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Are you in a love triangle with a sports fan?

Posted: Sunday, March 18, 2007 8:15 PM by Dateline Editor
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All across the country millions of innocent wives are caught in a love triangle, battling for their husband's attention with the players of their favorite sports teams. Now, in a "Dateline" hidden camera challenge, the wives are fighting back by catching their unknowing husbands on videotape while they watch a game. Josh Mankiewicz travels from coast to coast to report in, "Honey, You're on Hidden Camera," on Sunday, March 18, 7 p.m.

by Julie Cohen, Dateline producer

When we joined with a brave group of wives to put hidden cameras in their living rooms and catch their unknowing husbands on tape, we had no idea what we were going to get. Maybe this is just my girl-perspective, but to me the results show what is so annoying and endearing about the American Male.

There was Dallas Cowboys fan Bob Bragalone, who was really sweet to his wife and kids throughout the game, but was NOT going to get off his recliner to take out the trash. And A Green Bay Packers fan Paul Rice (his wife calls him "husband head"), who expects his wife to keep handing him beers and has the bizarre habit of voicing his complaints through a plastic Halloween skull he calls "Skully" (long story, you really need to watch the show on Sunday).

Then there were the Borg brothers, Minnesota Vikings fans who didn't pay much attention to their wives until the women came into the room wearing Vikings shirts (apparently, a big turn-on). And I definitely will never forget New York Giants fan Jerry Vecchia. He's soooo superstitious, that when the Giants are on a roll, he won't let his wife Sue get off the couch, because it could change their luck.

Check out our video blog, to hear more about how we found the wives to do this, and what happened when we told the husbands what we'd been up to.

(Photo: Julie, left and Josh, right)

Click here to watch video of the show. Does any of this sound familiar? Are you or your husband sports-obsessed? Share your photos and videos here.

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OK- so let's be fair and watch the equally goofy women that are glued to American Idol or any of the mindless Real World shows.
On behalf of all wives whose husbands (or, in my case, ex-husbands) have treated them like crap -- THANK YOU!! Although, in my case, it was computer games and internet porn that absorbed all of his attention, leaving our children and myself to, basically, live without him.
So what about a hidden camera that shows what stay at home wives are up to all day long while their husbands are at work? So guys want to watch sports - what is this a slow news day? Give us a break!
Gimme a break... accept it... you don't have to be the center of our universe 24/7! Allow us our "down" time! I should've gotten a dog.
How silly. Everyone has an activity they don't like being disturbed in the middle of. Thinking negatively of a man for not wanting to take the trash out mid-game is unreasonable. Why is there an unrealistic expectation for a man to be at a woman's beck and call, when the expectation isn't equal on the other side?
What's the problem? I love football, and my wife, bless her heart, tries to accomodate me during those long hours I spend watching the games. DVRs can really help when there is something she needs to talk about that just will not wait. Works for us.
haha Jim! I do the same stuff during football, and I'm a girl!
Isn't it deliciously gay that so many macho men love watching big muscular men chasing balls?
Well, in all honesty I have to say, my husband knows not to disturb me when "Grey's Anatomy," or "24" are on. He's an English Premiere soccer fanatic and I told him the way he watches Tottenam or Manchester United with such devout attention is the way I enjoy my two favourite shows. It's an analogy he understands :-)
dont you have anything better to do? thats one of the very reasons I'm single, so I can watch to my hearts content without someone nagging and griping the whole time. what is the point in even airing something like this? it isnt a crime to watch football.
The gals should take the credit card and go out and have fun with their girlfriends while their husbands spend time with the TeeVee. I'm sure they'd have a much better time and than hanging around the house nagging their hubbies. Maybe while they're out having fun they'll meet someone they have more in common with (ie. a guy who isn't home watching TeeVee).
If we try to get their attention during a soap opera, it's worse! Are you kidding? It's 2-3 hours of our time, you have your things, like shopping, getting nails done, we leave you alone... let us have our time, too! Would you rather have us out w/ the boys, drinking at the bar? No! Just b/c we're not on the golf course, doesn't mean we're going to miss the game.
I agree with Jim in Atlanta--and I AM a woman...BUT-dont dare try to talk to me when my Seahawks are playing. Luckily my man understands this of me...!
Indeed they act like its only the men that do it. Women to maybe not as harsh and "get out of my face" about it but there like "no honey leave me alone".
Yeah, Jim! My ex-wife was one to be glued to the freaking COMMERCIALS during her shows. God forbid I asked her to let me watch a little tube without distraction. I switched laundry during my shows' commercials, then she would start hounding me when I sat down to watch my Simpson's or X-files.
Thankfully, both my husband and I are huge Steelers fans so we plan our schedules (and chores) around the games. I wouldn't have it any other way! Too bad football isn't year round.
it doesn't matter who's the one with the tv issues, as long as the person doesn't neglect his responsibilities and is respectful when setting up boundaries, who are we to regulate their activities? so it's fine if he thinks that his time off is better spent with the tv than with his wife and family, because i'm sure he'll pay for his choice later on when everyone leaves his ass too.
MY WIFE AND I HAD AN AGREEMENT. IF I COULD WATCH MY REDSKINS PLAY. I WOULD BE EHR SEX SLAVE AFTER THE GAME FOR 3 HOURS. NEEDLESS TO SAY I WIN EVERYTIME. TRY IT GUYS.
I would have to agree with the average joe i would rather my man be at home watching the game than be out straying around.i do my shopping and hang out with the girls and when the game is over we get our time and other times i will watch the game with him
My spouse will agree with the women in this story, and like KymBerly, my spouse is the HUSBAND. He has learned that it's best to find something else to do on Sunday afternoons. (And Monday nights, and sometimes Saturdays...and Thursdays....) LOL ;) Go Broncos!
Hey, what's wrong with a guy trying to have some downtime while watching the game? I am a 31 year old wife with a husband who's a(HUGE)Raiders fan,(and they don't get more obnoxious than that!). I don't want my husband tagging along when I go out to do my shoe shopping (that's my fav. pastime)! I could care less about how much he's paying attention to the game, as long as he keeps paying my charge cards!!!
Yep yep yep.Whats fair is fair..Watching games on tv in peace isnt a whole lot to ask for..Watching the games at a stripbar is another..So ladies please,let us gentlemen have our time without the drama at home and accept the nature of a dude..Please,never ask a man to stop being a man and we promise to never ask women to stop being a woman..Let the games begin woohoo
American women are lucky that the men stay at home to watch their favorite football team . Here in Australia, most of the men are at the pub or the game. My wife and I have an agreement that I watch my one game a week during football season without distractions and I won't distract her during her favorite programs.
ok girls, guys love gadgets, so go buy him a TiVO, DVR, or DVD recorder, and tell him, he can use it on games.....win-win. if he hates commercials he will love playing back and fast-forwarding through them. Im a guy that hates sports, but I lost a great woman over petty things. learn to compromise. You only live once.
I'm just as bad as my husband,when Homemakeover edition comes on Sunday night,my husband knows not to speak,he hollers after the show because I cry sometimes,I love TY,he so sweet along with the rest of the crew.
I am a male with the same problem. My wife is a NASCAR freak. During racing season, I am ignored on Friday nite for the truck race, Saturday for the Bush race & Sunday for the big event. Then she must watch all the re-hash shows until about Wednesday when it peters out. This lasts from Feb.18th until October. Beat that, you whining yentas that might put up with mabe 3 hours on a weekend! Suck it up and let the guy enjoy himself. He will love you more for it rather than consider you a "Harpie".
Most of the defensive men are missing the point. Regardless of whether it's the men or the women that ignore their spouses or significant others during tube time, it can be hurtful. Couples should communicate and agree before hand that certain times, especially leisure times, should be considered private time. There should also be an appropriate balance. At the end of the day, it's just a television program. Is it really worth losing a mate over?
In our neighborhood its sixteen weeks of "boys sundays". The men and boys meet at a different house each week. First half is chips & dip, cheese and crackers, followed by a half time buffet, courtsey of the loving wife. When its not at my house, it's fuzzy slippers, my "Chad" jersey, fireplace going and the leather couch to myself. Love the game, love the fans and the excitement. Love my man!
I guess we know how good the Vikes were this year.
My wife is a packer fan, coming from wisconsin, and watches their games, Me, I am probably the only man in america that "HATES" football! That's why we have 2 tv's. No arguments, just seperate rooms!
I agree with average joe. women do have other things that they can do (and i am a woman). on the other hand if your husband/boyfriend does this with every show then yes there is a problem! ladies give them a break if its just football. give them their space!!
I agree with Jim in Atlanta....My wife loves the Lifetime "channel" regardless of the show....and I don't bother her about it and she knows I love my Pittsburgh Steelers and allows me my uninterrupted time to watch their games....so we all have our enjoyments and should respect them.
I am older and wiser because of it. I have been called controlling in my time, but here is a suggestion: take it from me ladies if your husband is not doing his part as a partner and your trying to train him, something his mother should have done when he was a child, it is probably not a good idea to do it during football season.
i would have to say women are worse than men, because they will watch the reality T.V shows year round..It is like saying you would rather watch someone else have a life...come on.
YEAH,my wife call it the "stupid games",but when she is watching her spanish drama and i say something to her she acts like she didn't hear me.
E A G L E S fan,4 us its are family out there playing.so they need our support during the game like our wives do the rest of the week.it's only one day out of the week.ladies you will live!!!are your arms broken that you cant take out the trash?we bring home the bacon!!
My wife and I boh love FB, so that's not a problem. When she watches "Judge Judy", I go on the computer, and thank the Lord for TiVo, because we are then able to record and watch our own shows whenever we feel like it. Happy co-existence in retirement so far !!
Way to go Viking fan!!! What more can you ask for out of life than your team on TV and your naked wife bouncing in your lap (yeah I said it and you know you wanted to also).
Ever try to get your wife or girlfriend to go out Sunday evening? Only if "Desperate Housewives" is not airing. That's why they call it "entertainment." We all want certain entertainments, whether it be sports, soaps, reality TV or even Dr. Phil. If couples view this as competing for attention, then someone has a self-esteem issue.
At least we Minnesotans have our priorities right!
My boyfriend is a crazed fan of all sports, but that's it,it makes him happy!! While he watches sports I get my stuff done. Sometimes it's annoying but oh well it's 3 hours not the whole day. And let's be honest I knew about his obession before we became serious so really it came with the package!
These Men are at least at home with the family or wives not hanging in a bar. I don't see this as a big deal, some women would be glad to have there husbands at home.
personally i hate football. i think it is very much overrated. i hate professional football, basketball, and baseball. give me hockey, golf, bowling or anyother sport. i do love going to home games in which i can watch kids play. but professional football. ugh!
My Husband and I are die hard football fans. The only problem he have with me is, I get mad and dont wont to watch the game anymore if my team is loosing, which by the way is the Tennessee Titans.
My wife is an avid Pittsburg Steelers fan, and i am a avid Bengals/Bears fan. She watches the game in our bedroom, and i watch the games on the wide screen in the lower level family room, and we don't see each other until all the games are over. Its real sweet. I wish all the men that love football had the same situation i had.
I love football (I'm a female) and get depressed when the season ends, ladies a word to the wise, if you can't beat 'em, join 'em. Get involved! You might enjoy it. Share one of their passions and you will probably fight a lot less. He will probably be more responsive when football is not on. If not, maybe football is not what the problem is.....
Hey Dateline, Huge Steeler fan, right down to the tattoo on my back. You so do not want to annoy or talk to me during a game. I'm a woman.
We all need our time to relax. My husband watches TV only Saturday Evenings from 7pm-3am Sunday morning. I know this and as a routine I make sure that "we" have dinner done and the chores done before the TV time so that during the TV time I do not have to disturb him for anything. We have no fighting or yelling, swearing or shut up I'm watching TV. I don't know but this is what I've been doing and I'm only 24 years old....
In our house its Lifetime for women...GACK! I leave the room and then get grilled for not spending any time with her. I dont watch much TV, but when my show comes on, then I'm instantly Mr. Insensitive. Gotta love our differences, although I'm always the one at fault....Hmmmmm!
Yes, thank you from ex-wives and ex-girlfriends! Seems if it's not sports, then it's porn. At least the shopping gets done and our nails look nice. Imagine if we stayed glued watching nothing but he-man competitions and male dancers!Try more church!


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