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Knocking on doors in Cheshire, Conn.

Posted: Monday, September 10, 2007 7:11 AM by Dateline Editor
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By Marianne O'Donnell, Dateline Producer

My car wipers were fighting back a steady rain as I peered through the windshield, trying to get my bearings in a place called Cheshire, Connecticut. I was beginning to wonder why I picked this day to slog up I-84 from New York City to knock on doors in a distant town. Would I find anyone out on a day like this? And even if I did, would they talk about what had happened here?

Eventually, I found the street I was looking for: Sorghum Mill Drive. As I turned onto it I stopped the car almost instantly. There was a sign up ahead that warned would-be speeders to slow down. "We love our children," it read. I was getting a serious case of the creeps.

Evil comes to all types of people all over the world. But it's not supposed to trespass here, in leafy enclaves that proudly demand their children's safety. Yet somehow in the early, dark hours of July 23, the devil slipped through the back door at 300 Sorghum Mill Drive and into the heart of the Petit house. It's believed that two intruders, parolees, broke into the home and terrorized a doctor, his wife and two daughters over the course of seven hours before ending their rampage with gasoline and a match.

Now, weeks later, I was walking this traumatized neighborhood, looking for people willing to recall the horror they woke to that morning. I must have knocked on 15 doors. The people who opened them promptly closed them again once they heard why I was there. Drenched and discouraged, I was heading for my car when I spotted a woman on her driveway. I walked up and began my introduction.

"I'm Marianne from..." The woman flashed an open hand. "I am sick of you media coming around here knocking on our doors," she said. Yes, she explained, she had been talking to reporters. But now she was done with us. "We're trying to heal," she said, the anger in her voice rising. "But how can we when you guys keep coming asking these questions?"

I apologized to the woman and thanked her for her time. I had driven more than two hours to Cheshire in the rain to find someone willing to talk about what had happened here, and all I had to show for it were soaked pants and squishy shoes. The reporter in me recoiled at going home empty-handed. But I also knew that the residents of Sorghum Mill Drive wanted -- maybe needed -- nothing more than to see my taillights fading in the mist. I clicked my car open. For today, at least, I was done knocking on doors.

Dateline will air a special piece on the killings in Connecticut tonight, Sept. 10, at 10 p.m. Eastern/9 Central.

UPDATE: Read the full story here. A foundation has been set up to honor the family:
The Petit Family Foundation
c/o Farmington Savings Bank
32 Main St.
Farmington, CT
06032

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I also never locked my doors.  I can get to both the Petit and the Komisarjevsky home in under 1 minute.  Now I lock my doors, even if the kids are out late when I go to bed. The mother in me hates locking my children out, they either have to unlock them or wake me to get in. I am easy to wake now. I also don't walk the dog late at night anymore, or go out into the back yard in the dark or do alot of things I thought were safe before  Unfortunately as sad as this is, we were lucky here to still be able to go to bed with our doors unlocked.  Until now. Now we know the fear that many people have lived in for years.    We need to heal and the only way to do this is to be left alone.  Maybe reporters could start reporting on all the good things and good people in life, but then that wouldn't sell would it.
The killings in Connecticut story last night brought a cold chill to the core of my being. A family resting in their home after a busy day are beaten, raped, held captive and murdered. How frightened they must have been. Such a horrendous way to die so painfully at the hand of another. As the mother of a murdered son in 1992. I know just how painful it is for those who survive. May God give this man the strength to go on and find some level of peace in his future.    
How can people perpetrate such vile, evil acts? May God make your days bearable Dr. Petit. I will pray for you and the beautiful, talented women you lost.

Why on earth did the bank let this woman go when she went to get the money out-like I don't get it-why did the police not get there right away-to see the situation-
I thank all that have offered their kind thoughts and prayers for Jennifer, Hayley, and Michaela and the rest of my family.

I want you all to know that we will use the donations to the PETIT FAMILY FOUNDATION for scholarships and other good works in the community.

My life will never be the same and my heart is broken with the loss of love, comfort, safety, calmness as well as the potential of 2 young women who will never have the chance to go forward and experience life. Perhaps more appropriately, others will never have the opportunity to be in their grace.

Therefore, I can only hope that you all will go forward with an inclination to couple your faith with good works-love your family, help a neighbor, fight for a cause. Again, thank you very much.

Dr. Bill Petit
Can DATELINE please do something about it's puerile obsession with rape and young girls? It's really disturbing. When the detective said that one of the girls was "sexually molested" we all know what that means. But the DATELINE reporter with baited breath couldn't wait to say the word: "So she was raped?" PLEASE PEOPLE! Show some maturity and compassion for this family. And you wonder why this world is full of sexual perverts. If I didn't know any better I would have thought that the DATELINE reporter was a sexual pervert himself because he clearly was getting off on the thought that this poor young girl was raped--a word he obviously couldn't wait to use on national TV. Disgusting!
This story is the precise reason I am still up at 3:30 a.m.!!  Knowing that sociopaths like the two who terrorized and murdered this loving family is what keeps me awake routinely until the sun begins to rise.  My husband travels a great deal and, rather than go to sleep worrying about whether tonight will be the night some sickos break in and torture and murder me and my children, I opt to stay awake until daylight and be exhausted the next day.

It also reminds me that what the Bible says about evil increasing and people's conscience being "seared as with a hot iron" seems to be a perfect description of the time we are living in.  Worse yet, how much WORSE will it be for my precious children when they grow up?? It would hurt me as if a dagger were plunged in my chest to even THINK about some lowlifes such as these tying my sweet little angels to their bed and leaving them to burn to death.  Oh, God, the anguish and suffering they must have endured.  How absolutely evil and demonic the hearts of these two men!!  While it may seem that they have not received just punishment (and, anything less than a swift, painful death would!), I have no doubt that it is a very temporary "escape."  Satan has used them as his pawn, as he has been doing with mankind since the beginning of time, but when the evil committed is brought to fruition, what "reward" does he give??  He laughs and delights in the despondency of the one he has used.  Trust me, their sins will be found out, and in due time God will show no mercy for their evil deeds.  Jesus knows our every need, and I pray that Dr. Petit will let him be his Comforter to heal the horrific emotional wounds he surely has endured.  We lift you up in prayer, Dr. Petit --- please carry him, Jesus, as his load is so heavy right now.  Ease this heavy burden as only you can.  Give him peace in the midst of suffering, oh God.        
I was totally discussed by what those two scumbags have done.  The death penalty would be too good a punishment for them. I will pray for Dr. Petit and his family. I would also like to know how the people responsible for their early release feel? Any remorse, second thoughts? Do you sleep well at night? Just wondering.
My heart breaks when I think of the senseless horror these poor people endured! MY biggest fear is to be unable to protect my child. For this mother to have the knowledge of what her precious family had to endure, and to not be able to stop it must have been nothing short of anguish. When I think of the poor father and husband who will go through his life and never ever be the same, I am so angered! Why, why, WHY did those evil men get SO MANY CHANCES???? Has anyone ever noticed how tough the world can be on "good" people, then there just seems chance after chance for these losers that contribute NOTHING?!
My prayers go up for Dr. Petit. The heartbreak and sorrow must be extreme.
In today's society locked doors etc. only keep honest
people honest. Not certain that a criminal who wants what he/she wants would be deterred.
The woman who tried to do more reporting on this tragedy is to be commended for turning away after the request for time to heal... not continuing to impose on the people of Cheshire.
The only thing I can think of that can come from bad thing's like this happening is perhaps public awareness and taking the time to look around us.
If intuition tells us something isn't right,making that call to the police. If we are incorrect better to feel foolish than to have turned a blind eye!
I haven't cried like this since 9/11.  Sickening.
All I can say it I am so sorry to the family...there is not much else to offer family and friends at a time like this, other than prayers for them. Blaming people only make matters worse...the ones to blame are the ones who did the crime. I lost my brother in 1983 and spent many many years blaming and angered..it didn't help me it made it hard for me to even live. Yes I was even suicidal at times..spending lots of time at his grave and trying to figure out why... I used to blame the two people and the police the fire dept. I was even tearing my self apart wanting to know why a wonderful person like my brother had to die and people like these were still alive... but about 10 years past and I finally came to grips to let his wonderful memory live instead of all the other feelings that had over taken me. I will see him again in Heaven and I will rejoice... So please don't blame the husband/father..or the police..it could have all been set up different and the outcome still the same. God Bless this family and friends and community.
Dr. Petit is truly an amazing human being.  What I can say about this tragedy is I am glad I am not
God.  My first impulse was to cry.  My second was to wreak unmitigated vengeance upon those two parolees.  How about public execution with drawing and quartering as an added bonus?  We've come a long way, or have we? Where is the deterrent for these foul beings?
Believe in God! We all have to answer to Him. We all have sinned. These men are only human, that does not mean that what they did, was not horrible. But God asks us to forgive, so he may forgive us. Dr. Petit, Ask Our Lord to guide you, ask him to help you to forgive, and to give you strength. He answers all prayers, in His own time. You will never forget, but he will give you peace. So you may see your family again, in HEAVEN.
I was saddened and shocked by the terrible crime commited in Cheshire-only a few blocks away from my daughter and her family. Our prayers and thoughts are with this family, and I hope the two get their "just reward"  All too often changes are made after the horse leaves the barn, too many criminals are let out early. CT is now looking into this early release but it is too late for the Petit Family.  Yes we are now locking our doors. The piece was tastefuly done thanks Dateline.
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How about knocking on the doors of the members of the parole board who let this maniac out on the street? Or knock on the doors of the parents of these animals. Get their story instead of further bothering the innocent, collateral-damaged neighbors!
Thank you Dateline for the accurate accounting of this tragedy.  There is a little more to this story that has so far been unreported.

Many people may wonder why the police first responders did not initiate an immediate rescue of this family once they were on the premises.  Training and equipping police officers to improve response to armed invasions is my profession.  The web address below will direct you to a police column I author which discusses the problems with traditional police responses that require "containment" of a dangerous situation rather than entry into the hazardous environment to assist innocents trapped inside a structure.

The horrific tragedy that occurred to the Petit's may have been partially averted if first responders were authorized, trained and equipped to make fast entry into the structure to quickly help those trapped on the inside.

Over 70% of our nation's police agencies (especially those located in residential suburbia) DO NOT ALLOW first responders to practice a police procedure named "Immediate Action Rapid Deployment" (IARD).  

The Petit incident is only one of many examples where local political and police leaders have failed to keep up with changing technology and tactics to vastly improve assistance to endangered citizens.

Bureaucracies rarely improve on their own, they need pressure from the outside.  Only concerned citizens and the media asking hard questions will improve local police response services to those endangered by society's predators.
okay I guess I will be the first to point this very overt fact out;how on earth can dateline imply that because dr petit was asleep on his own darn sunporch that these two cretins escalated a planned petty robbery to a multiple rape-(including rape of a child) kidnapping and ultimate triple  murder of the cruelest variety-burning 2 children and thier mother to death!? Hello! These men spotted these two attractive females in a supermarket and followed them home and proceeded to buy ROPE AND AN AIR GUN-WHAT DO YOU THINK THEY PLANNED TO DO WITH THAT ROPE?! And furthermore...if indeed Dr petit had simply interuptted thier planned household robbery and they were afraid now of being identified they could have just killed him and taken off..not hung around all night to rape and torture and 11 yr old child and mrs petit-a women suffering from MS no less! This was a crime of violence against women sexual assault and and the murder of three innocents simply in a sick cowardly attempt to cover up eveidence of the rapes that these two predeators had spent the evening committing-They also had the audacity to defraud mrs petit of 15000 dollars in what was probably a desperate attempt to buy her families lives,knowing full well they were going to kill her and the children. Stop  blaming the victim and put the blame where it belongs on these two evil sociopaths and our ridiculous justice system-the robbery her was incidental this was a crime of hatred-towrads women and what these tow percieved as priveledge and affluence..Lets us take this horrible crime and use it as a turning point for our entire court system starting here in the state of connectcut-one of the most abysmal court systems in this country.
Sincerely,
Another victim of violent crime in Connecticut shortchanged by our "justice system" @ Golden hill st court GA2 Bridgeport Connecticut.
chasingnormal.blogspot.com
My heart aches every day for Dr. Petit.  I think of how he must feel when I wake up in the morning, when I drive to work, when I look at the leaves changing color...the holidays coming....will it ever be "a good day" for him again.  Be strong Dr. Petit, I pray for you and admire the courage you have shown.
Sue,Connecticut
As a Connecticut native who has lived in various parts of the country, the reception received doesn't surprise me. Nutmeggers are nothing if not "reserved." Of course, people who come from elsewhere often interpret Nutmegger's reticence as unfriendliness, arrogance, or worse. But it's not that way at all. It is, instead, a strong sense of propriety. Grief is a private matter, very personal, not to be splashed across television screens around the world.

Instead of walking away disappointed, perhaps this producer could, instead, have considered whether or not it's better that way? Are grief and fear things we really need to broadcast in the form of in-depth interviews? Is it really such a good thing to live with our hearts on our sleeves and with every emotion just waiting to blare forth under the light of Dateline's cameras? Or perhaps, maybe healing works best in private?

Just something for non-Nutmeggers to think about.
My daughter moved to Middletown, CT last year to relocate for her career which was only 15 minutes from Cheshire.  When I saw that part of Connecticut for the first time I thought how lucky I was that she was moving to such a beautiful area of the State and I went back to New Jersey feeling that she so safe.  We have all learned that no where is safe.  I now worry that she is locking her doors and tell her to install an extra lock.  What's even more of a disgrace is that a parole board actually freed these animals with the records they had because they didn't have a "violent" rap sheet.
People don't like to hear this but the Bible says the devil is here and is here to hurt, lie and deceive. We hear of his evil deeds all over the world. When you take God out of everything what do people expect? There is no good to any human, we are as filthy rags. These people surely did not deserve what happened.  God Bless them.  
I agree with - Jim Smith, Chapin, SC (You commit a heinous act like this triple murder.  You don't wait for 10 years on death row; you go straight to the front of the line) This law should be presented, passed and go effective ASAP.

Also, Michael Mahnke, Houston Texas stated it best.

""However, an impressive job was certainly done protecting the killers once back in custody".

My question is why are the criminals protected by the system?
Marianne - you didn't go home emptyhanded - you went home knowing that you had honored the family and their community by listening to their requests for privacy as they heal. Sometimes, news is about listening, not about talking.
Mr Petit, after reading of your horrific tragedy, I would like to express my extreme condolences for the tragedy that has befallen you. Although I do not personally know you and live many miles away, we are all God's children and I keep you in my prayers. We do not understand why God allows the sufferings and tragedies that many endure in their lifetimes. I would just like you to know that many prayers go out for you for the loss of your beautiful wife and daughters. Please keep Him close to you in the trying times that lie ahead. God Bless and keep you, and your beautiful family that waits for your reunion in God's Kingdom above.   Craig

    I came across this very sad news story on the Internet & saved it quickly, due to a thunder storm; before my computer blanked out. I had wanted to let Dr. Petit & his other family members, to know earlier, that my family has kept each of them in our prayers,to be able to bravely go forward in life, & to be healed together with God's love & to reach out to all their friends & neighbors whom they love & respect & to accept the love of their friends & family to rebuild & put a new life back together.  It is also always wonderful when a neighborhood pulls together as One.
May God Bless You, Dr. Petit per your loss of your loved ones. I know God has a very strong outpouring of love for you & has wrapped his loving arms around you,..instantly...& thru these difficult past months to help heal your heart...Take care....
 Sincerely, Mrs. W. F. Mathews, Jr., Jax.,FL
how tragic. this could have been so easily avoided. we need to quit giving early outs and 2nd chances to prisoners,make them serve their full sentences.  my heart breaks for what happened to this family. only jesus will be able to heal them.
this is to dr petit: i just read your message on this blog and can't even imagine your pain. i hope that time will heal any pain in your heart. i was at the service for your family and was moved by your speech. actually i couldn't even beleive you were there. you never once have said anything or done anything to show any anger or rage against these two evil thugs that did this to you and your family. i on the other hand will say that these two should nver even make it to trial. they also shouldn't be in pretective custody. they should be in the general population in prison and if someone in prison kills them then the person who kills them should be given a medal and be called a hero. why should you have to relive this ordeal through a trial when we already know they committed this evil crime. there is no doubt about their guilt yet we have to have a trial. i live in bristol ct and know your father from his store in plainville. i don't know you except in seeing you going in to your office in plainville once in a while. no one deserves what happened to you and your family. i wish you well and hope that somehow your heart can heal. just know that a lot of people keep you in their thoughts and prayers.


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