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A daughter's desperate plea

Posted: Thursday, March 06, 2008 7:05 PM by Dateline Editor
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Elizabeth Shoaf, the brave high school girl who was held hostage for ten days in an underground bunker and managed her own rescue, speaks out in great detail for the first time to "Dateline's" Keith Morrison in "Into the Woods," a very special two-hour Dateline, airing Friday, March 7, at 9pm on NBC. Below, her mother writes about the experience.

By Madeline Shoaf

After seven sleepless days and nights, we finally got a lead in the case. My family and I were to attend another vigil for Elizabeth at the state capitol. My husband would stay behind just in case there were any phone calls. As I was leaving, I grabbed my cell phone and there was a text message on it. I looked at it and about fell to the ground.It was a message from my daughter. I knew it was from Elizabeth, yet it was the scariest message I ever received. 

Investigators told my husband and me that there were two scenarios. One, it was a prank message from someone who wanted to hurt us; or two, she was just making an excuse to come back home. My husband and I were in disbelief. We could not understand why they kept thinking she was some type of troublemaker and would put us through this heartbreak.
Deputies searched the area where the message said she was, but found nothing. They told us that the phone was bought in Georgia but the message was received within a ten-mile radius. 

The next day, my husband, my family, friends and I started searching again. We knew Elizabeth was close to us, and that made everyone more desperate to search everywhere.

On Friday, the ninth day, I was getting even more desperate to know where my daughter was. I saw the police had an area blocked off near my house and I went to check to see what was going on. The sheriff’s captain told us they had a person of interest. They intercepted a message from the phone that Elizabeth used to text message me and another phone in the area. That person who owned the other phone was in custody. This was the first deep breath my husband and I took for nine days.

The person of interest was a man they had been tracking for nearly a year. He lived near the same area Elizabeth had described on the text message.

Early Saturday morning, I was just about to go where the police were, when I saw a truck come up our road. As the truck got closer, we saw it was Captain Thomley. He jumped out of his truck and yelled,” We got her and she was safe.” I dropped to my knees. My heart was back in place and I ran to him and hugged him. I looked at him and could see tears in his eyes. He told me to get my husband and he would take us to the hospital. 

The whole world seemed brighter when I looked upon her face. My life was whole again and my family complete. She looked at me shyly at first, not knowing what to say. All I could tell her was that she did not need to say anything. I loved her and was the happiest mother alive. She was safe and I would be here for her no matter what. One by one my family members came up to her to give her a hugs, kisses and to tell her they loved her. When she saw her father, she ran into his arms and started to cry all over again. After all the excitement, we went to my parent’s house to lie down. This was the first time that any of us had a good sleep for ten days.

Around four in the morning, I received a phone call from the captain at the sheriffs department. When I answered the phone, he yelled out “We caught him; tell Elizabeth she will not have to worry about him anymore.” I went to wake Elizabeth up to tell her the good news. All she said was “Thank God.” and lay back down to sleep.

Elizabeth and mother Madeline Shoaf

 

Click to read Elizabeth recounting how bunker was 'hell.'

For those interested in communicating with the Shoaf family, e-mail shoafs5@gmail.com.

Keith Morrison compared the relative strength of Elizabeth Shoaf and her captor Vinson Filyaw.

Click here for complete coverage of this case.

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i really give it to her, elizabeth you are so brave, i cried cause i have a daughter who's 2 years older and i just dont know what i would do if something like that happened to her, and to find her alive, you keep your head up and there's a reason why your still alive, i hope that bastard rotts in hell...god bless you and your family.
so glad that things have worked out for you and the family..its so nice to know that as a family that we can survive anything..I know that this experience will be with you for a long long time, but sweety..Your Mothe and Father are there for you and no matter what...tell them if something is bothering you or go up to them and give them a big hug..because you will never know what is lurking around the corner..there is nothing like a mothers love for her child(if she really is a MOM)? I never had that kind of love from my dad, but if it werent for the love that I had for mother and the love she had for me..I dont know what kind of person I wouldve became if it werent for her...sweety...you seem like a brave girl and somewhere in your short life..a lesson was learned..you were tough and you knew that you were stronger(not physically) and you were going to make it out of this situation and see...you did...how great..a mom and now a grammy....love and hugs to you and your family..
i commend you for not giving up on your daughter..you knew she was out there and would not run away..im a mom of 4 girls and my heart goes out to you and your family..your daughter is very brave and she is very smart..in time im sure this will get easier..
I JUST WOULD LIKE TO SAY YOU ARE VERY BLESSED AND YOU ARE VERY BRAVE.I HAVE A DAUGHTER AND COULD NEVER IMAGINE WHAT YOU WENT THROUGH. I THANK GOD YOU ARE SAFE. TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY... STAY STRONG  AND KEEP YOUR FAITH. GOD ALWAYS ANSWERS PRAYERS..
Elizabeth-
You don't know how important it was to share your story.  You show amazing courage and strength for what you have been through.  Just know, you can turn this around and help many girls who have been through the same thing.  Many girls may not be as strong as you so you can take this experience to help them.  Good luck with everything.....
What a story, God Bless You All.. I have a daughter around Elizabeth's age, and I can only imagine the nightmare you endured. When our child hurts ..we hurt., But what your daughter went through was UNTHINKABLE! May God give you all the strength to overcome this HORRIBLE experience. Even after this loser tried to take everything good away from you, You still came out ahead... You have, each other's love, hope, family, faith and a life to live. "Vinson", has nothing, he's a lost, lonely, evil man..., who thinks he can just take ... , Well he can rot in jail...alone, cold, and without hope and faith!
What a wonderful end to a very scary story. Iam amazed that you are not more angry with your police department. Hopefully this will open the lines of communition between police and the parents. As a parent, that works with middle school students Iam so proud that this story is being told. Middle school students often are not given enough credit,this is proof that they can have level heads when push comes to shove. I will push to get this story told to our students. THANK YOU!!!  
God bless you all.  I am sorry you had to go through it at all, but the ending is so much better than many!
Love each other and take time every day to say it.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Dear Elizabeth and Family

God bless you! I am overcome with emotion,since I had my innocence taken from me at 15. I know the feeling of mentally going somewhere else and just waiting for it to be over. But what you went through has everything to do with this mans evil and zero to do with you as a person. He is the one who commited the crime and you never deserved it. I want you to know that the panic attacks will lessen, and you being who you are will be ok again. I can't imagine all you endured, but I am so happy you are safe. I am so happy for your mom and dad. I raised 4 children and really struggled with being overprotective because of what I went through (I was raped twice, once I was drugged and group raped). But I have a very happy and full life. Sure, there are remnants, but I am not defined by the evil done to me and there is so much joy ahead. I pray for your healing and please know you are a very special young lady.
thanks to God for the strength that he gave you to withstand that ordeal and , that you are now safe and at home !!
Hi Elizabeth! I just want to write to you to give you some encouragement. First of all, I am so very thankful that your life was spared. One thing I have noticed throughout your ordeal is that you became closer to God through prayer and for that I am also grateful. Elizabeth, I want you to know that when people do things (unimaginable things) to you that it is so very hard to forgive them. But you know, in order to have peace of mind and be able to retain some kind of normalcy to your life and any future relationships, you would have to pray and ask God for the Grace to be able to forgive the person that did this to you. See, you may not see this right now but you grew strength in this process that in the future you will be able to keep someone else that experiences this same kind of trauma, from going crazy or committing suicide just by sharing your story. When people see that you can make it and that you're still here in your right mind, praying and thanking God- that will encourage them that if you can make then they can too!  Please email me sometime. I would love to become a pen-pal with you and pray with you. Stay encouraged!

God Bless
What an amazing story.  Elizabeth- you are incredibly brave... not only to withstand that terrible abuse, but to share your story with all of us.  It is inspiring and hopeful.  I have 2 kids younger than you, and I pray that they would be so strong and courageous in such a situation.  Thank you for telling your story, and all the best to you and your family.  
Outsmart, outwit, outplay... that's exactly what you did, elizabeth. bless you and your family. I hope your heart and soul heal quickly and I will think of you for a long time to come. I will also pray that the dirty bastard rots in prison. I hope that from this day on you live a full and happy, healthy life.
Elizabeth,
God Bless You! And thank God for sparing your life! I also thank God that you knew how to pray! God always answers our prayers even when it seems that he isn't. I will keep you in my prayers!
What an amazing young woman you are. I have always known prayer is powerful but you are a testimony of the truth.

I hope in time and with help from family and friends you will be able to move past this.  From what I see already in the strength you have shown I have no doubt.

May God continue to walk with you and give you the courage to face each day ahead.

God BLESS you!!
What an amazing story! I feel for you because I have 2 girls too of my own.I cried when I saw your story but thank God for His goodness for protecting and guiding you, Elizabeth and having that hope to free yourself.Continue to be strong and be close to God. God bless your family! My special hug to you.
god bless you Elizabeth. it is such a shame that any adult would harm a child. he desirves to suffer the rest of his days
Hi Elizabeth, what an inspiration you are to others. What you went through minute by minute and day by day,and how you kept your head the whole time, I believe that is what kept you alive. I also believe that by keeping god and your family close to you, it helped give you the srength to plan and execute your way to freedom. I'm so glad you shared your story with others, this may keep the next victim alive. God Bless you!! Stay strong. I hope that someday you can trust others to a certain extent. I know there will be some very hard days.Keep your head up girl!!you'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Hi Elizabeth, what an inspiration you are to others. What you went through minute by minute and day by day,and how you kept your head the whole time, I believe that is what kept you alive. I also believe that by keeping god and your family close to you, it helped give you the srength to plan and execute your way to freedom. I'm so glad you shared your story with others, this may keep the next victim alive. God Bless you!! Stay strong. I hope that someday you can trust others to a certain extent. I know there will be some very hard days.Keep your head up girl!!you'll be in my thoughts and prayers.
Elizabeth- I have 3 children. Reading your story encourages my faith. I believe prayer is the key to harnessing the power of God through us as vessels. Scripture says there is a time to grieve. I am grieving with you and all you lost. I am also amazed at your transparencey you still exhibit. You are being authentic to the whole world right now. We live in a fallen world. There will be a time that you are restored completely. Thank you for courage. Know that we will be praying for you for years to come.

Sincerly,
Jen Logue
Thank you for telling your story, Elizabeth. Thank you also for putting that man away for life. It is because of your courage that no one else will suffer at his hands. I hope the best for you and your family. Your strength and courage is an inspiration to anyone hearing your story.
Thank God you had the courage to send that text message. To your parents, "NEVER GIVE UP", that's the encouragement to others parents.  
May God bless your Family and keep you safe! From now on, you will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
This event is both heartbreaking and joyful.  I cannot imagine the hell you went through....and to have some people try to drag you down the 'runaway' route?!  How horrifying.  My husband and I have just one child, a daughter (almost 14), and I think of her safety every single day.  These stories terrify me - what does a parent do when someone takes their baby?  I do not life in fear, but it can be so hard when we know for a fact that these terrible things do happen.  Makes me want to hug my daughter till she's forty!  :-) God bless your family.
This event is both heartbreaking and joyful.  I cannot imagine the hell you went through....and to have some people try to drag you down the 'runaway' route?!  How horrifying.  My husband and I have just one child, a daughter (almost 14), and I think of her safety every single day.  These stories terrify me - what does a parent do when someone takes their baby?  I do not life in fear, but it can be so hard when we know for a fact that these terrible things do happen.  Makes me want to hug my daughter till she's forty!  :-) God bless your family.
Dear Elizabeth & Family,
Im so happy that all of you will still be together and that you Elizabeth survived this-God is always with us beleive that. You are a beautiful person and such an inspiration to people use this to help others and God will surely bless you and your family. Stay strong and do alot of praying-god will hear your prayers.
God bless all of you.
What a brave girl you are!! Your Parents must be very proud of you. I am thankful that you found strenght in God. Prayer and faith in God can and will get you through anything. Please remember altough you will never forget we must forgive in order to start the healing process. God is with you and when you thought he wasn't listening is was then when he was carrying you in his arms. I'm so glad your safe at home. I have 4 children I love with all my heart and I pray to God to keep them safe every morning when I wake up and every night I thank him. Take care little one God Bless you and your Parents.    
Your an a amazing young women! That's all I can say about your story.

Elizabeth, you are a very couragous young woman.  God was at your side, and your faith was strong, and He saw you through the ordeal.  You will have good days, and not so good days, but remember He will be with you forever, and has not forsaken you.  God Bless you and your family.  
I am had to go to work this morning when your interview was comming on but I wanted to make sure you were okay so I placed it on my DVR system. I have a daughter the same age and when I see things like this I feel that it would be good for my daughter to hear this to let her know this can happen to anyone. I am so glad that you made it. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank God for your Mom and Dad they seem very supportive good luck in life. I feel the same way as your parents do they should it's not right they we have to pay the up keep on people like this they should be made to pay, we should get him a job and let him pay you his income for the rest of his life to pay you back for what he did to you. Just my thoughts, good luck in life.

Hey Elizabeth!
You are defiantly one of the most courageous people I know. Whenever I see you at school I cant stop thinking of the bravery that you must have had to go something like that.Its just something a kid shouldnt have to go through,God Bless.
Elizabeth
How smart you are to have handled all that with your head.......if in the future you have conflicting thoughts about any part of that time you had positive thoughts about the guy (you did have to act for him)
and if any of those thoughts or memories make you feel guilty for those feelings (for example if you liked something about him) get yourself some counselling, because with some events in life we need help to put all the aftermath in balance.  You are a winner.!!!
Elizabeth,
Your courage and resourcefullness are beyond comprehension. You are a fanastic example of keeping your cool and NOT GIVING UP. You took control of the situation and took back the power he tried to take from you and I hope that gives you comfort as you try to recover from this ordeal. Please know that I, along with countless other women out there, will tell our daughters that if they ever find themselves in a bad situation they should BE LIKE ELIZABETH and fight their hardest to save their own lives. My prayers are with you and your family. They raised a remarkable woman.
you are an amazing person. when i was 5 yrs old i too was raped by my oldest brother, and it changed my life. not knowing what was happening to me was probably the only thing that kept me sane for 3 years to follow, but when i was old enough to realize that what happend to me wasnt normal, it turned my world upside down. You have been through something more tramatic than i could ever imagine, and i envy you for keeping your head up high. I am now 20 yrs old and i still think about it everyday. I will never overcome it, but i will always grow from it.
Elizabeth! You're a hero! I admire you so much!
I was touched by your story, Elizabeth.  I am a survivor, too.  A few months after my father's death when I was 8, my mother's boyfriend began abusing me.  It lasted for years, and my mother didn't believe me.  I was afraid to tell anyone else because he threatened my younger siblings.  The strength that it took for me to get through that part of my life stays with me today.  I am in my 30s, with three children of my own.  I want to tell you that you did it.  You got through it.  You are brave by sharing, so that this may help others.  Be proud of yourself.  
Elizabeth, you touched my heart tonight after hearing your story. You're strong, you're very brave and very determined. You are a very beautiful girl...on the inside as well as on the outside. Your sweet smile at the very end brought tears to my eyes. I pray for your recovery and I pray to God that someday you will be able to have total forgiveness in your heart. That's very hard, and I am going through something myself where it's been hard to forgive. But until we can forgive, it only hurts us. You are in my thoughts and in my prayers. You have a beautiful life ahead of you! God bless you!
Hi Elizabeth, you are such a brave person, and I thank you for telling your story , I only hope the best for you , and that you have much success in life,  again thank you for telling your story there are alot of teens that needed to see  this .aways know GOD loves  you
Elizabeth, I wanted to write you in regards to what you said in the last statements of you interview with NBC.  "He took away your youth/innocence, and that you think about the events that happened in those day."  I was not terrorized like you by a person, but I was in a almost fatal accident years ago (at the age of 20) by a thoughtless individual.  I too feel as though my youth/innocence was take from be by someone elses carelessness and also try to recollect the accident to understand the why and why,... (I do not remember the actual accident.)  The accident happened 15 years ago an I have recovered very well and life is good.  But, my personality and understanding of life changed drastically.  You are a beautiful woman and life will move be bright.  My only advice is to stay in contact with a councelor to speak to whenever you feel that Why me, or unesay abou the past.  There is nothing wrong with trying to understand and help what happened to you and to understand the experience more.  

Best of luck!  You are strong!!  Amiee
You are a miracle. God has given you a second chance in life. I know he has a wonderful plan for you.

God Bless
Stay strong, lean on your loved ones, and don't be afraid!  You are an incredible young woman and I admire you.  I am the mother of 2 young girls and I pray they would have the courage to overcome trauma with as much grace and spirit that you have!  God Bless you and your family.
Elizabeth, you rock, sister! What an amazing story. I understand that with your faith you want to think that Vinson is just not a bright man. But he knew right from wrong. And that is intelligent enough. If we had some crazy judicial system, I would wish that Vinson spend the rest of his life in such a bunker, naked, without his hands and private parts removed...and tortured. As it is, he sits in a very clean cell and is fed every day on our tax dollars! But in the end, the only solace any of us have in the condemnation of people like Vinson is that the Lord will judge him appropriately one day. And he will spend the rest of his days burning in hell. On earth, he will never hurt another child. And THAT is due to the strength of you and his step-daughter being stronger than most adults to stand up to such a monster. And by the way, I might be wrong but child molesters are the ones picked on the most in jail. Nice.
I watched your story tonight and you seem like an amazing girl!  I am so glad you are alive and safe.  Keep believing and trusting in the Lord.  He will bring you peace and comfort each day.  God bless you, Elizabeth!
You and your husband have raised a strong, intelligent, grace-filled young lady that you must be so proud of. I have never even met her and I am proud of her.  She is a credit to you as parents and a treasure to this world.  

Just know there is much love and prayers for you, your daughter and your family from all who have heard your story and that your girl is too strong to let the evil she encountered define her life.
Dear Elizabeth and Family,
Your story has taught us the American how to survive and save your life in this way that you did. You are blessed having a wonderful parent. Please become an author of book and also an educational presentation to all american Jr.H.S and H.S.
Thank you for sharing the story, I love you! a deaf woman, June
Elizabeth, I just finished watching Dateline and as a mother I could not leave the television for fear of missing something about your ordeal. I admire you in a very big way and hope the best for your entire family. You are a very smart and brave person. I also admire your father for not lunging for the monster that you all faced. Good luck to you all.
I AM SO SORRY YOU ARE GOING THROUGHT THIS. BUT WITH THE HELP OF YOUR FAMILY AND GOD, YOUR GOING TO BE FIND.WHEN YOU START THINK WHAT HAPPEN, START THINKING OF SOMETHING YOU LOVE.I THINK YOU ARE AMAZING COURAGE GIRL.GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP HIND.
Elizabeth,
I saw your story tonight and I cried as I listened to the ordeal that you went through. Your parents have raised a very brave, clever, & lovely young lady. I know that you will never forget what happened to you.  JUST REMEMBER, SWEETIE, YOU ARE A HERO....HE IS A MONSTER! As you continue your life, graduating high school, going to college, getting married, having kids, living, loving, being happy...he will be rotting behind bars.
I am so happy you are all back together and safe.  Good goin', Mom.. you never gave up even though you had a lot of obstacles.  Good goin' also for raising such a brave, smart girl.  I hope the rest of your days are full of peace and happiness.
Hi Elizabeth -I am very proud of you

You have an amazing courage and I hope God continues to guide in everything that you do.  Keep being strong and he has taken so much from you, do not allow him to continue taking anything anymore. Be successful and continue your beautiful life. I was very touch by story and I will keep this story in mind to share with my daughter one day. In addition, I pray for your mom and dad for also being strong. Thank you for sharing your story. I am very proud and admire your strength.


May God continue to guide you!


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