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Like Father, like son in Puerto Rico murder mystery

Posted: Friday, March 14, 2008 11:01 AM by Dateline Editor
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A special Dateline on the murder of American businessman Adam Anhang, "The Pink Skirt Murder," airs on NBC Friday, March 14, at 10pm ET. Click here for the full story with video.

By Sara James, Dateline Correspondent

I only wish I had met Abe Anhang under different circumstances.  I only wish I had met his son, Adam, at all.

Abe Anhang is both razor sharp and resolute, a man crackling with integrity and brimming with love for his family. Adam Anhang was also known for his quick wit and equally ready smile, a magnet of a man. The kind of guy who would figure out the puzzle more quickly than you, but happily turn around and show you how he did it -- that uncommon blend of a brilliant mind and a gentle, generous spirit.

Like father, like son.  

But these days, Abe has no opportunity to see his own qualities reflected in his son, nor those uniquely Adam's own.  Abe has no opportunity to witness Adam's continued rise through the business stratosphere.  These days, Abe's sole mission is a brutal, solitary and devastating one, to answer the most terrible of questions: who took his beloved son's life?  What happened on that night in that darkened street near the Pink Skirt Restaurant in San Juan, Puerto Rico? 

Given that Adam was a man with thousands of friends and seemingly not an enemy in the world, it is a baffling, vexing, daunting question.  But Adam wanted to answer every question, even the hardest ones. And so does Abe.

Like father, like son.

In life, we do whatever we can for our children.  We love them, raise them, guide them.  We watch with pride as they step forward on their own, we long to be there if they stumble or falter.  But sometimes,  the only thing a father can do for a son is to find out what happened to him, and why.  

Adam was a man who stood up for his friends and for his family. The kind of man you could count on.  Just like his dad.  This gentle man has a fierce, innate determination honed by loss.  To meet him is to know that he will go the distance, surmount any obstacle, and never end his quest until his questions are answered.

Like father, like son. 

Producer John Block's blogged on meeting the Anhang family

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Sara, you have captured an accurate picture of Adam and of his father.  Great men, both of them.  I had the pleasure of being a close friend of Adam's and adored him.  He was an amazing person and had a huge heart.  Thank you for sharing his story.
You could have mentioned he came from Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada. Canada is a huge country.
What a shame that the life of such a gifted young man was snuffed out in order to satisfy the greed of another person.  Rest assured, the entire truth will eventually be revealed.
My heart goes out for Adam's family.  The father done a good job founding out who's the killer of his son.  There's no doubt in my mind , the wife paid someone to do that .
I just saw the Dateline. I met Abe Anhang while traveling home to Puerto Rico last August. Such a tender sweet man and I asked him "What brings you to Puerto Rico.?" He told me that I wouldn't want to know. I love to talk and he left me speechless. What I love about him is that he is so steady and dignified. He doesn't have any malicious intent. He is seeking justice. I have lived here for 19 years and have had wonderful experiences with the people of Puerto Rico. I don't think that we can lump or stereotype. I am praying for that family and they are so admirable. They stood up against a very weak, disorganized and corrupt system and stayed strong. They are honoring their son and sending a very strong message. I congratulate him and his family. The pain has to be unimaginable. I was blessed to meet him and see first hand his love and commitment to his precious son.
I was very upset by this story and heartbroken for Mr. Adam Anhang and his loving family who grieves him. I extend my heartfelt condolences to them and hope they will find comfort, peace, and justice.  Godspeed, Mr. Abe Anhang, in your pursuit for the truth, guided by the absolute love and devotion to your son, Adam, who will never be forgotten.
Respectfully,
Louis Aletto
Sarah - my heart was touched by this tragic story. Such an amazing life cut short. Time will bring justice for Adam when the evil woman responsible for ending such an inspirational life through her involvement with such a horrific act is made to pay her for acts. She obviously could never anticipate that her actions would still keep her away from what she wanted the most - Adam's money. My prayers and sympathies go out to the Anhang family - God Bless.
I just find the story about Adam Shockingly sad. What a terrible lose to his family and to the world. I think it all started with a simple hope to find and be in love. Only to end up being deceived. I understand him completely.
As a former statesider now living in PR I can only hide my head in shame when the rampant crime rate is mentioned on such a far-reaching program such as yours. Mr. Anhang you and your family have my deepest sympathy. May your son rest in peace.
I was very moved by tonight's story of a father seeking answers as to who murdered his son. It is my sincere hope that the Puerto Rican authorities continue to delve into this case until the obvious suspects are tried, convicted and pay for this horrible crime. Though, on merit, I believe your program atemmpted to present this in a fair manner, the particulars of this case scream out that the wife and her family were behind it all. May G-d speed you, Mr. Anhang, in bringing all involved in your son's murder to justice.  
 Even though this message may not appear I want you to know that I saw the story and think that it was very, very, sad but also one sided and prejudice in every shape and form.

 I am from Chicago,Il not a native of P.R. I have visited the Island of Puerto Rico over twenty times and have never encountered any danger.  Who know's what the real story is I wasn't their nor was the man's father.  Nor were the reporter's the truth may never be told.    

 I believe in not judging someone by how much money they have but by the content of their character, and the dignity and respect that they bestow on other's.  Not everyone can be bought some people may have dignity and respect.  

 If the son's character was like his father's I feel sorry for him. It seems as if the father judges everyone just on how much money they have. That is very sad and not something I would want to teach my children.

  If you believe in freedom of speech as a U.S. citizen then show this message.

 

 
First and foremost, I want to send my condolences to the Anhang's family. Your story really hit home for me since my parents presently live in Puerto Rico. I have two sons who I adore and can't imagine what Mr. and Mrs. Anhang has had to endure; this story completely broke my heart. I am appalled to think that Aurea thought she could get away with this, and hope those who were involved are put away forever. I am a Puerto Rican woman embarrassed by this cruel and heartless crime committed to a gentle soul who was only trying to help this country; shame on those Puerto Ricans that were involved. United States has always helped and supported that country. I only wish my parents would come back to where they chose to raise us. Thank you for sharing this story. I would certainly do exactly what Mr. Anhang did for answers; they need to be held accountable. God Bless you and continue to give you the strength you need; Adam is in better place.  
I WATCHED DATELINE TONIGHT AND MY HEART GOES OUT TO ADAM'S FAMILY, HE SEEMED LIKE A WONDERFUL YOUNG MAN,I BELIEVE THE WIFE DEFINATELY HAD SET UP ADAM,PART OF THE DEAL WAS TO TAKE HIM OUT TO DINNER THAT EVENING      AND HAVE HIM KILLED.HE WAS A GIFTED YOUNG MAN AND I HONESTLY FEEL SUCH A SADNESS FOR HIS FAMILY.MAY GOD KEEP HIM IN THE PALMS OF HIS HAND.
As a native Puerto Rican I am disgusted to think that we have such conniving people in out island. It is with great sadness that I must accept such a thing. I hope and pray that the PR authorities get that woman and lock her up forever.

I feel deeply for Adam's family and I am a little a shame that in my native country we can have such cold blooded crimes happening.
Adam, Wife and daughter,
Dear Adam, wife and daughter,
I wish you and your family well! Peace be with all three of you at this time! Whatever someone does in
darkness-- will always come to light! Bless you,
                                     Lorraine
                                     Passaretti
My condolences to the Anhang Family the tragedy of your beloved son, Adam will forever impact Puerto Rico-and the U.S. as it is a common wealth of the U.S.A. I believe the chief of police has dragged his feet in this case and has caused great doubt in the justice system of Puerto Rico. To first say that Aria Vasquez has the right to an attorney, this law because it is the commonwealth of the U.S.A., yet they are not doing their job fully, because in the U.S.A. the #1 suspect is always a spouse if there is a contentious divorce looming. They are protecting the rights(wrongs) of a cold blooded killer whose motive was greed. The hot island of Puerto Rico will suffer greatly-tourism will suffer, it should. The heart of Puerto Rico is crying out for justice not favoritism. These island people are not savages, they are a proud people. The truth will come...The island of Boriquen must open its mouth, otherwise it will not be able to eat the fruits of it's labor, because professing to be the Caribbean's "Shining Star, doesn't make it so."

i lived in puerto rico for 10-13 years its very corrupted island. I have seen and heard many unsolved murders in that island. The Gov't is corrupt and the police force is corrupt. Good luck to the Dad who is trying to solve the murder. He seems to be on the right track, the Perla as it is named is a very bad place. God bless the family.
I am a little confused.  The father is from Cananda but you never gave the town he is from.  Yet the son is an American?  No comment on this.  His wife was pregnant but Adam was in such a hurry to marry her? Without a simple drugstore pregancy test? Then a DNA test from a doctor?  Remember he had time to have a prenup drawn up? Go figure!  Why no comment from his first wife?? Two weeks?  This wife was Catholic? So what?  Why was that asked or even brought up?  I know Mormons, Southern Baptists, Church of God members etc. etc. all of whom are more upset over aboration so I don't get the point of religion in this.  How come Adam's religion wasn't brought up??  Was that a $100,000 reward the father put up for information? Maybe the cops would find more killers if they put up awards!
Such a sad story...A gentle and generous spirit.
Those are the words I would use to describe my brother DALE HENRY, he thought he found paradise, who met his fate in his home he lovingly provided his Thai wife and her family. His wife was not so smart. She forgot to erase her text messages. Her, her botfriend, and the hitman were arrested. Prelim. begins May 08/08.
I am thankful for that, as I may see justice.
When a loved one is taken in a horrific way, it really leaves an awful imprint in your mind.
You go over and over the scenario...and still come up full of sadness and more questions than answers.
I really hope you find peace...I know it seems like a long ways away...for me. I will not attend for security reasons, which is really sad.
What you are doing to see justice done, is immeasurable. You have made it this far. I am sure you have double checked her cell phone records? Don't give up...I know you won't.
Much peace and hope that justice will prevail...for a man that very deserves at LEAST that.
Because of the turn of recent events, I am afraid for both my younger brother and I to go back...I will stay in Canada. He is going no matter what. If him and I are dead, his estate will go to her Mother. It is just sick!! All of this for money.
Regards,
Mary-Jane
abe, don`t stop get her.this was her husband and she didn`t want to talk to the police tha night as close to the area she was at the time.something wrong.
i`ll pray for you in your quest for justice
Adam is so fortunate to have such a determined loving father Abe who will not leave any stones unturned to find his son's murderer. Never give up.
I watch Dateline regularly and while most of the stories of this nature are terribly tragic for some reason this story affected me more than any other I have ever seen.  Clearly, the Anhang's are an amazing family.  To see Adam's father pacing the streets of Puerto Rico searching for answers to his son's murder made me weep.  I will never forget this story and will check the internet periodically for updates.  I can only pray that the Anhang's get the justice they deserve.  Puerto Rico better step up to the plate and arrest Adam's widow.  She should have her day in court.  My husband has done work in Puerto Rico and I have traveled there with him.  But, this makes me want to stop going there.  If PR doesn't want to protect the foreigners who choose to live there and contribute to their economy, then why should it be supported.  Look what happened to Aruba with the Natalie Holloway case.  The same should happen to Puerto Rico.
John Doe – please leave an e-mail address where we can contact you.
I am appalled at how the victim's family is being attacked by some of the poster's in response to the show.  My mother & aunt, both who were born & raised in Puerto Rico, were disgusted by how Aurea has seemingly gotten away with murder.  Both my mother & aunt always dreamed of retiring to PR, but neither is willing to go live there due to the crime rate.  They go visit family and always come back sad and depressed by how the island has changed.  I sincerely hope that the PR police department gets its act together and manages to charge and convict Aurea of the murder she planned & executed.  Greed is such a horrible emotion.  May God bless the Anhang family and eventually help them find some peace.
No one who has not lost a child can comprehend the grief these parents must live with until they die. In 2001 my son, a year younger than Adam, dissappeared- fortunately for us our story has a happy ending. After being missing for almost 24 hours he showed up at our home. Only God could have led him back- he still has only brief recollections of what happened to him. The windows of his car were shot out, his clothing was torn, he had scratches all over him, but he was alive and relatively well. We live in Nevada, and he ended up in an extremely isolated area, panicky and out of gas, with no idea where he was, and a woman appeared who was rounding up cattle, filled his car with gaqs and gave him directions to our ranch, which is 70 miles from town. If it weren't for that quirk of fate, he could have died in that remote valley and it might have been years before we discovered what happeded to him. We are also blessed with a wonderful and loving daughter in law.The story of Adam breaks my heart.
My heart goes out to Abe Anhang.  I can't imagine what he's going through.  I only just saw the documentary and was driven enough to go to msnbc and comment (something I've never done before).  I was INFURIATED by Aria Vasquez and her family along with the justice system in Puerto Rico.  It seemed as if police were "waiting for Aria to come around" rather than questioning her like a normal suspect.  It made me grateful to live in America.  I really have high hopes that she WILL be FOUND and prosecuted.  It couldn't be MORE OBVIOUS that she and her family had something to do with Adams murder.  I only wish the police had two brain cells between them to consider her a suspect BEFORE she skipped town.  As for Abe... Abe, my prayers are with you.  Please stay strong and fight til the end. Justice will prevail... at this point it's all about patience.
My heart just broke when I watched this Dateline on Adam.  Such a sweet, brilliant man, with a caring, loving family.  My sincerest condolences go out to Adam's family, and I hope that in the very near future, EVERYONE who was involved in this terrible tragedy is brought to justice.
This story is just so terribly sad.  I have seen many stories on Dateline but have never seen one that has affected me so much that I wanted to write to the parents right away.  May God be with you through this terrible time in your life.  I have two wonderful sons and one lovely daughter of my own and they each have a chosen a wonderful mate for themselves and I simply cannot imagine such a tragedy as this.  It surely does appear that this unfotunate selection of a wife must have something more she could submit in helping to solve this crime.   She is obviously involved to some degree but if not personally involved, she knows something as to who was behind it, be it her family, mofia, or satan himself.  I hope she will never receive a penny of his estate.  It is so hard to speak of her as she had ruined his happiness while she was a part of his life and is involved in the murder in some way.  My heart aches for Adam's father, mother and sister.  They seem like such a loving and caring family.  I pray that they will find peace and strength to go on with their lives.  I whole- heartedly love, admire and respect Adam's father for his courageous efforts in searching and finding his son's murdurer. I am sure he has made his son and his family very proud. I hope he and I will both live to see the orchestrator of this muder brought to justice.  I will keep this family in my prayers and thank Dateline for assisting Mr. Anhang in any way possible.  
Tragic story, but more than that; one of justice
being sought for a crime where there is clear indication that it was a set-up for monetary gains.
The old saying, that money is the root of all evil
exists daily in our society of corruption, and a
multitude of persons being killed for greed (&
more prominent, is sex).  This story has a sex angle
that wasn't explored, as a writer's comment being
that pre-nup, preg. test, etc. were not implemented.
Another writer questions CANADA; this has no bearing
on the town (actually, Winnipeg, a large city) in
relation to this crime.  As another comment " in
the palm" of God; may father, mother and family
truly attain peace, through their resourcefulness.
My condolenson to Adams family, his wife should have been suspect.  But as far as corruption.  We could say it is every where even her in the USA.  Where I'm from they are several unsolved murders that I can remember as far as 30 years ago.  But because of proverty, these cases will never be solved.
I dont think it was the wife..perhaps the family and their greed.. the wife was just a little puppet played into the plan. coaching her on what to do and what not to do...
Yes, this was an amazing story. How tragic that such a crime could happen to anyone, and especially to such a decent & upright family as the Anhangs. May God have mercy on Adam's soul and bring peace to the Anhangs and justice to the guilty, which as others have stated I'm sure is close at hand.
Thanks also to Dateline - these events shock us out of our comfort zone & make us realize the evil in humanity, but also the great good too.


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