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A daughter's desperate plea

Posted: Thursday, March 06, 2008 7:05 PM by Dateline Editor
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Elizabeth Shoaf, the brave high school girl who was held hostage for ten days in an underground bunker and managed her own rescue, speaks out in great detail for the first time to "Dateline's" Keith Morrison in "Into the Woods," a very special two-hour Dateline, airing Friday, March 7, at 9pm on NBC. Below, her mother writes about the experience.

By Madeline Shoaf

After seven sleepless days and nights, we finally got a lead in the case. My family and I were to attend another vigil for Elizabeth at the state capitol. My husband would stay behind just in case there were any phone calls. As I was leaving, I grabbed my cell phone and there was a text message on it. I looked at it and about fell to the ground.It was a message from my daughter. I knew it was from Elizabeth, yet it was the scariest message I ever received. 

Investigators told my husband and me that there were two scenarios. One, it was a prank message from someone who wanted to hurt us; or two, she was just making an excuse to come back home. My husband and I were in disbelief. We could not understand why they kept thinking she was some type of troublemaker and would put us through this heartbreak.
Deputies searched the area where the message said she was, but found nothing. They told us that the phone was bought in Georgia but the message was received within a ten-mile radius. 

The next day, my husband, my family, friends and I started searching again. We knew Elizabeth was close to us, and that made everyone more desperate to search everywhere.

On Friday, the ninth day, I was getting even more desperate to know where my daughter was. I saw the police had an area blocked off near my house and I went to check to see what was going on. The sheriff’s captain told us they had a person of interest. They intercepted a message from the phone that Elizabeth used to text message me and another phone in the area. That person who owned the other phone was in custody. This was the first deep breath my husband and I took for nine days.

The person of interest was a man they had been tracking for nearly a year. He lived near the same area Elizabeth had described on the text message.

Early Saturday morning, I was just about to go where the police were, when I saw a truck come up our road. As the truck got closer, we saw it was Captain Thomley. He jumped out of his truck and yelled,” We got her and she was safe.” I dropped to my knees. My heart was back in place and I ran to him and hugged him. I looked at him and could see tears in his eyes. He told me to get my husband and he would take us to the hospital. 

The whole world seemed brighter when I looked upon her face. My life was whole again and my family complete. She looked at me shyly at first, not knowing what to say. All I could tell her was that she did not need to say anything. I loved her and was the happiest mother alive. She was safe and I would be here for her no matter what. One by one my family members came up to her to give her a hugs, kisses and to tell her they loved her. When she saw her father, she ran into his arms and started to cry all over again. After all the excitement, we went to my parent’s house to lie down. This was the first time that any of us had a good sleep for ten days.

Around four in the morning, I received a phone call from the captain at the sheriffs department. When I answered the phone, he yelled out “We caught him; tell Elizabeth she will not have to worry about him anymore.” I went to wake Elizabeth up to tell her the good news. All she said was “Thank God.” and lay back down to sleep.

Elizabeth and mother Madeline Shoaf

 

Click to read Elizabeth recounting how bunker was 'hell.'

For those interested in communicating with the Shoaf family, e-mail shoafs5@gmail.com.

Keith Morrison compared the relative strength of Elizabeth Shoaf and her captor Vinson Filyaw.

Click here for complete coverage of this case.

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Elizabeth, I just finished watching Dateline and as a mother I could not leave the television for fear of missing something about your ordeal. I admire you in a very big way and hope the best for your entire family. You are a very smart and brave person. I also admire your father for not lunging for the monster that you all faced. Good luck to you all.
Hi Elizabeth....  I just finished watching your story on Dateline tonight.  You had an angel with you in that bunker protecting you & giving you the courage to keep your composure.  What an awesome [guttsey] young woman to stand up for yourself the way that you did.  I saw where you wanted to become a teacher.  What ever you put your mind to .. you will accomplish it!  Attitude is everything.  God Bless you, your Mom, Dad & Brother.  
Dear Elizabeth,
  God bless you. Your story is inspiring. Not only did you survive but you stuck through to make sure justice was doneand that takes heart. Good for you.
And to mom and dad good for you too. I do not doubt that she gets her strength from you. Be blessed
Elizabeth,
I only live about an hour from you in Florence and after seeing this story on TV tonight all I want to do is put my arms around you. I remember when all this took place and how happy I was to hear that they had found you and caught Vinson Filyaw. I use to spend a lot of time in Camden not far from Lugoff.  In fact I was dating a man that lives there when I got the phone call that one of my granddaughters was attacked by a dog viciously. She was 10 yrs old and hurt very badly so I hurried to Florence. She has recovered but she will probably have more surgery down the road. She is the "air I breathe" so my heart hurts now just thinking about what your parents and family went through. I could have lost her.  Kayla is my hero and you truly my dear are one also. Not only are you beautiful but you have so much charm, sweetness,grace, a "Real Southern Girl and what it takes to go into the survival mode. You used your head, did what you had to do and look at Old Vinson now.  I agree with your parents that I think a death sentence would have been better for him but....some of those guys in Prison don't look too kindly on a man hurting a child or a young girl.  He may wish he had gotten a death sentence than to be in there with them. You are truly a person that I would be "proud to know".  You're tough as steel and you'll go far in this world. If you or your family ever come thru Florence and need anything you just call me.Huggs and kisses.
Hello Elizabeth,
Followed your story, we had the same victims advokate.
I love her and family to the bone.
Prayed for you and your family the whole time. And felt a connection all the time and didnt know how to place it. Drove nr 12 every day maybe 4 time because I lived there and had to pass your area every day.
You didnt go out of my mind even though I was going through my own good and bad time at that time.
Know that God takes care of you no matter what. And we can climb any mountain no matter what age. I learned not to escape from it but to survive and that is the best thing you can do, even though other people do not understand how you did it.
Keep on smiling girl, and be proud , YOU DID IT!

Would like to chat with you and your parents, I life close.

Stay alert and you can achieve every thing in life you want.

Bunches of love and Gods protection walks with you!

Miss P rivacy
Elizabeth,
I only live about an hour from you in Florence and after seeing this story on TV tonight all I want to do is put my arms around you. I remember when all this took place and how happy I was to hear that they had found you and caught Vinson Filyaw. I use to spend a lot of time in Camden not far from Lugoff.  My heart hurts now just thinking about what your parents and family went through. Not only are you beautiful but you have so much charm, sweetness,grace, a "Real Southern Girl and what it takes to go into the survival mode. You used your head, did what you had to do and look at Old Vinson now.  I agree with your parents that I think a death sentence would have been better for him but....some of those guys in Prison don't look too kindly on a man hurting a child or a young girl.  He may wish he had gotten a death sentence than to be in there with them. You are truly a person that I would be "proud to know".  You're tough as steel and you'll go far in this world. If you or your family ever come thru Florence and need anything you just call me. Huggs and kisses.
Hi Elizabeth, my 12 year old daughter and I watched your story on dateline this evening. Our hearts went out to you, my daughter sat and listern to every word your spoke and afterwards she said you were so brave and that god forbed it to ever happen to some other person she hopes that they too had watched your story and they too would do what you did to keep alive. You are a smart girl, very brave and you did what you had too and you made it out of there alive. Thank god that he was with you and I really believe that your story may just help others in one way or the other. Your mom, dad & family love you so much, they never gave up as you never gave up. May the Angels and god all ways be with you and your family. My daughter ask me to tell you, Thank you for sharing your story, she said she knows it had to be hard for you to keep having to tell it over and over, but she will never forget you.
Dear, sweet Elizabeth . . .

I watched your ordeal on Dateline tonight! . . . I was so so touched. In tears, I watched . . . in tears I felt the love and pain and terror of your parents.  I am so thankful that you somehow survived this horrendous ordeal! YOU are a beautiful, sweet, precious young lady . . . may God Bless you and your precious family . . . you stay strong and just know that through your faith and strong family support, you will get through this . . . do your best to stay positive in thought and actions and you hold your head up high !  You are a survivor and you are a sweet angel !!!  
Hello Elizabeth,I just wanted to tell you that God has BIG plans for you! It takes a very strong person to tell the world what happened to them. You are a very brave young lady. Just think tonight you could have given that ONE girl the strength she needed to tell someone and fight. I know it's hard to hear people say you will be fine one day. Just take your time you are not on any time table. You will have good days and bad days. As time goes by the pain gets a little better to manage. Just remember when you talk about it to others it helps the healing process. My prayer is that every girl who watched your story...gets a little closer to telling their story. I'm proud of you!!!! Oh and by the way NICE CAR!!!!  
Hi Lizzie! You're very brave. Thx for sharing your story! You're my hero now,(a 14 yrs-old outbeated a bastard and is a hero to a 24 yrs-old woman =)...I think there's hope after all. Life goes on right!? My heart goes to u and ur family and also to all the victims of sex crimes! =)

Keep smiling! Great smile! You're beautiful!
Dear Elizabeth, Your are to be commended for your courage, strength and heart. Understand what was done to you had nothing to do with you and everything thing to do with the man who kidnapped you. As someone who also suffers from PTSD I can relate when you wrote about having panic attacks etc, know your life will get better and you are not defined by what was done to you.

Thank you for having the gutts to share your story, your an inspiration to every child and adult who has been abused; stay strong and be true to yourself.
Dear Madeline,
You have an incredibly resourceful daughter who is alive today because you gave her a solid sense of self and her own worth. Never underestimate the power of a great mama!  I am so glad your baby came home. What a smarty!  You must be SO proud...

We all wonder what our purpose is here on earth, I believe that part Elizabeth's purpose is to teach us the power and strength that we have in reserve and which most of us never know, or even have to know that we have.
Elizabeth, you are an amazing and wonderful young woman. Stay strong and do whatever you have to do to regain all your health after this trauma.
elizabeth i am sorry you and youre family had to endure this pain, i believe GOD heard the prayers for you especially when youre text message you see GOD hears prayers,Elizabeth im an officer in a state prison in ca.I want you to believe me when i say you didnt do anything wrong this evil creep preyed on youre inocence, and had you not assisted in his capture and sentencing he would have more victims. Elizabeth, they never accept resposibility for their behavior they always blame the victim dont believe his lies,one day he will stand before GOD in judgement .I will keep you in my prayers.and continue to make sure these criminals stay in prison.Thank GOD for praying parents who never gave up.GOD BLESS YOU.
Elizabeth, I hope you know and realize that God will not put you through anything you can not handle. I also hope that with this story being broadcasted that it may reach out to someone to show and prove that justice can and will be done. God bless and I only wish you and your family a renewed out look on life.
Elizabeth, you are my hero. Your strength is amazing. You are such a smart, beautiful young woman. I just finished watching the Dateline story of your terrible ordeal and I had to find a way to send you a message. Your story truly affected me and how I will view and handle things in the future. Good luck on the long healing process. God bless you. Again, YOU ARE MY HERO!!
hi Elizabeth just want say that im really pround of you . how you got out of that hell place in the ground how you out fox that bad guy.He got all what he deserve.Ihope you can move on with your life and with your boyfriend to.                                                                god bless
hi Elizabeth im so proud of you that you got away from that guy.THat a girl your age can out fox a guy his age.Just so prond of you that you stood up in court to that guy.All i hope that you and family can get your life some what back where it was before this happen.You have a great boyfriend to.              

god bless
"lizzie"  thank god you were able to keep your wits about you...I hope that your Angels will always watch over you and help your soul heal quickly GOD BLESS YOU
Elizabeth, I remember the coverage of this case well and I cannot imagine what you and your family has gone through. I am so happy to see that you are doing great. You have terrific strength- you are a role model for all young girls.
Elizabeth i am so very proud of you. I hate what has happened to you. I wish I could take back time for you. But my prays for you is that you go on with your life and live it to the fullest and not let him win by holding you back from anything in life. You are such a sweet girl i wish i could put my arms around you and hug you. I have a daughter 19 and she is in college and i worry about her all the time. I wish the best for you. Dont hold your feelings in talk to your parents or a doctor and live your life. You are so strong dont let it get you down.There is so much in life to look forward to like school, dating, proms, college, weddings, and having babies, and watching them grow. I am praying for you.

                        God Bless You!
Wow. this story just amazes me and i m only 13 but i can't even imagine what she went through. I've always been told to stay away from strangers ,but now i really know what can happen if you don't stay away from them.
Wow. this story just amazes me and i m only 13 but i can't even imagine what she went through. I've always been told to stay away from strangers ,but now i really know what can happen if you don't stay away from them.
Dear Elizabeth and family,

First, I am so very happy you returned home safely.  I am sorry for all the pain and anguish you all suffered.  It was a horrific nightmare to be in.  Always remember you are a brave and courageous young woman who did nothing to deserve this.

Between the ages of 7 and 20 I had been molested and raped numerous times by people I knew and trusted.  At 20 I was date raped.  I never reported any of them to any one.  To this day very few people know what happened to me because I was so ashamed and thought I must have done something wrong and deserved it.  It took years of therapy for me to finally realize I DID NOTHING WRONG.  You already know this.  Please don't forget it.  It is so important to your continued journey of healing.  It takes a long time to move on.   But I promise you, big ugly scars will become faded and even hard to see.  You are a remarkable young woman who will do fantastic things with your life.  You can do and be any thing you want.  Reach for the stars.
Elizabeth, I'm very glad that your life was spared. I cannot imagine what horrors you have endured. Prayer helped you through your terrible ordeal and will continue to do so. It is impossible for others to understand what you went through and are still going through but people DO CARE. I care. -----------Denise
I am so glad that God returned you to your family. I am sorry that you ever had to face anything like that and I applaud your courage. May God continue to Bless and Keep you and your family.
Elizabeth,
Hi, I admire your courage and strength at what you have had to edure at such a young age.  You are a survivor, always remember that and embrace your family's love they have for you.  My heart breaks for what you went through, but try to not let that destroy the time you have left for happiness.  I have two young children, and can't even imagine what your parents were going through, but never loose your faith and hope.  Nobody can not take that from you.  Keep your head up high and remember the strong, smart, beautiful young woman that you are.  God Bless you and your family.  
Praise God that you all survived this!!  Yes, God especially answers prayers that are coupled with strong faith! He obviously has a great plan for Elizabeth's life. I am sure she is getting counseling, but I would encourage her to pray whenever the depression or panic attacks come. Pray out loud in the name of Jesus. Ask God to erase the painful memories and to restore the joy in your heart. Pray every time the memories come into your mind. I will keep you in my prayers too, Elizabeth. The Lord our God is greater than anything the Devil can bring against us to destroy us!
Elizabeth,

That was such a courage and a strong heart for your small age. I wish all teenagers were like you, this would have done a great job in cracking down on those monster thinking bastards of men like vinson!

He should rot in jail.. the only place he belongs..
You are such a brave young woman! You keep the faith,everything is going to be o.kay for you. You had faith when you were in that bad place. JUST DON'T LOSE THE FAITH,KNOW THAT GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH ALL OF THIS!
What a beautiful ending to a horrible ordeal.

I'm in tears thinking about the possible outcomes--Even so, I have tears of happiness that you are safe.

I pray the Lord will dim all your dark memories and suffuse your mind with happiness.

The predator that took you should be castrated. No ifs ands or buts...castration should be a mandatory punishment for ALL sexual predators against children.

God bless you and your brave family!
You are such a bright, articulate and beautiful young woman.

I'm so happy for you and your beautful family!
Elizabeth, I know you've been through a horid ordeal.  However, please do not let the sad moments in life bother you.  Stop and look at the positive side.  Perhaps, not now but a little later you should try to let go.  In addition, although, what your abductor did was 100% wrong nevertheless, like most other brutes he did not kill you.  You dont need to forgive him, just do not hate him, because, when you hate someone it tends to hold you back from a lot of positive things you have in mind that you want to accomplish.  Any how this is just a friendly advice to help you look at the half full glass.
Be well.
God bless to each of you. Hold on to each other, and be strong. There will be many trials and troubles related to this horrible ordeal, but I believe in my heart you are all prepared to overcome each and every one of them. Remember, all of the feelings of anger, fright, remorse, loss, even the depression-these are normal. YOU WILL ALL GET BETTER, and you will all WIN your lives back! Do Not be afraid to seek all the help you need. What ever you need, it's there for you.
I admire you in many ways. You are such a strong and blessed young lady! You had so much courage and Trust in thr Lord to guide you through this and bring you home safely. I will remember this story and keep you in my heart and prayers. God Bless you and stay strong. You have your whole life a head of you to live and I hope one day you can forgive this man. I am going through an ordeal now that until I read your story I felt bad for him. My sons father is sitting in jail right now for touching a little girl over her clothing and until right this minute I did not know how to feel about him. So Thank You SOOOO Much and I wish you a Happy and Fulfilling life. I am very proud of you!!!!!
Elizabeth,

Obviously God has a wonderful plan for you. You are so strong and your story has greatly touched me. I will never forget reading about your bravery and hope that you will never forget how many people you have who are proud of you and love you. As for this person who calls himself a man, he will live the rest of his life forced to think about what he did. This isn't something that he will be able to forget because in one way or another, he'll be reminded everyday. You will forever be in my heart and many others' around the world. God bless you and good luck in your future!
Elizabeth is going to have a long road ahead of her. The most wonderful contribution her story has made is hope. There are so many children out their being held captive or suffering at their parent's hands. This world is full of the devil. He is everywhere we turn. Everywhere. Life has become a struggle for survival. It is so sad that parents have to fear for their kids walking on the street. This young girl has a purpose. Her story is nothing short of a God-give miracle. May God bless you, your family, and all of those children who are still out there surving to stay alive. Thank you for your story. It has made an impact on my life.:))
Dear Elizabeth

While I didn’t see many of the news reports on your story I did come across it on the internet.  I, as apparently most, was truly impressed with your courage in the face of terror and degradation.  For such a young person you are truly remarkable, and deserve much credit for your acts.  As one of the few men here to comment I would ask that later in life you do not judge our gender by the acts of this deviant.  Most men, like most women find these kinds of acts abhorrent in the extreme.  While because of your religion you may some day make efforts to forgive this criminal take comfort in the fact that one of the few acts that convicts themselves condemn is the one you suffered (attacking or hurting children).  Believe that his time in prison will not be easy, and likely dangerous.  He may even suffer some of the acts that you did.  I do not advocate vengeance but if there is balance in this universe he will feel the pain that you had to.

Best wishes from my wife and I.  

Good Luck Sweetheart

Richard C. from Kenosha, WI


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