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Sitting down with Drew Peterson

Posted: Friday, December 21, 2007 9:28 AM by Dateline Editor
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by Hoda Kotb, Dateline correspondent

You never know quite what to expect when you sit down to do an interview. So when Drew Peterson took a chair opposite me, I'll be honest:  I wasn't sure what was coming.

I knew his backstory well.  My producer Sue Simpson had provided me with information, news articles, police reports, autopsy reports.

His life did seem complicated -- when it came to women. This was a police officer with almost 30 years on the Bolingbrook Police Force.  He'd been married four times. His first three marriages ended in divorce; after he split from his third wife, she was found dead in her bathtub and his fourth wife, Stacy, was now missing.

I wondered if he was the unluckiest man on earth, with two of his four wives either missing or dead, or if there was more to the story. What would he tell me? 

Drew Peterson walked into the room. He had just finished an interview with Matt Lauer on the TODAY Show and was ready to sit in the chair opposite me.

He seemed calm. Collected.  I'd watched Matt's interview with him and he hadn't shown any emotion then although he gave lots of information.  I was expecting something similar.  Our camera crews and soundmen were all set up and ready to roll.

In the beginning, we talked about the media and how loud it was in front of his house in Bolingbrook, Illinois. He told me he was tired of  the generators from the TV live trucks going non-stop; he hoped this interview would put an end to the media chase.

He talked about Stacy: how they fell in love, the courtship, his proposals and their kids.

He also talked about the 30-year age gap, saying he had talked it over with Stacy,  adding that it was "exciting" to  have a young, beautiful woman interested in him.

Some of the things he said stood out including his description of how he pampered Stacy.   He got her, in his words, " a boob job. She wanted a tummy tuck, she got that. She wanted braces, lasik surgery, hair removal ... anything. ... we did all these repairs on her."

Then at one point in the interview he seemed overcome by emotion. He actually got up, left the interview area and said "I'm sorry. I need a minute."  He stood off-camera for a bit, composed himself and sat back down.

I wasn't clear what brought that emotional wave on, so I asked him.  He said, "Different things touch me off." And I when pressed him, he indicated that he'd been remembering Stacy's emotion at the time of her sister's death.  "Because it hit her very hard," he said.

He also told me that people didn't understand him: that he was a guy with a good sense of humor, a man who had tried to live an honorable life and worked hard to provide for his family, a man who was now being unfairly portrayed by the media.

Near the end of the interview, I asked him if he had anything to do with the disappearance of his fourth wife Stacy or the death of his third wife Kathy. He answered "no" to both questions.

Then Drew Peterson left the room and I was left with my original thought: you just never know what to expect when you sit down to do an interview.

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Yes and I do recall how Scott Peterson cried too.  <sigh>
I understand we have a right to a free press!  But compulsive covering of Drew Peterson, is allowing Drew Peterson to use you and the press to prejudice future jury pools who may eventually have to hear this case, if they see this story regardless of how they feel this will disqualify them! therefore, doing him a favor by helping him stall his day in court, if it happens.  The man has a right to be innocent til proven guilty though I don't buy his story and it does not make me want to be any more sympathetic toward him! This stories are becoming irresponsible, let the man tell his story when he has his day in court, this is in poor taste to the families of his 2 former wives!  How do you know Hoda you are not being used unwittingly as a patsy to derail justice?
why no question of time line??/  wimpy
To me, has has all the emotion of a snake.
I watched the video of him saying he just wanted someone to love him. Oh pa-leeeez! I know from experience that a man can fool someone into thinking he's so wonderful until after the marriage. There will be some foolish woman out there who will fall for his lines again, hopefully she survives!
Guilty......emotionless, fake tears...it makes me sick. Hopefully the sealed tote will expand, and she will float to a shoreline, as we all know she is in the water somewhere....they need to keep searching the waterways, near Romeoville.....My prayers are with Stacys family during this difficult time.
It really disturb me to watch the interview with Drew.  Didn't his lauyer advise that this might hurt his case.  Which in my eyes it did.  He looked more guilty than from what I read.  First of all he never admitted his guilt on his anger issues.  He tried to make it look like his ex wife (ves) had major anger issues.  Plus blaming Stacy's monthly menstral mood swings can be easily confirmed with her family and friends.  Women get blamed for this far too often.  From experience it has been confirmed that women usually have better menstrual discomfort after child birth.  
Another segment in the interview was the ticket his fiancee received for a balled tire should be confirmed when he completely denied it on air.  
I'm sorry to prejudge but this man looks guilty and he should save taspayer's money and just confess and bring Stacy home to her family.  
I remember friends telling me of the horror they witnessed as their public transit bus passed the body of a man who had jumped from an overpass on the freeway and was run over by several cars. "The bus nearly toppled over from the weight on the one side," one friend said. "The gore, the blood..it made me sick," said the other. I had to ask, "Why did you look?"

Watching Drew Peterson on DATELINE tonight made me realize that I'm as disgusting as my friends had been glaring at the dead man on the pavement. I see horror in his face, but I can't look away. Still, I HAVE to know. Keep Stacy Peterson in the mind of the public. Don't let her be forgotten until her body is found and Drew Peterson faces a jury.

By the way, he was much better on the TODAY show when he candidly blamed his wifes' behaviors on their menstrual cycles and the moodiness they seemed to develop after being married for awhile. Put two and two together, Drew. You drove them to anger and frustration with your cruelty and carelessness.

Hoda asks him if he had anything to do with the deaths of his last two wives or is he just the most unlucky guy in the world. His response is, "Ya think?" No, nobody thinks you're the unluckiest guy in the world, Drew. NOBODY thinks that.

Drew mentioned the "beach" tonight. I'd keep looking in water if I were the search teams. The sad thing is that they've got a good number of rivers, canals, ponds and lakes to cover in that area. Actually, the beach might mean Lake Michigan too.
Well, I certainly hope that Stacy is still alive, however, the theory that she has "run off" with a new lover just does not compute.  She appears to have many friends, a family and, most importantly - two babies (that she appeared to adore).  Nobody has heard a word from her?!! Hmmmmmmmmmmm...........
Stayed tuned.  Once again,  do hope that she is still alive.  The theory of her "running off" with a new lover is wacky, but, IF Drew P is so squeeky clean - could she have been kidnapped?  Just a thought - although not very likely.
To me it seemed as if he was acting instead of being truly overcome with emotion.  This case reminds me a lot of the Scott Peterson's case.  THIS GUY IS GUILTY!! Why is that everyone who says something negative about him, he bashes them.  Can they all be wrong? I truly believe his friend Steve C is being paid to be his mouthpiece.
Well, I certainly hope that Stacy is still alive, however, the theory that she has "run off" with a new lover just does not compute.  She appears to have many friends, a family and, most importantly - two babies (that she appeared to adore).  Nobody has heard a word from her?!! Hmmmmmmmmmmm...........
Stayed tuned.  Once again,  do hope that she is still alive.  The theory of her "running off" with a new lover is wacky, but, IF Drew P is so squeeky clean - could she have been kidnapped?  Just a thought - although not very likely.
WHY didn't you ask him where he was during the hours that Stacey went missing???????????????
LAME interview!
WASTE of time!
His wife needed repairs?  Seems to me he just validated the claims by everyone that he was verbally and emotionally abusive.  
When I listen to Mr. Peterson I think he gives us the clue to where Stacy is. He said he thinks she is on the beach. I think the authorities should concentrate a search with blood hounds on sandy beaches in close proximity to his home. A person could have dug an easy, deep, and concealable grave without much effort. Also check for traces of sand in his garage, tools and vehicle. It is just a hunch on my part. His remarks about her being on a beach, and a recent trip to Lake Michigan got me thinking. By his statement he could be distorting truth?
I agree, as with many, that if Drew is guiltly then let the evidence prove it without a doubt as is the law. Question, (as I listen to NBCDATELINE present a very one-sided program), should I not ask where is due process and what is with Americans that we are so willing to convict on what we see on the television? And yes, he is a suspect, but how do Americans justify the conviction of murder on a man without even a trial? This is completely Un-American and has soiled the ground we walk on as a people dedicated to the pursuit of life, libery and justice. We are guilty,even as Drew Peterson may be, of a terrible crime. But who is holding us accountable? NBC? ABC? CBS? So while the world, according to the media, is presenting (it's case) on what may have been the final outcome of Stacey Peterson, and seemingly convicting Drew Peterson of murder, I wonder if Americans have a clue as to what being an American is really about? Is it because we don't like someone that looks like Drew Peterson? He doesn't act right? Who are we to judge? We are pathetic, us Americans when we judge so dangerously.Guilt will come in due course if it is justified. Let the law of the United States run its course and let be the speculation.
Irregardless of his seeming remorse, it hardly puts a dent in the countless hours we watched him prance around in a defiant arrogant manner on T.V. We must look at his history of spousal abuse,the number of times the police were called to his house in the past,and we must look at motive. Then we must remember on the night she dissapeard he called in sick,when you look at all the pieces to this story everything points to Drew. Now we must from there put the facts together to see where they lead to get a conviction. I dont want this story to end without closure whatever that closure leads to.
Why has he not been given a polygraph test? Also his older son and step brother.Who is draging their feet.
I think Hoda Kotb asked the questions people wanted to know the answers to. As far as his demeanor, he's a trained law enforcement officer, and because of that training, it's hard to read him. He seemed sincere when he was answering, but the prior behaviors with the fiance and previous wives, leaves you with the feeling that the evidence is too overwhelming against him. The information given regarding the moving of a barrel is powerful, and, as we all know, a body is not needed in order to convict. My suggestions is to look for Stacy in the place where they were married - just a hunch.
 It was a good story and helps me understand everything better.
 I was happy to see the ring because that is the ring that Stacy appeared to me in Spirit and showed me when she told me drew had killed her because she was going to leave him.
 Stacy Peterson is dead. (Psychic Information)
 Will Drew eventually crack and confess or will he keep the same cool Veneer as Scott Peterson did?
Great show tonight on the Peterson case. Thanks!
Where did you go and what did you do during you 3 days away from the family starting November 2nd, 2007?

 I always though it was innocent until proven guilty by your peers - court trial. So all you people out there, can it & let the legal system prove it if he is innocent or guilty. Railroading him by the press and all you nay sayers out there isn't helping him or helping the case against any good. Put a sock in your mouths & leave it up to the courts.
Why is so much attention given to this case while ignoring the same situation in Ringgold, Georgia with a wife (Theresa Parker) disappearing in March of this year after talk of divorce and husband being a police officer?
Some people think that what 'touched' him was a vibrating message from his lawyer, sending him a signal and buying him a little time away from your deeply probing questions.
I think it was a good report. Mr. Peterson beat up and stalked his former fiance and harassed her by issuing a number of bogus tickets. He beat up his third wife and she not only told friends and family that he threatened to kill her but she had a order of protection against Drew stating that, from his comments, she was concerned he would kill her and make it look like an accident, and by chance, she ends up dying in a bath tub accident (unlikely for someone healthy and in their 40s, and the fresh injuries she had were not just from a fall in the bath tub) -- the evidence that exists makes it rather obvious that she was murdered by someone with Drew being the obvious suspect. His fourth wife (Stacy) told her pastor that Drew told her he killed his third wife and provided details and used her as an aliby and that Drew threatened to murder her. Drew Peterson is too stupid to shut up. He is clearly a psychotic who loves the media attention and how it feeds his demented ego. It's incredible that he thinks he is fooling and manipulating the media and the public by all of his interviews, but anyone familiar with the evidence and  sees Drew's bizarre behavior does not fit someone who's wife mysteriously disappeared after asking for a divorce. The Dateline report skipped Mr. Peterson's troubled history as a police officer, which speaks to his character -- he was not a good cop. However smart he thinks he is, Mr Peterson committed far less than perfect crimes. In fact, he made enough mistakes and crafted flawed alibis. My guess is that his big mouth will come to haunt him also. Who knows how long  or if they will find Stacy's body, but I suspect that he will end up being charged and convicted on the murder of wife three where a body exists and probably, wife four even without a body. On a lighter note, it seems that Drew Peterson may have found a lawyer that desires media attention as much as he does, but the lawyer seems even less intelligent than his client.  It's a disgrace to the memories of Peterson's two victims and families that he is savoring the media  attention, but unlike those that take offense, I say, keep putting him on, let him reveal more of himself as I think his ego is going to be his downfall that ends him getting a more certain conviction, as I he has already contradicted his versions of events a number of times. I appreciated how in the interview Hoda pointed out that Drew only referred to Stacy in the past tense (as if she her no longer alive). I've noticed similar things as well as inconsistencies when Mr Peterson talks to the media. Reminds me of another Peterson who also killed his wife in regards to his narcissism (that is, Scott).    
How about this for "unlucky".  Stacy’s mom abandoned her and her mom also left her first baby to burn to death in a fire and the second allegedly died of SIDS. A third sister died of cancer which caused Stacy to become addicted to antidepressants.  Her brother is in jail for sex offenses.  And now Stacy herself is gone.   Her own sister, Cassandra says they are "f'd up".  Now Cassandra has a web site which predominantly features psychic forums to find her sister. Other than being married 4 times, which is not that uncommon these days, and having 1 wife die, that we know for certain, Drew's life is normal by comparison.  And having a lot of kids shows that Drew is a family man.  The probability that Stacy abandoned her family is far greater than him killing her given their respective personal histories.
I have been following the story of Stacy Peterson since the beginning and it is hard not to be judgmental about this whole thing and there are still lots of questions unanswered.
Grant it two truckers did show up and say they were confronted by Peterson and another man to haul a package to an undisclosed area, these truckers should have known the whereabouts of the drop off point and the final destination of this package, but I also question as well that if the package would have fit into Peterson's SUV that he could have hauled it as well.
I'm not too happy about the autopsy of his third wife.
That death sort of perplexes me but there may not be any evidence there.
Not wanting to be judgmental of Drew I just read all of the articles and try to learn more each day.
I've noted his body language as well and it seems a bit odd to me at some of the things he says. Were it my wife, I wouldn't have a sense of humor at all and would be searching for Stacy, not just making a scene, I would at least want to know the whereabouts of her so as to comfort the ir children when they have questions, Even kids know that when you do go on vacation, there is a time for a return.
Were Stacy alive, I beleive that somehow she would have let her whereabouts be known having heard she would not leave her children this way. So things being as they are, I beleive that she is either dead or had an accident and has amnesia (not likely). But without the evidence to vindicate Drew, we have evidence to charge him with the disapperance of his wife. So if he has done criminal acts, he is pretty darn good at covering it up, seems like all his bases are covered lest they do discover evidence linking him to the crime of his third wife and Stacy.
I do hope her family can find something for their closure because I know they are sitting on needles and pins waiting for answers.
A year from now we will be watching clips from this interview and wondering "how did he sit there so calmly and cry and carry on like that" when the truth is revealed that he did kill her (and the other wife as well)  Looks just like Scumbag Peterson during his television appearances.  Sickening
Why doesn't someone ask him about his children,how are they handling this? And if he believes Stacy ran off with another man,he would for sure know who that man is and where to find them.
I don't recall the reporter asking Peterson what was in the blue barrel taken from upstairs.  Either she forgot to ask him about it (HUGE mistake) or she found out about the barrel after she interviewed him and could not follow up by phone (hard to believe).  His wife was in it or a bunch of warm dirty laundry, but TELL ME SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
he killed stacy and katleen no doubt about it
How he decribes the repairs that were done on Stacy.  This sounds like the type of man to be very suspious of. A man that gives a women a boob job, is usually someone who takes steps so that he benefits from his actions for self pleasure. Not because he loves his wife as she is!
Where were the hard questions?  Did Peterson pay you for that interview?  Wimpy is right.
I agree. Very wimpy and shallow interview. She gives him a free platform to talk about his "feelings" and to discuss how both Stacy and Kathleen were crazy, high maintenance women blah blah lah. Meanwhile, no substantive questions about what is truly important. Why no questions about why he called in sick that night, the timeline, things that could actually be used to help clarify the evidence. I ended up turning off the show and just read the story on-line because the ease and shallowness of the questions was ridiculous. It was really only a show pandering to Drew Peterson.
I find Drew's description of Stacy's surgical procedures to enhance her appearance very telling. Gosh, a guy works hard and provides well for his wife and family, even spending his hard-earned cash on cosmetic surgery for his wife just because SHE wants it and then after "all these repairs" are done on her she doesn't want to be with him anymore?  It's enough to make a guy really, really angry.
Drew Peterson does not come across well, and there are some incidents with past relationships that, at the very least make him seem like an abusive person.  Talking about Stacy's cosmetic procedures on live television was in very poor taste.  I don't know if he murdered his wives, but he sure doesn't win any awards for personality or tact.
I wondered why you didn't ask him about the "Blue" container? A why hasn't anyone talked to his step brother who was supposed to have helped him with it?
All killers think they can get away with it "one" more time.
What  would  you do different?
Give him his day in court. It should be a lesson for all middle aged men and young, immature girls, when you have an age difference of this magnitude, it is next to impossible to maintain the marriage.They were from different worlds and I have compassion but no understanding for their misconceived "choices".
Mum's and Dad's...lock up your young daughters...he will be looking for wife #5 anytime soon!
Merry Christmas from Western Australia
You make me sick--giving this nut job more 'face time'.  MSNBC--you all need some very serious help.
and...maybe she was a insecure girl who saw a older man in her eyes with money who could buy her all this plastic surgery and make her a "Hottie" and once it was done she did what any kid married too some old man would do. She stashed money until she had enought to leave him. She maybe wanted a new life, no kids and no husband and she decided to just leave. However she might not of suppected it would become front page news.

Maybe she too scared to come out public. This could account for his coolness and lack of emotion because  he knows he didn't do anything wrong.

Or maybe he guilty as sin.  

This is why the press should not be allowed to do this. They are judge and jury and someday some innocent person will jailed by this nonsense.
Drew Peterson exhibits all the signs of narcissistic personality disorder.  Much like Scott Peterson, O.J. Simpson and Thomas Capano, he's a consummate liar who craves publicity.  Indeed, the minute a lie leaves his lips, he believes it.

It's incredibly sad, because Stacy's family may never find out what happened to her.  Drew's certainly not going to admit it or even feel any remorse.
why was he even asked if he killed her?  we all knew he would say no. that was a waste of time.  
I'm tired of seeing his pompous face and hearing his lame attempts of displacing the blame.  He's professing his innocence just like Scott Peterson.  He has a "catch me if you can" attitude.  Exciting to be in a relationship with such a young woman?  She was SEVENTEEN, not a woman at all.  She simply grew up, realized the ways of the world and all it has to offer before giving 'notice'.  It's disappointing to see old men take advantage of these youngsters.  DP  needs to put his self absorbtion aside and give everyone else some satisfaction...do the right thing & CONFESS. My utmost sympathy goes out to the families and friends of the two women who dared to get involved with this pompous, sorry excuse of a human. These interviews are disrespectful to the victim's families. I hope Stacy is found soon so this jerk can get his due.    
I agree with you totally Jorge. Excellent comments.
appears the interviewer was charmed into letting him off the hook...shame, as there is appears to be so much objextive collateral to probe and prod this irksome creature
The big question in my mind is why Drew quit his job.  Was it in any way because his wife "ran off with another man"?  Which makes no sense... or because he was a suspect in Stacy's murder?  Again, that makes no sense since Drew said himself that every husband of a missing woman is considered a suspect.  So why did he quit?  And how will he support his 4 children without a job?
Isn't it strange that the cops didn't, apparently, do a very good job investigating his first wife's "accidental death"? People need to remember that cops will always try to protect their own, even when murder is evident. I say investigate the cops who previously "investigated".
I do not know all what went on in his home at all but something doesn't smell right it just doesn't. He claims he doesn't know where she is but yet he not making an attempt to look for her. I cannot even picture a woman leaving her young children just like that I just cannot. I just feel so badly for the children especially the very very young ones.
Another thing why doesn't he allow the police to speak to older children? Maybe they can fill in the blanks? But God only knows what happened and he will give us the answer because only he knows what really happened.
MAY GOD BLESS THIS LOST CHILD OF HIS AND HE WILL ALWAYS BLESS HER NOW AND ALWAYS!!!


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