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Football and one of my all-time favorite hours on Dateline

Posted: Thursday, December 28, 2006 4:15 PM by Dateline Editor
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by Stone Phillips, Dateline anchor

 I love football.  Always have.  And when you hear my story, you'll understand why the "Pride of Pampa" is among my all-time favorite hours on Dateline. Covering the Harvesters' first home game this year and telling the green team's story felt like a blast from the past.  

Like so many of the players in Pampa, Texas, I grew up watching my older brother play.  Vic was a team captain for the Blocker Junior High Demons in Texas City, Texas.  He played tight end and, like Pampa's James Coffee, was a pretty impressive punter. 

Photo: Michael J. Stevens
Stone Phillips, in the stands, watching a Pampa High School football game.

Although, I must say I never saw my brother punt with his opposite leg the way James did the night we were there, because his kicking leg was injured.  James, my man, that was INCREDIBLE!   Still, Vic was a fine player and later earned a football scholarship.  Talk about tough acts to follow.   

After our family moved to St. Louis, I reached playing age and couldn't wait to suit up.  It wasn't Texas football, but we popped the pads pretty good in Missouri!   I started off playing offensive line on my Koury League team under Pete Weitzel, a volunteer dad and the first of many wonderful coaches I was blessed to play for over the years.  By the time I reached 9th grade, I had speeded up enough to play halfback and linebacker for my junior high team, the Parkway West Longhorns.  Trent Loter, I hope you're reading this, because there could be a quiz!  (Trent is the Pampa football team's equipment manager and he knows the mascot for darn near every high school in the state of Texas-- AMAZING!)  I wore #43 in junior high, because that was Dean Morton's number.  Dean was the star running back for the varsity team at Parkway West and remains one of the best high school backs I've ever seen.  He had speed and strength like Pampa's Chase Harris, and moves like you wouldn't believe.  Dean's father, Don Morton, was the varsity backfield coach.  I'll never forget how he would try not to laugh as the younger backs like myself would line up and take turns showing him our moves.  Let's just say, we weren't exactly faking him out of his jockstrap.  But Coach Morton was always encouraging.

The following year I was called up to the varsity by head coach Jack Wells.  Like most dedicated high school coaches, Coach Wells lived and breathed football, but he also constantly reminded us that family comes first.  I mean, every day he reminded us.  So when Pampa's head coach, Andy Cavalier, told me the story of what he did to make sure his family didn't take a back seat to football, I thought to myself, "A kindred spirit of Jack Wells."   They're both gifted coaches, caring people and great family men.  They have something else in common-- they both know the ups and downs of starting a sophomore at quarterback.

Coach Wells switched me to quarterback and started me as a sophomore.  Never having played the position, I was even greener than the green team's sophomore quarterback, Casey Trimble.  When I interviewed Casey before the game and he confessed to being a little nervous, I couldn't help remembering how I'd broken out in hives at the beginning of my sophomore season. When Casey threw his first touchdown pass of his varsity career,  I knew a lifelong memory had just been made. I remember the first touchdown pass I threw in the fall of 1970 like it was yesterday.  And I'm still grateful to Rick Lockton for making a great catch.

Of course, I also remember the sophomore mistakes I made.  When Casey fumbled the ball, I felt his pain.   

Like so many who play this game, I also experienced the brutality of football.  That's one aspect of the game I abhor. It's hard to see players go down with injuries, some of which can hobble them for years.  During my senior year, I suffered the first of two concussions in football.  I don't remember much of what happened after my bell was rung, only that the field was muddy and when I trudged to the sideline to confer with Coach Wells, I did something we still laugh about.  Dinged and desperate to dry my hands for the next play, I proceeded to wipe the mud on my fingers all over Coach Wells' clothes. Needless to say, I was taken out of the game. 

I recovered and was fortunate enough to continue with football in college.  I played quarterback at Yale with terrific teammates like my fellow St. Louisan  Mike Southworth, Kansan Eddie Lewis,  West Virginian Brian Book, Chicagoan Scottie Rooth, and the world’s greatest tight end Greg Hall (to name a few). And once again, I was blessed to play for another incredible coach, Carm Cozza. Carm is the all-time winningest coach in Yale history.  More importantly, he is a total class act.  And the other coaches with whom I worked closely, offensive co-coordinator Seb LaSpina and backfield coach Richie Pont, were any player's dream.  They were such a positive force in our lives.  They kept us working and laughing all season long.  I love them both.

Long after my football-playing days were done, I experienced what many fathers in Pampa have enjoyed – watching their sons play football.  My son played football for the Fieldston Eagles in the Bronx, N.Y. He too loved the game and loved his coach, Gus Ornstein. Gus is an amazing football coach who loves to run a wide-open offense. And just like Andy Cavalier, Gus loves his players. As a parent and former player, I am so grateful to Gus for keeping the positive experience of football alive for another generation in my family.

I could go on forever, but I hope you can see why the story of a promising young coach who keeps his priorities straight, and the players he cares so deeply about, fired me up.  It's a side of football we don't often see, at least not on the news.  Usually, it's the players and programs run amok that make the headlines.  But I believe most schools and most coaches get it right.   

During our interview, Pampa coach Andy Cavalier told me he believes football was created for a very specific purpose-- to train young men to deal with adversity and work together as a team. Like so many sports, football is really about the people who coach and play it.  Their values.  Their standards.  Their integrity.  Coach Cav and his Harvesters are great ambassadors for the game. And getting to know them was a heck of a lot of fun.

In a heartwarming report, Dateline travels to Pampa, Texas to tell the real story of high school football, Texas-style. Airs Friday, Dec. 29, 8 p.m. on NBC.

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Today I am watching a story on Dateline NBC with Stone Phillips.  It was Friday night.  The subject of the show is on Friday night lights and high school football.   It didn’t take long after a girl was interviewed about her dream of being a cheerleader.  She said she has had this dream since she was 5 years old.  The focus quickly shifted to the field and the “guys” out there.  The guy interviewed?  The backup quarterback.  He said he had a similar dream since he was 5.  It was as if no one could ever dream that women might have the dream to play instead of cheer.  So, this is not about some gals going out to learn the game of football but like most every guy that has ever dreamed of glory on Friday night, it’s about the young  women who has that same dream.  And if you don’t think there are enough women out there with that dream… currently there are an estimated 6,000 women playing full contact football in the US.  And yes, each one of them had these dreams when they were young.  And one more thing to think about.  This interest from women to play this sport is with relativity no marketing or advertising.   So, we need to ask ourselves…  How many more dreams could be fulfilled if America knew that women play this wonderful sport just the like the guys and think of the life lessons that guys and men have known if women could learn them too.   Not all girls are born to cheer.  Many want to play!  Imagine that?
Well played, Stone. I thoroughly enjoyed watching the story on Dateline. Pampa is a great town with a bunch of amazing people living in it. It has its' own version of a Texas accent, its' own famous little diner (Coney Island Cafe) and its' own sense of style. I enjoy visiting and have many close friends who came out of Pampa. I thought you might have mentioned that the Miami Dolphins' own Zach Thomas is from Pampa and also played for the Harvesters in his high school days. No such luck, but it was really all about those great kids who are playing and cheering now. God bless the late Coach Cav...and good luck to his son. Me, I am a former Amarillo Golden Sandstorm and I would be showing a disservice to my alma mater if I did not say, "Go Sandies, " before ending this entry. At any rate, good job, Mr. Phillips...and welcome back to the great state of Texas.
The Pride of Pampa was very inspirational. I want to thank Mr Phillips for this story. It showed winning is not everything that their are important things like family and God. The coach Andy Cavalier taught his team valuable lessons like good sportsmenship and caring about others. The coach sent his team to the house the player that lost his father and this gave the player joy in a time of sadness. Winning was the frosting on the cake after all the other things.
My Man Stone,
I just caught the end of your football story tonight and I can see why it was your favorite story. Not all great endings end up in storybooks and fairytails. They can become real life. I've been watching you for years with your many co-hosts. That having been said, what really won you over for me tonight, on personal level, was when you replied 'Yee Haw'! when the coach responded to your question about what it really meant to him (that first memorable night)! I got it but am not quite sure how many others did, if you know what I mean.

U B The Man, dude. And I will forever retain the spirit of youth. I hope you do the same.

Happy New Year Brother
John Adams
EX, Alpha Sigma, Zeta Xi, California State University, Northridge, CA.
My Man Stone,
I just caught the end of your football story tonight and I can see why it was your favorite story. Not all great endings end up in storybooks and fairytails. They can become real life. I've been watching you for years with your many co-hosts. That having been said, what really won you over for me tonight, on personal level, was when you replied 'Yee Haw'! when the coach responded to your question about what it really meant to him (that first memorable night)! I got it but am not quite sure how many others did, if you know what I mean.

U B The Man, dude. And I will forever retain the spirit of youth. I hope you do the same.

Happy New Year Brother
John Adams
EX, Alpha Sigma, Zeta Xi, California State University, Northridge, CA.
Tonight's story brought back wonderful memories of high school football and all the other programs that make the friday night experience one of the best!  I was a member of the marching band and to this day I feel that the half time show demonstrates some of the best moves on the field!  Count me one of the proud Hustlin' Hornets from Flour Bluff High School, Class of 1966!
Friday night in Michigan (or any other place for that matter) is no different than Texas.  Not much mystery about it. Parents spending time with their kids, and enjoying  the great outdoors. I really would  hope that  the promoscuity that the tv protrays is just that, TV. Some parents actually pay attention to where their kids are, and what they are doing.  And guess what... it would be a refreshing change if tv could protray what life is really like.
This segment was so touching.  I would never have guessed that watching a show about a high school team from Texas would be so great.  Thank you to Stone Phillips who covered all aspects of the lives in this town.  I laughed and cried.  The struggles of setting priorities was very real and very cool.  Thanks for sharing this story!
Just watched the "Friday Night Lights" segment--it SO made the link between Pampa, TX and most other middle Indiana sports towns.  My husband & I teach at a mid-size school in Central Indiana, where, of course, basketball is probably a bit bigger than football, but it's still a town that supports its school, its athletes, and its activities. Our daughter cheered & played softball here & our son plays basketball & baseball, & my husband coaches. The entire community revolves around school activities, especially sports. Football Homecoming week is amazing with the entire town's streets being closed down for our floats and 100+ entries.  Basketball sectional week is so much fun with students & teachers dressing up every day in a different "theme," and decorating door contests, etc.  I truly enjoyed watching this segment (while my husband & son are at a basketball game--go figure!), because the coach seems to be a very impressive young man who has his priorites in line, and the players seem to be typical kids with hopes & dreams that many kids have.  Good luck to Pampa in the future.
Great story, Stone Phillips!  I'm a grandma from southern Missouri who recognizes each of those players (tho the faces and names are different) and am crazy about the cheerleaders.  Especially my grand-daughter who is one.  Our team went to state championships and won this year.  The town is so excited about it that basketball is still on the back burner.
hey whats up with the guy driving with his arm in a sling. isnt that illegal? his injury wasnt enough? are looking for a car crash? what about other people on the road. no concern for their safety? ever hear of "two hands on the wheel"?
idiots
Really enjoyed your program tonight.  It was special to me because I graduated from high school with Denny Cavalier.  He was a great sportsman in high school in all sports but even then he loved his football.
I always Stone's stories and this one is one of his best.  Thanks for capturing the essence of the game and everything that evolves around it.  You see, I maintain the MojoLand.net website that features the Odessa Permian Panthers of Friday Night Lights fame.  The dateline story on Pampa was well organized and kept the viewer interest at all times.  Thanks for the continued great reporting.
The "Pride of Pampa" is the band, not the football team.  The football team is known as the "Fighting Harvesters"--look on the press box!  The band has been known as the "Pride of Pampa" since 1960.  As a "Pride of Pampa" band member, I was very offended to think that the football team was given an honor that each band since 1960 has worked so very hard to earn.  

What about the "Fighting Harvesters" that have gone on and played professional football?  How about the one that has a champioonship ring?  No mention of them in this report tonight.
Great story Mr. Phillips! I am one of the trainers that belongs to the Pampa Harvester Sports Program. I must say that everyday I spent with those guys brought me closer to them. They are a WONDERFUL,crazy,outgoing,smart,funny group of people to hang out with and be around every single day. Brett Ferrell is a great quarterback and I wish that he could have played alot more than he did because he loved playing football. Casey is in my grade and he is also a great quarterback and learned alot from Ferrell(thats what we call him).I love these guys to death and I'm going to miss them when they leave. Great season guys!!!
Stone,
I graduated from Pampa and was a Harvester for four years and had many awards from the game. It brought back so many memories and emotions, I still love the game and miss playing. The year was 1971. I have two great son and they enjoyed the same great feeling that I still have. Thanks for the chance to relive the memories.
Great story tonight,Stone Phillips! Keep the great stories coming.  I'm here in your home town of Texas City, Tx, home of the fighting Stingarees!  Just a FYI, TC could have gone to state this yr, but lost; and our rival team, Lamarque Cougars went to state and won state Champs!!  
Thank you Mr. Stone for a wonderful job well done. I was moved to tears.  I can relate to the quarterback who was injured and his family.  My son (only 7th grade) got hurt in the second game this past Fall and out the entire season.  He felt bad because it is a sport he likes to play.  Watching this show reminds me of our high school Friday night football games.  Good luck to the Pampa Harvesters.  
Stone, I really enjoyed your story.  
My father played for Pampa.  He graduated in 1950 and was the Fighting Harvesters quarterback.  Pampa won the district championship that year.  He was voted MVP, selected 2nd team All- District, played in the Oil Bowl (25 players from Texas and 25 from Oklahoma) and received a full ride scholarship to Sul Ross University.  
The Bell that was shown on the show was purchased by the Harvester Football Alumni and presented to the school about 10 years ago.
When ever we visited Pampa when I was a kid we were introduced around town and all of the adults knew my dad and his family.  
I enjoyed seeing some real live “Friday Night Lights” and remembering the time, as a young child, I attended the McLean, TX football game to watch my cousin play.
Stone:

I want to thank you for a GREAT story concerning the "Fighting Harvester" football team on Dateline tonight.  Your depiction of Pampa was outstanding.  After watching your report, I am proud of our town, proud of our children and proud of our school district.  Coach Cavalier and his fine staff are positively impacting our students for a lifetime. I can assure you, the community of Pampa is blessed and grateful to have a man like Coach Cavalier working with our young men.  Coach Cavalier and his fine staff are preparing our young men to be successful while playing the game of life.  There is no doubt in my mind that the lessons taught to these young men will impact them in a positive manner throughout their adult life.  In choosing to broadcast this story, you have lifted the spirits of many.  Along with many in the Texas Panhandle and specifically in the community of Pampa, we thank you and your excellent staff for a heartwarming story.  You are welcome to come back to Pampa for a visit ANYTIME.  God bless you and God bless the Pampa Harvesters.  
Stone, I was totally shocked when I saw the story about my high school! I graduated from PHS in 1982 and my brother graduated in 1981(he was on the varsity football team when Danny Palmer was coach). I really enjoyed the story. It made me glow with pride and remember the good ole days. Pampa has been through some hard times. The oil industry went belly up for a while. It looks like Pampa has bounced back once again in true texas style. I was very impressed with the coach and what he is teaching the young men of our socieity. Pampa deserves this and looks like they have worked hard for it. YEAH PAMPA!! GO HARVESTERS! I am one proud former PAMPA HARVESTER.
Tonight I watched Stone Phillips give a report on Friday Night Lights and a town called Pampa. Much thanks goes out to him and the producers of Dateline. It is refreshing to turn on the news and not have to hear about the war, the president, or any other problems that are surrounding the world. Thank-you for a nice breather. Good luck and God bless those Fighting Harvesters. I come from a small town as well, and I know the feeling of a friday night.
While I understand the emotion behind the story, the idea that football was "from God to teach us how to deal with life" is such utter lunacy that it only serves to show how far sports zealots will go to justify their (disproportionate?) passion for something that's just a silly game.  Touching story, yes, but whoa, give us a break...lay on the couch and watch all the football/whatever you want, or go out and bash people around for a ball and imagine it's of some importance if you want, but teaching us about life?  Sheesh.
Football is overrated. The emphasis needs to be on education and not the Friday night lights.
Pampa sounds like any regular small town including the towns retard. God loves you.. give me a break.
Mr. Phillips:

Dateline did a great job showing the heart and soul of our community.  As a high school teacher here in Pampa, I know you witnessed that we truly have the students' best interests at heart.  Academics are a huge priority, but so is teaching our kids how to be positive, responsible members of a community. They learn this by being a part of a disciplined group--whether it's football, band, choir, Spanish club, or yearbook!  Building character and responsibility is much more important than winning or losing.  As Dennis Cavalier (Andy's dad) said, "Win without bragging; lose without excuses."  I am PROUD TO BE A HARVESTER and it touches my heart that so many people have seen how wonderful our community is in supporting our youth!  "Ya'll" come back to Pampa anytime!  (Pampa ISD's website is www.pampaisd.net for anyone who would like to take a look!)
GREAT Dateline - very heartfelt and different. I am a huge fan of Friday Night Lights and a "football mom" myself. Way to go, Stone!
Mr Phillips,

That was a great positive story with all the negitive going on in the worl today. Your show made my day! Its great to see so many involved parents. Dateline should do more of these uplifting storys as much as they can. Thanks again,

Ryan Clauson
It was great to come home from a hard day's work and unexpectedly see my hometown's football team on Dateline. It took me back to Friday nights in that stadium cheering and dancing to the marching band. I'm lucky to have that experience. Go Harvesters!
Being from Texas and having relatives from Pampa, I thought this was an excellent story of what football should be about.  I was pleased with the way Texans really conduct themselves instead of the negative way we are portrayed in movies and the media.  My hats of to Stone Phillips and Dateline for such an interesting and positive story.
Mr. Phillips, what a great story.  Over the years the Haversters have always just like any other schools, to be the best of the best and do it with pride. As a pass subsitute teacher at Pampa High School, it was good to see the Harverster again. "GO HARVESTER". Just one note to some of the negative remarks. The teachers and staff with Pampa Independent School District are only a tool, it is the student body themself to use the tools that is given to them. With that being said the student body is the "Pride of the Fighting Haversters".  Best of luck to the Haversters on up comeing events. Like I always said to the students, remember to have FUN in everything you do, and do the best that you can.
Stone and his staff did an excellent job of showing how Texas high school football can have a positive influence on the students, school and community.  I am very proud of our students.  They were poised and articulate in their interviews and were outstanding representatives of PHS.  There is much more to Pampa High School than athletic participation.  The bottom line is that we support our kids in whatever they endeavor and they never cease to make us proud.
Great Job Mr. Phillips!! The community of Pampa as well as the Football program is well deserving of this. It shows that athletics is not all about winning and portrayed what the most important things in life really are.  
Thankyou Dateline for taking the time to put this together.  Your portrayal of Pampa (community, coaches, parents, and students) was very accurate.  Although I did not play football while in high school, my family was at almost every game.  I will always have the memories of cheering on the Harvesters.  The Cavaliers are truly a wonderful family and we are very blessed to have them in Pampa.  My wife and I currently live in Oklahoma and don't know if we'll ever have the opportunity to move back to Pampa...regardless, we'll always be Harvesters!
Great job! A completely shameless plug for "Friday Night Lights" veiled as a heartwarming story about one town's (dysfunctional) love for football. A better story might be to ask why we invest so much time and money to apply so much pressure to win at such a young age?
A 16-year-old sophomore is responsible for shouldering the image of Pampa on the gridiron? Ridiculous.
Why do we televise high school football games? What's next? Televising Pop Warner games?
Why are children being used as gladiators for parents to try and live/succeed vicariously through them?
These kids should be playing football for FUN, not for the benefit of sponsors, local TV affiliates and those older than them who take the sport way too seriously.
I had the privilege of working with Andy Cavalier's father, Dennis, at Wichita High School Southeast before he moved to Pampa. One year his Southeast team was highly ranked in the state, and expected to go deep into the play-offs, perhaps all the way to a state championship.  They were scheduled to face winless Wichita West in district play, and I asked Dennis how he got his kids ready for a game like this.  "I'd rather not even play the game", he said.  "It doesn't do us any good, and it certainly doesn't do their kids any good."
The half-time score was 35-0.  Doing everything a coach can ethically do to control the outcome, that was the final score as well.  The West players streamed across the field to shake Coach Cavalier's hand, for they realized the score could have been almost any number he had picked, but he had been merciful, and in so doing showed that he cared about the opponent's players' feelings as well as those of his own.
As I watched Friday's program, I sensed that Andy's coaching priorities would make Dennis proud.  He is indeed the inheritor of his father's legacy.
Continued good luck to you, Coach Cavalier. . .and Go Harvesters!  
Stone, after watching the show on Pampa football I was curious to read your blog to see if you would comment on your football playing days in high school in St. Louis and at Yale. Sure enough you did and even mentioned a high school teammate of mine, Mike Southworth. I was a junior and Mike was a senior playing for Webster Groves. You were a senior playing for Parkway West. If you remember we beat you guys pretty good in the varsity game on a Saturday back in 1972 at Webster. Our coach told us before the game you were the only person we really had to worry about and he was right. You were a very good quarterback. On the following Monday, Webster Groves junior varsity played Parkway West's junior varsity at Parkway's home field. Or so we thought. After the game was over and we had lost (which at the time was the first time Webster had ever lost a JV game) our coach told us that in reality we were playing the varsity team because your coach was so mad at the way your team played on Saturday. He pretended he didn't know until after the game. Actually we would have won if not for the rule that at that time you could not advance a fumble in high school football which one of our players did for a touchdown which was called back. Ah the good ole days. Good luck Stone and go Rams and Cards. Say Hi to Russ Mitchell for me.
Of all the episodes to miss... i missed this one.  Will it air again???  I used to live in Amarillo and had a couple of friends in Pampa.  Pampa is one of the friendliest towns I have been in and I was fortunate enough to attend one of their football games back in the mid 80's and they do LOVE their football.  From reading the story I can tell Stone did a wonderful job!
Stone,
I feel that we must forgive poor Gary from Atascadero as he vegetates with his XBox, but I am repulsed by the comments by J. C. Darwin who is so insensitive to the team's trainer. Sheesh!! is right.  He/she should be so fortunate to experience the love and admiration of a team, school and citizens of a town like Pampa.
I thoroughly enjoyed the presentation.  It's a testimony to the love and conviction of a young coach for his team, and their respect for him. We are daily exposed to the 'trashy' side of TV; this show was a breath of fresh air (Texas air!)  
Mr Phillips and the Staff of Dateline.

Great Show!!!  Being a Friday Night Lights Fan I found it exceptional.  It seemed to me to be about the True Heart of America, as is Friday Night Lights.

Nice to see something about reality of people living, working and playing in our great nation.

Do more of this type of show, PLEASE!

Regards

Joe Monteith
Topeka, KS.
Hey, WD, does this mean you're buying me an xbox?  Thanks but no thanks, I have no use for one.  Such is the football mentality, apparently, that you can't tolerate anyone who doesn't think your way so you have to attack.  Some of us think there are better ways to teach people the right way to live than the football mentality.  I had enough bozo high school coaches who thought sports were the meaning of life, you should get together with them and watch the game, lay in some chips and beer, I'm sure you'd enjoy it.  That's better exercise than an xbox...isn't it?
I did think it was a nice story, up to the point where "God put football here to teach us about life" or some similar ridiculousness.  Maybe he put xboxes here for that too, makes about as much sense.
Stone,
Thank you, thank you, thank you on the wonderful story about the Pampa Harvesters!!  Having lived & worked in the Pampa area years ago, it was almost like being home. Our daughter was born in Pampa in the late 80's. I kept scanning the crowd to see if there was anyone I recognized, but to no such luck.  Our heart goes out to Chris Campbell & his family over the loss of his dad, not something one wishes on anyone. I never competed on sports while in high school, but allow my children to, if they want to!  I think that sports teaches them to think about someone other than themselves...remember...there is no 'I' in T-E-A-M!!  Thanks again for the wonderful show...how about more 'feel good' articles just like this one?  
Thank you Stone for bring such a heartwarming story from Pampa Texas to our living rooms across America.  I had returned to Pampa to care for my ailing mother when the NBC crew arrived in town to begin their week-long stay filming "Pride of Pampa".  I couldn't attend any of the games while staying in Pampa but could hear the announcer from the press box, the roar of the crowd, the clanging of the bell and the blasts of the airhorns as my parents home is within sight of Pampa High School.  What a treat to see the game and the story behind the story on NBC Dateline.

Returning to Pampa for three months after living in the the "big city" for forty years was like stepping into the past.  I had forgotten the wonderful feeling on belonging to a small town community.  The high scool band begins practice every morning on the football field at 8 am and can be heard from one side of town to the other.  When the "Friday Night Lights" from the athletic field are turned on, you can see them for miles across the herizon.  Football season has arrived!  The first game was the talk of the town.  Everyone had on Fighting Harvesters T-shirts or Harvester booster club shirts. Booster Club breakfast Friday mornings to support the team.  Prayers on Sunday morning for the safety of the team in churches across town... I had forgotten all of this.

Returning to Pampa brought back so many memories as my dad "Coach Woldt" had taught school in Pampa; coached football, baseball, and golf; scouted and was a referee at many basketball games and in his retirement, announced plays from the press box during football games.  He still attends all of the home games and a few out of towners.  So you can see that sports of all kinds had been a big part of my childhood.

One weekend while I was in Texas, my husband and I took an afternoon drive northeast of Pampa through Miami to Canadian.  When we drove through Miami, there was not a soul to be seen.  We drove all over town and didn't hear one lawn mower, see one person, not one car, total silence... it was like something had transported every being in town to some other place.  As we were leaving town, we saw three people standing beside the road and stopped to ask was was going on? Had the town been evacuated???  The people laughed and said they thought that Texas Tec was playing the Aggies on TV.  That gives you a real good idea what football means in Texas.  Everyone in town was home watching their favorite football teams on TV.

Thank you again for helping me memember the good old days.
Thank you Dateline NBC and Stone.  We had plans last night to watch the movie Barn Yard as a family but once we started watching Pampa we couldn't switch to the DVD.  So often Dataline has been turning to "investigations"  that our family can not watch together but last night was an exception.  

We have 4 children all under the age of 10 and they enjoyed the program throughly.  We even used it as a learning moment on what is important in life.  Helping and caring for others, there are things  more important than winning and the love of families for eachother.  

Thank you and please create more programs like this...  Ken
Thank you Stone Phillips for pressuring your bosses to film "Pride of Pampa".  We thought it was a wonderful story.  Of course, we could be prejudiced because Andy Cavalier is our Grandson!!  His mother, Kathy, who you interviewed, is our daughter.  Anyway...you can imagine how proud we are of Andy, and how at times I had a lump in my throat during the program.  Thanks again...and keep up the good work.
Thanks Stone and Thank you for focusing the importance that it takes many members of the the team,and just who those team members are that make up a TEAM, and thanks for not leaving out a very special member of that team, Trent Loter.  It makes those of us touched with disabilities have hope, that not all schools, coaches, administrators and school districts discriminate against the disabled just because they were born different, but special.  I am sure that every year when Trent Loter shows up in that locker room he IS  beaming with pride, and if he wasn't there the team would not be complete.  Thank you Coach Cavalier for placing such importance on Trents importance to your team as it shows that he has a wonderful place with the Harversters and the Team could not get by without him.  I am the mother of a son with Fragile X Syndrome who was also supposed to be the part of his high school football team until he graduated just this past June 2006, he is 22.  He LOVES sports and LOVES his football, but unlike Trent the coaches and the administration of his high school found everyway possible to exclude him from team pictures, uniforms and awards due him.  AJ would still love to like Trent be with his high school team and be cheering them on, but the coaches, administrators and school district just did not seem to have a heart not even the size of Texas, just no heart at all!  You have a great thing going Coach Cavalier.  I too went back to my son's school, my old alma mater and coached girls field hockey, so it really hurts when your child is hurt in places you can't explain and ways you can't fix, at a place you were so proud to be from, your old high school.  Congrats to you Coach, your father would me more than proud of you
Thank you for the great portrayal of Pampa.  My husband, our two older children and I graduated from Pampa High School.  We recently made a job realated move from Pampa - moving our sophomore son who was slated to play on varsity this year.  We had spent  25 years of our marriage in Pampa and lived 2 blocks from Harvester Field.  We went to as many games as we could over the years, and went back for the game shown. We know all of those who were interviewed.  You did a great job of realistically representing the character of these friends and former neighbors.  
Our son is still involeved in high school football.  I appreciate your speaking of the positive aspects of athletics. It isn't all of life, but certainly can help develop well rounded individuals.
While the high chance of injuries makes football a big question to me (I think that any activity with team work can help boys learn responsibilities).  However, I am very glad that you included in your segment the piece on Mr Loter.  The inclusion of this man shows that the couch really does have his priorities pretty good.
Stone Phillips, your “Pride of Pampa” segment should win the award of all awards for the tender and enlightening way you covered the Pampa, Texas football program as well as the lives of the students, parents, and especially Coach Cavalier that leads this wonderful team of hardworking players.

I was born and raised through grade school in Pampa.  My Dad, Robert Bird, was born and raised in Pampa, fathered 6 children from the same town and now lives in Oklahoma with his wife, Carol.  As a result of this program he was prompted to share several family stories with me by phone this morning that I didn’t even know.  My aunt Sally, Daddy’s oldest sister, was in the first graduating class of Pampa High School.  He told me how one of their first homes was near the Pampa High football field and my Granddaddy Bird would pull his vehicle up to the fence so he and the kids could watch the first half of the ballgames and then get in free for the second half.  Daddy told me he had tears several times while watching the stories you covered, as he remembered his past days at Pampa High School.  Apparently, my uncle, Walker Bird, and his wife, Dorothy, who still live in Pampa, (my aunt Mary and Uncle Cayson do too) were part of the crowd in the football stands during the DATELINE taping of Pampa’s football game.

Funny thing to know, as a young married wife and mother in the late 70’s, my husband and I lived in Odessa, Texas and were part of the fanatic following of the Permian High School team…..MOJO!!!  ”Friday Night Lights” hardly covers the full extent of the fan’s fanaticism that I have since realized is simply craziness!!!

Thank you, Stone, for following your instincts in choosing Pampa’s football team for this program.  Those of us with roots and family still living in Pampa, along with those whose lives have been planted there for even a short season, KNOW that it is a small town full of love, character, and especially spiritual significance!!!  I do believe that Coach Andy Cavalier was a shining light and powerful example in his testifying to the “heart of Pampa” . . . it is God!!
I watched most of the football show last night, couldn't quite get into it like most. as I sat and watched I was continually flinching, as I watched the show with my husband who is a great football fan my heart went out to him and all the other young people that are hurt, disabled, in chronic pain, from is game,I say to myself why??? all for the game!!! my husband at age of 16 was seriously hurt playing high school football, and went through a spinal fusion in the late seventies and is in pain everyday and will and has never as long as I've been with him (30plus years) been out of pain not for even one day. and I ask myself why? oh all for the game I can't believe we as a society really do this to our own children. if only the chess club could get the rep. oh boy!!!!
at any rate I'm sure not to many coaches or parents think of the worst but maybe just maybe at some point this game called football will go by the wayside and spare many the hurt that can come of it. and for the cheering mom in the stands that already had two son hurt  playing foot ball I really think she need a brain adjustment!!!!!!!!!!!!lets see a show about sports injuries and hopefully some parents well find other sports for their children to join in. sorry but this is the hard truth!  
I had the honor of going to college with Andy's parents, Dennis and Kathy. Andy reminded me so much of his dad. Dennis was one great football player and person that we all still miss. Thanks for your great program that I am sure touched many hearts!


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