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Father searches for answers

Posted: Wednesday, March 12, 2008 11:03 AM by Dateline Editor
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By Luz Villarreal, Dateline Producer

It was an early Monday morning in late August 2004. I was the first one in the office that day. I warmed up some instant oatmeal and started reading some of our local newspapers.  One story jumped out at me. The headline read “Investigation into girl's disappearance leads to murder charges against mother.”

The next day, I was sitting in Dick Pulsifer’s living room. He’s a simple, quiet man with a shy smile. He worked in security at a Las Vegas casino and also ran a karate school in town. He told me he grew up in San Diego and married young. I could tell he was trying to keep his emotions in check.

While we talked, his wife, Cathe, was fielding phone calls from media organizations across the country. I was the lucky one; when I knocked on their door that morning, they agreed to give Dateline the exclusive to their story.

The woman in the headline I read the previous morning was Dick’s first wife and the girl was their daughter, Michelle Kelly Pulsifer. She was only 3 years old when she went missing in 1969.

During this meeting and all those that followed, I learned just how hard Dick Pulsifer tried to find Michelle after his ex-wife mysteriously fled California nearly 40 years ago. He contacted social services, the police and the district attorney’s office. He said they all turned him away.

He searched on the Internet and telephoned a few people listed as Michelle Pulsifer. Every time Dick was in a crowd, he wondered if he could recognize the little girl who would now be an adult, possibly with kids of her own. He held out hope that someday she would walk up his home, knock on his door and surprise him.

But that would never happen. Investigators told him Michelle never left the state of California alive.

When police arrested the little girl’s mother, Donna Prentice, they also arrested her former boyfriend, Michael Kent. Both entered not guilty pleas in Santa Ana, Calif.

I spent hours talking to friends, relatives and investigators trying to piece Michelle’s life together. I also tried to interview Donna. Her attorney wouldn’t allow it. I tried to interview Michael Kent, but he was in poor health and died in jail six months after his arrest.

Next, I turned to Michael’s son, Jamie Kent. He was only two years old at the time of Michelle’s death and had no memory of her but he did remember what his father told him in 2004 after he was arrested and charged with her murder.  Still, Jamie didn’t want to share his story with us. He has a family of his own now and wanted to protect them. But he is the only person alive who could defend his father and speak on his behalf. After several calls, Jamie agreed to talk to us and tell us what he knew.

The case took nearly three years to work its way through the judicial system. Throughout the process, I kept reminding myself, “This is a story about Michelle.”  To me, it’s not about Donna Prentice, Michael Kent or even the people that loved her. It’s about a little girl who never had a chance.

Dick never stopped loving his little girl. All he wants now are answers. Was it an accident? Was it malicious? How did it happen? He said to me once, “I have no clue what happened to Michelle.  That's the question, and that's the answer I'll probably never get.   I don't know what a three year old could possibly do to make this happen.”

Dick Pulsifer hoped to find out in court. We all did.

A special Dateline on this case, 'The Girl in the Little Blue Dress,' airs on NBC Friday, March 14 at 9pm ET. Click here for the full story and video.

 

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I remember a case in Tolland CT back in the late 60's early 70's about a little girl, I think she was 8 years old who went to catch a butterfly and never came back. They found her bicycle in the family driveway but no trace of her. I'll never forget the feeling in the pit of my stomach for this little girl. I was in High School and was part of the search party.  Her name was Janice Pockett. I never heard about her after that summer. I never knew the outcome.
there is an answer to every question...it will surface. till then, i wish you the best.
I don't have any children but I can't imagine going through my life not having any answers. He needs closure and with that I wish him all the best in his search.
It is awful that our justice system fails these children. Even if these people are found responsible for her death, I honestly believe that the punishment for harming a child is not great enough. What makes people think they can do this to a helpless victim. Perhaps if the death sentence was imposed whenever the victim is a child, maybe this wouldn't keep happening to our children. Every parent is saddened when they hear about a child being abused or murdered because they think "what if it was my child?" Why can't our justice system protect these children?
I can't imagine what Mr.Pulsifer is going through. He has every right to know what happened to his little girl. Does he know for sure that she is deceased? Who was the last one to see her? If indeed she is gone, she is in a much better place where there is no hurt or sorrow or sadness, and may be watching her father and waiting for him to join her.  God bless this family
Dick and Cathe-
I pray that you will find your answers, but moreover, I wish you peace.  God Bless You.
Frustrating?  You think it's frustrating to lose your child?  I can't even believe one could actually make a comment as stupid as the one listed above mine, referring to a parent's loss of his little girl. I don't think too many people out there can actually understand what this man is going through-- myself being one of them.  I do, however, believe him to be pretty damn admirable for not losing hope of finding his girl.  I certainly wish him the absolute best of luck.  
i wish him the very best.  it must be hard to not know what happened to his little girl those many years ago.  good luck
I CANT EVEN IMAGINE THE GRIEF THIS MAN HAS GONE THROUGH.. THERE IS AN ANSWER TO EVERY QUESTION AND ONE WAY OR ANOTHER HE WILL FIND OUT THE ANSWERS. GOD BLESS.
this is for the first comment that Judith made about the Pockett girl that was missing.

The late Charles Pierce, a pedophile who was suspected in many child disappearance cases in New England throughout the 1950's - 1970's, confessed to Pockett's murder. He claimed to have buried her in the Lawrence, Massachusetts area near an unidenitified boy who was another victim. The boy was thought to be Angelo Puglisi, a Massachusetts child who vanished three years after Pockett in 1976. Neither of the supposed graves has been discovered.
How sad... I wouldn't wish this on my worse enemy.  :(
DATELINE THE WORK YOU DO IS AWESOME PLEASE KEEP IT UP A VERY FAITHFUL VIEWER IN LOUISIANA
I knew Mike Kent when he rented a bar known as "Harmony" in Mchenry County Illinois, he lived in a mobile home park in Lakemoor at Sullivan Lake. I
represented him in several minor matters and always found him to be forthright, friendly and based on my contacts with him over a four year period I cannot believe that he would have harmed that little girl.
This is a horrible story. I feel for the father and would hope that Donna would come clean with what happened. I just don't understand how or why a mother could do something like this to a child! I have 3 kids and I love them with all my heart! They are my heart! I feel very angry at the mother! And so sad for the father!
This story just haunts me. Loosing a child and not knowing what happened to them must be unbearable and no one should go through that along.  may God and his angels watch over  Mr. Pulsifer and his son, and I pray that one day justice will be served for little Michelle.
I knew Mike Kent from 1977 until his death. I will never believe that he harmed Michelle in any way.  Although he wasn't a "Father knows Best" kind of dad, I watched him raise Jaime into a fine man. He was always a true friend to me.  My heart goes out to Michelles' father, nobody should have to wake up wondering each day where their child is.  Mike told me (day's before his arrest) what he believed happened that trajic day, and I will forever believe that he was in no way responsible for Michelles' death.
Well, unfortunately, I know too well what it's like for your mother to leave you behind and move on without ever hearing from her again...for 16 years (when I got my drivers license and drove 36 hours to see her!) no letters, no birthday calls, no Christmas calls...nothing.  My mother did this to me and I will tell you it's very disturbing to know there are people out there that can actually behave this way and for so, so long.  Donna knows more, she's just not telling.  We all have the sick feeling in our stomachs that is telling us she's involved more than she is admitting to.  She will probably take it to her grave just like my mother did.  The good news is; look at what an awesome man Mr. Pulsifer is and how much this story has inspired some of us in so many ways.  I gotta go hug my kids!  Take Care...
I think this is terrible that no one is doing anything to find out what happened to this little girl. its been like 40 years and they still dont no what happened. this case should be taken care of before all the other missing child cases that happened recently. im only 14 years old but when i get older i want to be an investagator and im going to solve this case no matter how hard it is.
how saddened I am for the pulsifer family. what a selfish thing for someone to do, not only to take this little girl away from the people who love her so but also to keep a secret for so many years just to keep herself from troublesome consequences my heart goes out to you dick pulsifer. may you keep up the good fight..........godspeed
I remember the first time I heard about this horrible situation from Rich Jr. himself.  I pray for him, his father and their families that they will soon find closure and be given their time to heal.  To you Rich, if you see this, remember....."you reap what you sow".  Michelle will have her victory and God will have his vengeance.
I cannot imagine how horrific this experience has been - I am going through a divorce right now where custody is an issue, and it is stories like this that makes me fear the worst...

My heart breaks for you and your little girl - God bless the two of you, and keep you in peace.
I don't know why the system favors the mother over the father when it comes to child custody.  I mean, the mother did not have the child on her own.  Without the father, their wouldn't be a child.  So when couples splits up, the court system should allow 50/50 custody unless if there is proven evidence showing that the father is unfit or the father abandons the child.  Why does the court believe the mother over the father?  When a woman goes to court and cries that the father is abusive and bad mouths him, the court sides with the mother?  Why does the court not request for evidence from the mother to prove her case before giving full custody to the mother?  Our court system clearly needs to change for the better of these children.  There are many mothers in this world that is unfit to be mothers and the system clearly has shown in cases like this one that they only sided with the mother. What would have happened if the court had awarded 50/50 custody?  This little girl probably wouldn't have disappeared.  The mother wouldn't have and think she had the power to anything she wanted to her daughter.  I am curious why social services didn't investigate and demand to know where this little girl is after the father put in a complaint.  Obviously, no one cared enough to do their job. It is such a sad story. I truly believed the mother killed her daughter.  I don't think it was the boyfriend because if it was, the mother would be enraged at him and have turned him.  I hope she receives the fullest punishment. My prayers goes out to Michelle and her father.  
I feel sorry for everyone involved in this situation, especially for little Michelle, who never got the chance to live her life. But the same questions keep haunting me, why did Donna Prentice make a trip back to Calif. shortly after the move to Chicago and then return to her life w/ Mike Kent if he was abusive? Wouldn't a mother fear for the life of her other child (Richie) if her abusive boyfriend had harmed her little girl? Why would Donna go back to Calif. and not  
pick up her little girl if she had been left behind with Mike's mom? And mostly I question why Donna would
marry Mike afterwards if he had harmed her little girl? I also think that dateline missed out on the fact that Donna Prentice and Mike Kent remained friends long term, they were still friends after their
break up of their marriage and even after each of them had remarried. They even got together for visits and stayed in touch. Is that what a woman does if her little angel had been murdered by the man who she claims abused her? I think Donna Prentice waited until after Mike Kent died during incarceration while waiting for the trial to claim that she had been abused by him. She changed her story too many times to have any credibility. I think Mike Kent helped cover up something that happened but most likely Donna was the guilty one for not having come clean with what really happened to her daughter 40 years ago. Then to apply for child support for her son and not her daughter, what was this woman thinking??? She needs some serious therapy. At least she will have time in jail to think about all the lies she told and could have told to cover all of this up.
I WATCHED YOUR STORY ON DATELINE LAST NIGHT.MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU MR.PULSIFER.I COULDN'T GET THIS STORY OFF MY MIND.I WILL BE PRAYING WITH YOU AND FOR YOU.

We would like to thank you and your staff at Dateline for bringing to public attention the story of "The Girl in the Little Blue Dress".  It seems that this kind of tragedy is seldom given much place or time in our media. Yet our fortunate we are to have the media as a tool to fight for social awareness and justice.   I would especially like to comment on the aspect of this case, which would fall under the caption of 'family law' or 'domestic relations law'.

Certainly one's moral and legal right to separate and divorce oneself from a bad, dangerous, hopeless marital situation, is inarguable; and divorce laws belong to a civilized society.  However, I believe the aspect of divorce understood as 'custody'  that inolves children, needs to be brought to the attention of our society, as possibly a badly broken-down system - often decrepid.  

Commonly the courts separate families by giving one parent majority or total custody, as a means of "settlement".  Thereby, greatly reducing further traffic in court.  Yes, your show made us weep for this broken-hearted, disempowered father who for so long had no one to stand up for him or to turn to.  How interesting it would have been had some of the judges, lawyers or social workers, been held accountable and been scrutinized in such a program as yours.
Leszek, Kelseyville, CA
Is this merely an odd-ball case of a missing child? I don't think so. What do we think when we so often see missing child advertisements?  Is this situation far greater or far smaller than we are led to believe?   We believe that the fact that such matters appear one by one (the trickle effect), they never seem even remotely as important as when we have a situation where dozens, hundreds or thousands are impacted all at one time.

We are sad to say that we, ourselves, fell into a very similar predicament five long years ago.  From our point of view, we have not seen our daughter for years.  I know we know just what it is like to daily live that nightmare and to have no where to turn for help - with no legal remedy in sight.  This is especially harrowing to law-abiding citizens when their problem can be traced to someone hiding behind a bench and black cape in an American courthouse.  We feel for Dick's and Cathe's frustration and feelings of powerlessness and empathize with their pain.

We believe it is safe to assume that this form of disempowerment most commonly affecting fathers, is rampant in America.  And it is in a way like a black market, in that billions of dollars are involved.  I think that fact alone is what makes it most difficult to remedy.  

Yet programs like yours, Luz Villarreal, are definately a start.  Without awareness of a problem, there can be no solution, only denial of a problem. This will take strength and courage, as well as empathy.  Once again, congratulations for going far, where few dare tread.
I can't stop thinking about this story. It's truely one of the most gut wrenching one's I've heard. That poor father. And how cold and indifferent the mother was. Listening to those tapes of her, I know she had something to do with the killing. And it really killed me to hear that the brother said she came into his room and asked him to hide her. I'm so very sorry for you Dick. Nobody should have to suffer the way you and little Michelle did.
god bless this man and his family. i started to cry when i heard his story.
I would like to know if the backyard of the house the mother was living in at the time was ever dug up to look for a body.  It seams like a logical place for them to hide the body.
No real mother would just leave her child. No real mother would not give her life to protect her child. What is wrong with this woman? How could she let someone harm her baby girl? My husband was abused by his father and his mother did nothing to stop it, I have zero respect for her because of this, you would have to kill me to harm my children and my husband feels the same way, we would absolutely without a doubt give our lives for them. Shame on her for not protecting her child and for letting her ex-husband live for so many years and not know where his little girl is. My prayers are with him and his baby girl. What goes around comes around, she will have to answer to god one day.  
I think it is time for the courts and social service systmes to treat children like individual human beings with their own rights and not like pieces of property to be disposed of at will.  Stories like this make us all seem less human.
I am a 39 year old mom of 2 young boys.  When I saw this story, I cried.  It just tore me up.  The words "Hide me"she spoke to her brother on his bed the night before she disapeared just haunt me.  I prayed the night I saw this story, and I cried a lot.  A beautiful girl, one I wish I could have saved.  I pray for the father, and I think of the little girl often since I saw the story.  I care, and I will never forget this story.  
my heart goes out to mr. pulsifer i hope he finds the answers he's looking for CHILDREN ARE TRUE GIFTS GOD!!how any parent can hurt them is beond me god bless you, in your search for answers.
I watched the DateLine Program that aired 3/14/08.  I was stunned.  I lead a normal life and have no special abilities.  But the night before the airing of this program I had a dream.  Even as I watched the program I could not believe the name DONNA JEAN as the mother of this missing little girl. Take this for whatever you can.  The name, Donna Jean was loud and clear.  I do not know nor have I ever known a person by this name.  She was holding a small boy.  Then I was hold the boy protectively.  Then a large building with high ceilings and large machinery on the left side only. It was a very, very large building.  At the very back wall were shower heads attached to the wall, but no walls divided them.  They were in the open.  I have not ideal what if anything this means.  Are there any large buildings around the area where the little girl went missing?  Did her husband at the time work at any place like that?  I do not wish to disturbe you at this time, but this will not go out of my mind and my thoughts.  I wish you and your son peace.
Mike admitted where he supposedly buried her body in a ravine but they haven't ever found her body. She was small,the area is prone to flooding and she would be difficult to find. I don't know how hard they looked or for how long.
This is one of the saddest and most shocking stories I've heard in a long time. I am so sorry for your loss. This mother, and I use the term loosely , is guilty of so many things besides murder that she deserves to be punished no matter what. The fact that her ex exonerated her of the act itself on his deathbed holds no weight at all, the man knew he was dying, he had nothing to lose. He continued his lies right until the end  and she will too. What horrible people....
I think the most chilling part of this whole sad ordeal, is when the investagtor ask the mother was she not worried, or did she ever wonder where her daughter was, and the mother replied NO she wasntst concerned. Seems really scary to me that there are human biengs such as that mother, how can a woman not be concerned about her child. Scary to know there are people in this world like that woman, And it could be out next door neighbors. Who ever did this should not be given death, they should be put in a small room for the rest of thrir life and made to look at that little girls picture. They shoukd be tormented for the rest of their natural life. Death is a easy way out. I send all my best to the father of this preety little girl who should have been allowed to live. Dear God, what could that little girl have done that was so bad to deserve what happen to her. My thought are with the father of human person, that should have been givin the right to live a long wonderfull life....
I'm really saddened by this whole thing and wish the best for you Dick,Cathe, and Rich Jr.  What disterbs me the most is Michelle is missing and her mom don't care enough then to protect her or return Michelle to her dad if she did not want her anymore.  No room in the vehicale.  What a poor reason not to return a kid to a loving parent than to strangers like she claims.   But after so many years she could make peace at least for all of you by telling the truth.  God Bless you all.
I would like to thank Dateline for running this story. I only wish they would have run my story, you see this same story has happened to me three times. One daughter just disappeared with her mother, never t be seen again. I was given total custody of my second child after she had been missing for a year, the police refused to enforce the courts order for a total change of custody and a bench warrant for the mother. My third child I personally wnet to court representing myself,after studying law for several years. and won total custody of my third child. This time the court refused to enforce the total change of custody order. I have never been able to find daughter number two, also named michelle. Daughter number one finaly, after 29 years found me. Daughter number three I have been able to maintain contact with but she now lives nearly two thousand miles away and the courts refuse to do anything. I can, by my knowledge of the many States laws involved, and by my knowledge of federal laws, Prove that my civil right my daughters civil rights and many laws on the books have been violated by the several local police agencies and the courts and I have been denied legal access to the courts to prevent anything from being done about these crimes. Everything is well documented. Why can't I get help to find and recover my children?  Strange you run this story today, its my birthday. Thank You.
thank you all for the kindness you show for my husband Dick and for our son Rich. This has been a long road but Dateline has been there for the last 3 years with us. Luz ia great, she was not just there for the story but for Michelle.Dick is shocked at all the people who watched the story and have responded to it. We still have another trial to go thru this summer and we hope for a better outcome. I hope I can tell you all she was found guilty, but you must remember she is tried under 1969 laws.
Mr. Pulsifer, When I saw your story last night on dateline, I cried. I can imagine the ghut wrenching pain you have felt to this day. I have 2 girls, they were taken to GA with their father w/o my permission. He has custody, so its not the fact that the system favors the mother its who ever has custody has the complete say on how the children are raised and what they can do. My story is too long to print but even tho my children are with their father in anther state, and in good care, it is still very hard for me to not have them here so i can hold them and see them everyday. The system anywhere in this world does not give rights to both parents. Somehow the one w/o custody rights have no say with anything. I feel for you sir, im so very sorry this happened to your little girl. I hope you find the answer to put little michelle in peace. She is an unrest soul and she needs you to reveal her killer. Dont give up for her sake. God bless you.
My heart goes out to all concerned in this story. If I lost either of my girls OMG I would lose it and end up in prison. I live in Georgia and have been absolutely appalled at the Mike Vick case,  animals need to be protected but it seems like there is more emphasize on animal rights than there are on childrens rights.  I love my dog but my children will come first no matter what.  
 I pray for the father and the son that they will be able to find closure to their loss and I pray for the mother that she will let the truth be known for herself and the other grieving family members
My heart goes out to all concerned in this story. If I lost either of my girls OMG I would lose it and end up in prison. I live in Georgia and have been absolutely appalled at the Mike Vick case,  animals need to be protected but it seems like there is more emphasize on animal rights than there are on childrens rights.  I love my dog but my children will come first no matter what.  
 I pray for the father and the son that they will be able to find closure to their loss and I pray for the mother that she will let the truth be known for herself and the other grieving family members
We think that a mother can't possibly hurt her child, or allow someone else to harm them - but it happens over and over again in this country.  It happens to  children too young to be in school, not on anyone's radar, or not in school, moved from one place to another, registered nowhere.  No doctor, no dentist, no schools.  No one misses them, no one sees them gone.  Maybe a grandparent, maybe an aunt, but no one with the right to do anything - and then the parents are gone.  Many times the parents are on the lower ends of the socioeconomic scale, but not always.

Mothers, parents DO hurt children.  Please keep your eyes open to child abuse and neglect.  You can save a child.  There are domestic abuse and child abuse hotlines that you can report things to.  1-800-4 A Child or (1- 800- 422- 4453).

They didn't have an 800 number back in 1969, and maybe it wouldn't have helped.  The kids aren't always safe with mom/dad.  Bad things happen at home.  

The love and dedication that Dick Pulsifer has shown for Michelle is awe-inspiring.  I cannot imagine his agony, and I hope that bringing some accountability to the monsters that did this to your baby brings you some peace.
My heart goes out to Mr. Pulsifer and his son as well
as Mr. Kent's son--His father is no longer here to
defend himself.  
I can only wonder what doubt was in those juror's minds.  I believe that if that woman did not murder that child with her own hands, she certainly left her
to die by some other means.  
This story has effected me like no other.  I pray for
justice.
Dick, Rich and Cathe,

I pray for the truth of your beautiful Michelle's life to be revealed. I admire your love, determination and persistence. How sad it is that you have been through all of this and still have no closure. I will be thinking of you for this summer.
Dick, Richie, Cathe
It took me awhile to be able to sent this.This has been a long journey, but it is not finished. Eventhough I have spoken to you after the dateline airing, I still can't express what a uncle, brother and family member can say. I truly believe Donna will get what she deserves.MY heart goes out to all of our family for this act of unmotherly fellings.GOD BLESS
I didn't read all of these blogs but most of them.... I haven't seen one MAIN point that nobody seems to be touching on? Why wouldn't she just give the little girl to her father if they weren't able to take her? that right there in itself is a dead give away that something horrible happened to her(poor baby) HER MOTHER IS GUILTY for sure! as to the stepfathers involvement I don't know to what extent he was involved but he is guilty also as he played his role in it.
There are many stories similar to the Pulsifier familys. Go to The Doe Network, a website that highlights missing persons cases that are more than 10 years old.
All of the reporting agencies in my case, every single contact I have made tells me their is nothing they will do, they refuse to take missing persons complaints, they refuse to enforce bench warrants. I have been denied every possible opportunity to find my three missing children. The courts are just too dammed corrupt, the police have been absolutely useless and my court orders changing total custody to me for good cause have turned out to be worthless. Why did the court issue them if no one will enforce them? my three cases involve a total of seven states and they are all worthless.


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