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In court, two mothers gave grace to tragedy

Posted: Monday, July 23, 2007 7:22 AM by Dateline Editor
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By Sue Simpson, Dateline Producer

 

The trial of Thomas Toolan III, was the first murder trial on Nantucket, Mass., in almost a generation. It was a riveting courtroom drama. Toolan, who was at one point a Wall Street financial executive, was accused of the first-degree murder of his ex-girlfriend, Beth Lochtefeld in October 2004. He pleaded not guilty.

 

The facts of the case were not in dispute: Toolan flew to Nantucket on October 25th 2004, stabbed Beth Lochtefeld 23 times in her cottage, left the island immediately and several hours later was arrested in Rhode Island.

 

It was the high-stakes strategy Toolan’s attorney adopted that made for a gripping trial. Toolan, his attorney argued, could not be held criminally responsible for the killing because he was temporarily insane at the time. It’s known as the insanity defense – and it is always a roll of the dice.

 

Essentially what the jury of three men and nine women was being asked to decide was not whether Toolan was responsible for the killing, but whether he was crazy or calculating at the time.

 

The trial lasted two weeks. Two families, the Toolans and the Lochtefelds, attended the proceedings every day.  As the courtroom spectacle played itself out, both displayed a quiet dignity.  But if there was one indelible image many observers will take away from the trial it was of two mothers talking quietly during a court recess. One woman was the victim’s mother, and she comforted the other: the defendant’s mother.

 

Their exchange ended with a hug. With that gesture, Beth Lochtefeld’s mother injected grace and forgiveness into a story of horror. One verdict was already in.

 

"Fatal Attraction" airs Monday, July 23 at 10 p.m. on NBC.

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We all go insane temperarily when we lose our temper but thankfully we don't kill anyone.  I hope he got sent to prison for the maximum amount of time. Temperary insanity is overused in our court system
This is an example about how powerful forgiveness is.
Toolan's mother was not responsible for what her son had done but as mothers--we take that on...I will watch the show tonight (as usual although I am very upset about Stone Phillips being let go) and I will relate to two mothers who had and have a child they love..Forgiving is freeing and sets us free of the anger and bitterness...
Thanks for the good shows...
As an investigator for the state I sadly see young girls (and boys) on myspace, youtube and other such websites and they think nothing of it.  I get to see them after some sick person has found them and preyed on them.  These people are going into homes of "children" with the specific intent to have a sexual relationship with a minor.  When arrested they are being charged with that intent, not with anything else.  I must say that I wonder about the people that defend these perpetrators, and think that maybe I should be investigating them too.  What Dateline has done has brought an epidemic to light.  People are aware of what is going on.  It doesn't matter if you are the best parent in the world, and you watch over your child's shoulder while they are on the computer.  It can happen!  Children do not have any concept of this, believe me I've interviewed enough to know this is true.  This is not entrapment, that much should be obvious, even to a laymen.  Because if it was then these people would be walking away from the homes not getting arrested.  Thank you NBC and Dateline.  And that you Ocean County!    
What a terrible tragedy to such a lovely person and family.  

Had she gotten a restraining order, maybe it wouldn't have happened, but who knows?  Working in the court system myself, I know if someone wants to find you and kill you, they will.

As his attorney said, the circumstances were really "a perfect storm."

The world would not be in such trouble if people acted as these two women did.
May the Lord give her the peace and love she did not
find on earth.
It disturbs me to think how often, in this day in which we live, people are not held accountable for their actions, but are so ready to put the "blame" or responsibility for such actions on someone or something else. How do I teach my children there is "right and wrong" when there will always be someone to contradict that when they do wrong?
It is a horrible thing that has happened but it is beautiful how 2 mothers can mourn for the loss of their children together.  Tom may not be dead like Beth but he is lost to his family none the less.It is really too bad that everyone cannot follow the example that these two women have set.
Maybe one day we'll stop pampering criminals and get back to speedy, direct punishment fitting the crime. An eye for an eye.

Why does crime grow exponentially? Because the deterrance factor is gone. Now we let people live off of us for their lifetimes when their victims die instantaneously. I for one hate my taxes being collected to support that injustice. We glamorize crime shows, helping dumb people understand how not to make mistakes.

We are just one strange set of beings.
Its very disturbing to find out that people with mental problems after drinking AND injesting drugs could be capable of a horrible deed.......we really don't know who or what we are getting into with a relationship..........either man OR woman......sad, but this person paid with HER LIFE.......
A man kills his girlfriend then while being chased by police slits his wrists; but the police get him to the hopital in time to save his life. So now he is sent to prison for life.
Yep so now tax dollars will support him the rest of  his life - they should have let him die.
an eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind.
Defense lawyers such as the one who represented Tom Toolen are a very big "part of the problem" of overflowing prisons plus non-rights for the innocent.  Wonder if it ever haunts their dreams. Marylyn
My step mother was found guilty last week of shooting my dad point blank in the head.  She only got thirteen years.  But I can say, that although I am so very sad, I had to forgive her or else my kids would have a bitter mom.  Forgiveness is divine!
My heart goes out to Beth's family and friends as well as to Tom's family....each for their own sense of loss and grief.  May peace be with you all.
My great fear is that in the persuit of justice we are inclined to believe the horror and skip the facts. At least in this case the trial lasted two weeks.  Texas can convict in a half day trial and jurors believe the gossip and disregard a lifetime of good works.  Innocent people can be thus convicted.


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