common a woman that in my veiw was very manipulative to set motions in place to met her own selfish needs... and the other, well, in ways i can see was a victim.. he was totally misguided and you can't deny that.  My prays and heartfelt emotions goes out to both families....
To conclude i would like to start up a correspondance for i would like to know more of the works Ms.Carol Kent is doing with the Speak Out for Hope programe?? and if there is any idea of going international?? there are inmates in trinidad & tobago that can benifit from an organised programe such as this...MSN you know where you can reach me...bye!
So much anger, hatred and finger pointing here. Tell me if I'm wrong that all of us who respond to this have never committed a sin?  Yes, not murder but sin that is just as close to it. Maybe Doug don't deserve to be dead but is Jason acting on behalf of his stepchildrens' safety, misery and pain I feel this is justifiable. Even if Doug was a Christian does not make him Godly and sinless. How many priests were convicted of child molestation? Things that is done within closed doors and only those closest to this monster knows whats happening. Perhaps they should hypnotize the girls and go back to the time when the father molested them. I do not know Jason but I think his intention is not malicious or vindictive but rather to protect his family and what he got was a raw deal from the state's sentencing guideline. My belief is that he committed this crime and admitted to it but 10 years max is more like it.
This broadcast truly broke my heart.  I literally cried after the airing of  the show, and seeing jason's mothers tears, and doug's father's tears.  As a parent myself, I just couldn't imagine a more horrific story. The fact that in this story both sets of parents lost their sons, and both little girls lost both fathers was heart-wrenching.  What bothered me most was that this one woman, wife to both men, seemed to be the root cause to this whole horrible story, with what seemed to be, no remorse or concern.
It saddened me to see so many people judge this kid.  The saddest part being that I don't think many people understand how to understand his mind set.  In order for people to understand a 'soldier' they either have to be one, be married to one (as I am), or have been surrounded by the military life (parents).  To see this kid as a man who was trained by the military, who is taught to 'protect', tends to shed a different light on how you look at the whole story.  If you think about it, our military men go overseas and fight for our country, sometimes killing innocent people, or being killed, to protect and serve God, country and family.  Yet in that instance we deem it as acceptable because it is 'part of military life' and war. We expect these trained soldiers to fight for us unconditionally, to lay their lives on the line to let us live free, never once questioning their orders, their training, or the ultimate sacrifice they may have to make it.
Yet back home, we are told to follow orders, trust in the judicial system and how it will protect us, yet, so many evils fall through the cracks to harm us, torment and threaten us.  And yet, we train men to be protectors and then when they come home, or are home and feel the need to protect their own families, they are helpless.  I don't condone killing another human being, however I do believe that there is much more to this story than we all know.
I think there are many things that need to be revisited with this case.  For starters, his military training, his way of thinking, the type of person he was prior to meeting his wife, and what facts/events provoked him to do what he did.
As a mom and a woman who grew up in Florida I find it so ironic that this kid had the book thrown at him, when we have child molesters/killers, rapist, serial killers, drug dealers on the loose!    
How can a soldier entrust the safety of their family back home to our judicial system if it is so strict in some circumstances, and not strict enough in others (and those are the cases that need to have the book thrown at them!)
In this case, you have a star young man who was a military grad., honorable individual, religious and faithful, family oriented, who wanted to make a difference in the world.  He was a threat to no one and would have definitely been an asset to the navy and the men he would have led.  In this instance, something, someone, made him snap, and he killed a man.  The  jurors disagreed about his guilt, but eventually found him guilty and then the courts threw the book at him and gave him a life sentence without parol.  I have trouble understanding that.  I don't think its right.  This story was very different for me.  I am all for the death penalty and throwing someone in jail for life, who deserves to be there. Yet in this case I think the courts are wrong.  The sad part is that no one knows what stories his wife filled his head with to make him snap to do something so 'not him'.  I personally saw a young man who believed he was protecting his family, who believed it was his only option.  That the courts, the state, weren't going to protect them, so he had to.
I don't think anyone will ever know what the truth was regarding the stories she told on the stand, and what type of detailed, horrible stories she told him to make him obsess to his 'insane' behavior (assuming the stories  were true).  All we are seeing is the end result.  The end result, one man dead, one man in jail for life, who would have been an aspiring military leader, two families pained and grieving, and two little girls who have lost both their real father and step father, and one mother, who doesn't seem to heart broken over any of it......
I pray that God will bring comfort and strength to all of them.  
I pray that society will not judge Jason for his horrible mistake, but give him forgiveness for a second chance, because in my heart I believe he deserves a second chance.  I pray that God has granted peace and happiness to Doug's soul and that he will be his daughters guardian angels. I know that is my prayer for all of them.  I hope you will pray for them too....
May God Bless them all.....

God Bless
As I read these 'opinions', it's interesting to see here, as well as in life, that the people with the attitude of "hang em and hang em high", like those who demonstrate outside of prisons for the death penality, have never been faced with extremely difficult, soul searching decisions in their lives. For someone who has been on both sides of the 'fence'....no one really knows how they will feel, or act until........


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